What's the deal with Daddies?

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    Feb 25, 2018 3:32 AM GMT
    My friend was complaining he looked like a daddy with his pot belly hanging out and I said not ALL daddies have a pot belly. In fact, most of the daddies I've met or
    seen online look pretty sexy and hot. I do find some"daddies" of all ages attractive. He likes "bears" and I told him he looked like a teddy bear. lol Can a daddy & bear be one in the same. LOL

    What makes a man a daddy?
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    Feb 25, 2018 3:54 AM GMT
    Hard to describe but you know it when you see it...

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  • tonyatl

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    Feb 25, 2018 4:17 AM GMT
    2bnaked saidMy friend was complaining he looked like a daddy with his pot belly hanging out and I said not ALL daddies have a pot belly. In fact, most of the daddies I've met or
    seen online look pretty sexy and hot. I do find some"daddies" of all ages attractive. He likes "bears" and I told him he looked like a teddy bear. lol Can a daddy & bear be one in the same. LOL

    What makes a man a daddy?

    whatever the defintion, and I think it is reasonably intuitive (to a point) It is a term I despise and a superb conversation stopper for me. :-O who's your daddy?
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    Feb 25, 2018 4:34 AM GMT
    I know young hotties call older guys daddy. Back in the day I would call older guys OLD GOATS, I kinda like the daddy title, now maybe it's the sugar part they want too.....or maybe it's the good stuff!
  • MuchoMasQueMu...

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    Feb 25, 2018 4:43 AM GMT
    Muskelprotz saidHard to describe but you know it when you see it...

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    Works for me.
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    Feb 25, 2018 4:50 AM GMT
    daddy? or bear?

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  • mybud

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    Feb 25, 2018 4:57 AM GMT
    2bnaked saiddaddy? or bear?

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    daddy
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    Feb 25, 2018 5:09 AM GMT
    Hey,
    My-Bud,
    Do you like it when you're called a daddy?
    Just wondering?
  • mybud

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    Feb 25, 2018 5:17 AM GMT
    2bnaked saidHey,
    My-Bud,
    Do you like it when you're called a daddy?
    Just wondering?
    Initially I didn't, but my reality is to embrace it...With age brings experience..security and compassion.Some younger guys are searching for those qualities I possess.
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    Feb 25, 2018 5:20 AM GMT
    mybud said
    2bnaked saidHey,
    My-Bud,
    Do you like it when you're called a daddy?
    Just wondering?
    Initially I didn't, but my reality is to embrace it...With age brings experience..security and compassion.Some younger guys are searching for those qualities I possess.


    I like being called daddy. haha
  • mybud

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    Feb 25, 2018 5:30 AM GMT
    2bnaked said
    mybud said
    2bnaked saidHey,
    My-Bud,
    Do you like it when you're called a daddy?
    Just wondering?
    Initially I didn't, but my reality is to embrace it...With age brings experience..security and compassion.Some younger guys are searching for those qualities I possess.


    I like being called daddy. haha
    You have a baby face though....
  • barefootlover

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    Feb 25, 2018 5:39 AM GMT
    a lot of guys that could be my child often call me daddy
  • LEANDRO_NJ

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    Feb 25, 2018 2:48 PM GMT
    I never understood the term "Daddy" much less why would
    an older gay man want to associate with it when dating
    someone much younger then them!? personally calling a
    very young gay guy a twink is just as insulting as calling
    an older gay man a Daddy! in contrast in the latino gay
    community calling a guy Papi(Daddy translated in spanish)
    is just a word of endearment, and nothing to do with a
    sexual role or undertone! if you don't believe me just
    listen into a conversation among straight latino men; and
    you will hear the word Papi/Daddy exchange quite often
    among them! it has nothing to do with either a sexual
    role or undertone!
  • bro4bro

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    Feb 25, 2018 6:09 PM GMT
    There seems to be a lot of disagreement in the community on what the term means. I've met guys in their late 30s who say they want a "daddy". And I've met guys as young as 30 who describe themselves as a "daddy". I guess it's in the eye of the beholder.

