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    Feb 27, 2018 1:48 PM GMT
    How do u now if u are gay
  • tonyatl

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    Feb 27, 2018 3:25 PM GMT
    Stormi87 saidHow do u now if u are gay


    it's deceptively simple. If you are sufficiently attracted to men to have sex with a man, then you are homosexual. There are associated Issues such as orientation, fantasy, etc., but sexuality can only be determined by praxis. otherwise it is strictly speclative. sexuality is actually a complex topic in psychology
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    Mar 05, 2018 1:47 PM GMT
    How do u come out of the closet
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    Mar 05, 2018 5:40 PM GMT
    Stormi87 saidHow do u come out of the closet

    Get on with living your life.
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    Mar 05, 2018 6:00 PM GMT
    Stormi87 saidHow do u come out of the closet


    How each person comes out of the closet is an individual matter. What was right for one person isn't right for the next. Only you can answer how to do that and how you come out might vary between each friend and family member. There are several threads on this site about coming out, take a look at those to help you figure out what might work for you.
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    Mar 06, 2018 2:15 PM GMT
    I miss the old real jock chat room
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    Mar 06, 2018 4:44 PM GMT
    Stormi87 saidI miss the old real jock chat room


    That's been gone for years! And years later, you still don't know if you're gay?

    So, just go out and have sex with random guys, and see how you feel about it.
  • Ookami

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    Mar 08, 2018 8:54 PM GMT
    I knew I was gay without even having sex...
    You gotta also open a bit (your mind) and be aware that "tags" are something people like, but you don't need them, you don't need to be gay, just be you, if you feel romantically or sexually attracted to a guy, well you could be tag as gay, but in the end, you are you.

    Now, how to know?
    Do you feel aroused from provocative chat/images from guys? You feel attach/connected/into guys? That's things that matter!
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    Mar 08, 2018 8:59 PM GMT
    With sexuality being innate. Other than for those confused by the complexities of bisexuality.
    I knew from a very young age that I was a homo, and attracted to the same gender.
    No different how heterosexuality is innate for heterosexuals.
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    Mar 08, 2018 9:57 PM GMT
    Plooje said
    Stormi87 said
    How do u now if u are gay

    I don't know. And you certainly shouldn't believe anything Art Deco says on here about being gay. He has been married to women twice, has fathered children with them and claims that through all of that he "didn't know" he was gay. So it's best not to take any advice from Art Deco at all. He is a bisexual (or maybe even heterosexual) pretending to be gay.

    Interesting vicious personal attack on an RJ member, in violation of TOU/TOS. And of course without any advice to the OP. Well, how could you, being a gay hater who never gives helpful advice, just gives us attacks.

    And yes, I've unblocked a few of you, to see what nastiness you're been up to. And you certainly don't disappoint.

    Now I will offer some thoughts to the OP. Not only to help him, but also to see you frustrated in your goal of giving a gay guy no assistance & comfort.
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    Mar 08, 2018 10:12 PM GMT
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    How do u now if u are gay

    A tough & complex question. If you're just exploring coming out at 38 then you would be a late-bloomer, like I was.

    What delayed my own self-recognition was fighting the common stereotype of the gay guy on which I was raised in the 1950s & '60s. I didn't fit that faggy model. I loved the outdoors, camping, fishing & hunting, rode a motorcycle from age 17, was in Army uniform for 25 years. How could **I** be gay? I was no weak sissy.

    Plus family and career pressure pushed me into marriage, and producing grandchildren for them, which I dutifully did. But I never went on a straight date until I was 26, didn't attend the HS prom, had no interest in women. I finally did it to make my Mother stop nagging me, and to advance my Army career. Where we used to joke about having an "issue" wife, like issue boots.

    The final irony was when I learned both my parents always knew I was gay, from childhood. Why didn't anyone ever tell clueless ME???

    I don't know what your own circumstances are, but you might give us some background. What makes you ask this question today?
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    Mar 08, 2018 10:37 PM GMT
    art_deco said
    Plooje said
    Stormi87 said
    How do u now if u are gay

    I don't know. And you certainly shouldn't believe anything Art Deco says on here about being gay. He has been married to women twice, has fathered children with them and claims that through all of that he "didn't know" he was gay. So it's best not to take any advice from Art Deco at all. He is a bisexual (or maybe even heterosexual) pretending to be gay.

    Interesting vicious personal attack on an RJ member, in violation of TOU/TOS. And of course without any advice to the OP. Well, how could you, being a gay hater who never gives helpful advice, just gives us attacks.

    And yes, I've unblocked a few of you, to see what nastiness you're been up to. And you certainly don't disappoint.

    Now I will offer some thoughts to the OP. Not only to help him, but also to see you frustrated in your goal of giving a gay guy no assistance & comfort.

