Anal sex

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    Apr 05, 2007 10:27 PM GMT
    Would it be a deal braker if someone you
    dated was not into anal sex ?
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    Apr 06, 2007 12:53 AM GMT
    Nope, not a deal breaker for me.
  • jc_online

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    Apr 06, 2007 6:26 PM GMT
    probablly at some point it would be a problem.
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    Apr 06, 2007 7:13 PM GMT
    If your versitile, It would be a big problem!
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    Apr 06, 2007 9:18 PM GMT
    Yes, and it has been.
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    Apr 06, 2007 9:19 PM GMT
    Since cock in my ass is what I want, yes, it would be a deal breaker.
  • cityguy39

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    Apr 07, 2007 2:29 AM GMT
    I think it would be a problem if one of the two guys wanted anal sex and the other wasn't willing to participate. There would be two choices, adjust to being in a relationship wihtout the sex you really wanted to have, or go outside of the relationship.
  • phill

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    Apr 10, 2007 12:32 AM GMT
    Im not normally a very sexual person so my answer is no. I am well versed in oral sex even though im an anal virgin. I had a relationship last as long as 6 months without having anal sex. I previously thought that i didnt want to have anal sex do to sexual abuse as a child but it turns out when i really looked at my reactions that i was fearful of offering something like that to someone because i felt it was the only thing i really had to give in a realtionship. Which is ridiculous to think that my intelligence and interests where not as valid as ass.

    anywho hope this helped.
  • blkdevil66

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    Apr 10, 2007 3:54 AM GMT
    Not a deal breaker at all for me. Even if there was no oral no biggy. (i've had WAY too much sex so i'd be 100% fine with that. making out though... couldn't do without.
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    Apr 10, 2007 11:41 AM GMT
    Not a deal breaker for me either.
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    Apr 12, 2007 4:00 AM GMT
    It depends on whether I see us having a future or not. If I felt that it was leading to something, it would have to discussed.
  • GQjock

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    Apr 12, 2007 10:21 AM GMT
    No ...not a deal breaker
    but he'd better make up for it in some other kind of way.. :)
  • OptimusMatt

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    Apr 12, 2007 5:23 PM GMT
    Dealbreaker - it's one of the interests my potential partner is going to share. We can be friends, but if we can't be lovers....we're just friends. Period.
  • dfrourke

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    Apr 21, 2007 5:51 PM GMT
    ...as a "versatile" member of my community...I am wondering if this is directed toward 'topping'...

    There are TOYS to take care of myself if someone was not into anal at all for myself...

    And if I had a boyfriend who never bottomed for me...it wouldn't be the end of the world...

    - David
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    Apr 30, 2007 11:33 PM GMT
    not a deal breaker, though he's gotta be interested in everything else
  • HotMuscleFun

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    May 13, 2007 2:36 AM GMT
    One would have to ask the question why he is not interested? Sounds to me personally like some counceling could prove to be useful in this situation.

    It is like saying I have a cock, but I refuse to jack it off without any rational reason.

    James
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    May 16, 2007 1:15 PM GMT
    I was sexually abuse when I was 18. After that horrible experience (I was bleeding for weeks) I have never bottom again.I try topping during my twenties , but frankly I never really enjoy it. Nowadays I am satisfies with oral sex, mutual mastubation,plenty of kissing and other ways to satisfies myself and my men. No unhygenic and unsafe anal sex for me, thank you
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    May 30, 2007 12:33 AM GMT
    anal sex is deeply emotional experience for a couple. lack of it to me would suggest a lack of emotional connection, definitely a deal breaker
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    Jul 12, 2009 8:13 PM GMT
    ^ Troll. Ignore. Reported.

    To the question: No.
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    Jul 13, 2009 12:10 AM GMT

    I don't do anal , but I do douche to be polite, that's gotta be clean enough to eat off. icon_razz.gif

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    Jul 01, 2010 4:35 PM GMT
    HotMuscleFun saidOne would have to ask the question why he is not interested? Sounds to me personally like some counceling could prove to be useful in this situation.

    It is like saying I have a cock, but I refuse to jack it off without any rational reason.

    James


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    Being attracted to men and wanting to butt fuck other men are not mutually inclusive. You, sir, are the one in need of counseling. Especially if you believe certain behaviors are required of you as a same-sex attracted man.
  • buckram

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    Aug 14, 2013 4:10 AM GMT
    Let us now consider "FROTTAGE": "sexual gratification from rubbing against the body of another." (DO try this at home; NOT on public transportation, elevators, etc.)!
    This was the accepted method respectable Ancient Greek men employed with their younger companions.
    Also, what's wrong with the good old fashioned hand-job? Yes, that's in the dictionary too -- always the best guide in these matters.)
    And PS: not "FROMAGE," which is French for "cheese," which could be disastrous.
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    Aug 14, 2013 4:12 AM GMT
    As long as there is a Farmer's market close by.. I'm not worried! icon_cool.gif

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