    I'm OK with being called a daddy, to a point. If it's a case of a young guy who happens to like older guys acknowledging that I'm his target demographic, fine. But when it turns into role playing and fetishizing, I'm out the door. I don't need a guy who wants to pretend he's being fucked by his father (yep they're out there, in frightening numbers).
  • LEANDRO_NJ

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    Feb 25, 2018 6:53 PM GMT
    bro4bro saidThere seems to be a lot of disagreement in the community on what the term means. I've met guy in their late 30s who say they want a "daddy". And I've met guys as young as 30 who describe themselves as a "daddy". I guess it's in the eye of the beholder.

    I'm OK with being called a daddy, to a point. If it's a case of a young guy who happens to like older guys acknowledging that I'm his target demographic, fine. But when it turns into role playing and fetishizing, I'm out the door. I don't need a guy who wants to pretend he's being fucked by his father (yep they're out there, in frightening numbers).


    Yep!

  • tonyatl

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    Feb 25, 2018 8:30 PM GMT
    I guess the term "daddy" needs definition. When I was first exposed to the term it referred to an "older" man past his youthful prime. Usually it implied Someone over 40.

    Broader usage indicates 1. an older (gay) man; 2. A man who is senior or dominant in a relationship ( a term I use precisely as any Connection between 2 entities); 3. A man who is established or authoritative relative to a younger counterpart.

    The man in the Truck cap could fit the bill though the one below does not imo.

    pS. I wish I could find a Truck tank top. that series was good porn.
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    Feb 25, 2018 8:46 PM GMT
    Just being masculine/the top or dominant one. When I was 22 I lived with a 25 year old and his partner. They were really into that daddy stuff even though they were both young.
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    Feb 25, 2018 8:47 PM GMT
    As far as I am concerned, it is strictly an age thing. However, a whole lot more to it goes into it for me. That guy in the hat is a perfect example lol.

    Like, the whole Jake Cruise thing disgusts me. I would never call him that.

    Also, in regards to the bear comments, I think a daddy/muscle bear is interchangeable; lots of hair and muscle is required, but a guy can be a daddy without being a bear because they are not hairy at all. Bears by themselves can be hairy but just fat..... enough said.. NOT a daddy to me.
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    Feb 25, 2018 11:11 PM GMT
    Kosmo1234 saidAs far as I am concerned, it is strictly an age thing. However, a whole lot more to it goes into it for me. That guy in the hat is a perfect example lol.

    Like, the whole Jake Cruise thing disgusts me. I would never call him that.

    Also, in regards to the bear comments, I think a daddy/muscle bear is interchangeable; lots of hair and muscle is required, but a guy can be a daddy without being a bear because they are not hairy at all. Bears by themselves can be hairy but just fat..... enough said.. NOT a daddy to me.


    I have to agree with the post above me. I believe it's all about age.
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    Feb 26, 2018 2:17 AM GMT
    Kosmo1234 saidAs far as I am concerned, it is strictly an age thing. However, a whole lot more to it goes into it for me. That guy in the hat is a perfect example lol.

    Like, the whole Jake Cruise thing disgusts me. I would never call him that.

    Also, in regards to the bear comments, I think a daddy/muscle bear is interchangeable; lots of hair and muscle is required, but a guy can be a daddy without being a bear because they are not hairy at all. Bears by themselves can be hairy but just fat..... enough said.. NOT a daddy to me.


    Thank you daddy! haha
    I think anyone over 30 is now a daddy?? hahaha

    Oh well, stay hot and fit and everyone will do fine. RIGHT?
  • trixareforkid...

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    Feb 26, 2018 2:25 AM GMT
    The daddy thing is a rebranding exercise so that fat guys won't go broke paying too much for rent boys.
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    Mar 01, 2018 8:33 PM GMT
    Oh...... lol

    DADDY BOTTOM LOOKING FOR YOUNG & HUNG TOP

    48, white, married, fit tight bottom, can not host, meet at your place, looking for same age or younger (18+), hung top

    Married guys who cheat are not cool!
  • Offset

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    May 10, 2018 7:42 AM GMT
    I'm confused about this issue as well. I don't like these terms gay men use.