    The hypocrisy for the Daddy of personal attacks, is he playing the victim again, or simply doing a Hillary; again?
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    Mar 08, 2018 10:46 PM GMT
    art_deco said
    Stormi87 said
    How do u now if u are gay

    A tough & complex question. If you're just exploring coming out at 38 then you would be a late-bloomer, like I was.

    What delayed my own self-recognition was fighting the common stereotype of the gay guy on which I was raised in the 1950s & '60s. I didn't fit that faggy model. I loved the outdoors, camping, fishing & hunting, rode a motorcycle from age 17, was in Army uniform for 25 years. How could **I** be gay? I was no weak sissy.

    Plus family and career pressure pushed me into marriage, and producing grandchildren for them, which I dutifully did. But I never went on a straight date until I was 26, didn't attend the HS prom, had no interest in women. I finally did it to make my Mother stop nagging me, and to advance my Army career. Where we used to joke about having an "issue" wife, like issue boots.

    The final irony was when I learned both my parents always knew I was gay, from childhood. Why didn't anyone ever tell clueless ME???

    I don't know what your own circumstances are, but you might give us some background. What makes you ask this question today?

    Since you'd preformed your alleged duties of taking a first wife, and breeding with her. Why was there ever a need for a second wife dearest half Brother?
    I know my early life could of been different, if I was born with the ability to shag sheilas. But alas being Born a Bona Fide Homosexual. I never had the choices you did half brother, by not being born a bisexual, as you were.
    But declaring before my teens that I would someday marry a man, at the end of the 60's, in rural Australia, little different to America in the 50's.
    Means I also have bigger kahunas, than you ever did. Nor did I have to be sent to a camp to learn to man up, as that came naturally to me.
    loving the out doors, champing, fishing learning to drive at six in a paddock bomb, riding motor bikes at 14, around the time, I also became a free spirit.
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    Mar 09, 2018 11:21 AM GMT
    art_deco said
    Stormi87 said
    How do u now if u are gay

    A tough & complex question. If you're just exploring coming out at 38 then you would be a late-bloomer, like I was.

    What delayed my own self-recognition was fighting the common stereotype of the gay guy on which I was raised in the 1950s & '60s. I didn't fit that faggy model. I loved the outdoors, camping, fishing & hunting, rode a motorcycle from age 17, was in Army uniform for 25 years. How could **I** be gay? I was no weak sissy.

    Plus family and career pressure pushed me into marriage, and producing grandchildren for them, which I dutifully did. But I never went on a straight date until I was 26, didn't attend the HS prom, had no interest in women. I finally did it to make my Mother stop nagging me, and to advance my Army career. Where we used to joke about having an "issue" wife, like issue boots.

    The final irony was when I learned both my parents always knew I was gay, from childhood. Why didn't anyone ever tell clueless ME???

    I don't know what your own circumstances are, but you might give us some background. What makes you ask this question today?

    Take away the blame game, because it's not the actions of a real man.
    Daddy Deco, they were all choices you made.
    You've no one to blame but yourself.
    Your just not man enough to own them.
    Regardless they are all choices you made.
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    Mar 09, 2018 7:38 PM GMT
    If your a Bona Fide Homosexual, just get out there and live yuour life.
    You have no need to come out. Not unless you want cake and booloons.
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    Mar 10, 2018 2:14 AM GMT
    Stormi87 saidHow do u come out of the closet
    Turn the door knob....
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    Mar 10, 2018 12:00 PM GMT
    I new I was gay I have always loved gay people.
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    Mar 10, 2018 5:37 PM GMT
    Stormi87 saidI new I was gay I have always loved gay people.

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    Mar 10, 2018 11:38 PM GMT
    If you only want to be with men, you are 100% gay. IF you only want to be with women you are 100% straight. However, there are many varying levels of Bi-sexuality. Don't worry about your label. Be you and you can never go wrong.
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    Mar 11, 2018 11:14 AM GMT
    BiMeGuy saidIf you only want to be with men, you are 100% gay. IF you only want to be with women you are 100% straight. However, there are many varying levels of Bi-sexuality. Don't worry about your label. Be you and you can never go wrong.

    Although bi is still bi, regardless of the lifestyle one is living.
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    Mar 12, 2018 8:06 AM GMT
    Stormi87 saidI new I was gay I have always loved gay people.

    Not a self loathing bisexual then. That's good mate.
    No need to be a try hard gay, to make up for lost time.
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    Mar 12, 2018 5:08 PM GMT
    How do you now u have HIV if u never got tested before
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    Mar 12, 2018 5:32 PM GMT
    Stormi87 saidHow do you now u have HIV if u never got tested before
    Duh.

    You don't.

    If you have had sex or injected, get tested.