hickeys.. embarassing..

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    Feb 26, 2009 9:31 AM GMT
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    I stopped and looked at my reflection in a window shop, just to make sure my hair doesn't like someone's who just had sex .. After that I ate something at a small resturant and then went back to dorms by the train.
    I said hi to my dormates and and went to the bathroom...

    Now I can see it in the mirror: I have 3 huge hickeys on my neck !! no wonder everybody was giving me a weird look ..embarassing ..

    So, I have to wear a scarf for the next few days ..

    [Edit : I wrote suction marks instead of hickeys..so I changed it now]


    Did this happen to you ?? do you bother covering them?

  • NYCguy74

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    Feb 26, 2009 3:00 PM GMT
    at least in the US those are called hickeys

    One time i had gone back to where i used to live for a friend's wedding. I wound up hooking up with another old friend. he gave me a hickey or 2, but at least it was just covered by the collar of a t-shirt. I was leaving my hotel the next morning, and i had my back pack with me, which pulled the collar of my shirt down. The desk clerk was like "is that a hickey." I can't believe she actually asked me about it.
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    Feb 26, 2009 3:21 PM GMT
    They are GROSS & NASTY!!!
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    Feb 26, 2009 3:28 PM GMT
    This is so 60's and 70's.
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    Feb 26, 2009 3:46 PM GMT
    It really sucks (pun intended) that they feel so f-ing good getting them, tho. I hate that I have to miss out on that feeling because they look like shit. My neck is def a weak spot, if not an achilles heel.
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    Feb 26, 2009 5:08 PM GMT
    If you know what you are doing you can still get the feeling like you are getting a hickey but leave no mark. A guy I was seeing kept complaining that I was giving him hickeys so I told him to go look in the mirror. He was amazed that he didn't see any.
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    Feb 26, 2009 5:16 PM GMT
    Got to admit I love getting them. They drive me wild. However I enjoy them more on the lower neck area. So I just tell the guy giving them to me to keep them below the neck line. If he can't listen one he doesn't get to do it again..or I return the favor.

    To those who do get thiem above the neck line. What is the embarrassing part? Really it is a sign you had soem really hto and wild sex..
  • boilerup_82

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    Feb 26, 2009 6:51 PM GMT
    they're not just embarassing...they're trashy!
  • tas_515

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    Feb 26, 2009 6:57 PM GMT
    growingbig saidIf you know what you are doing you can still get the feeling like you are getting a hickey but leave no mark. A guy I was seeing kept complaining that I was giving him hickeys so I told him to go look in the mirror. He was amazed that he didn't see any.


    growing, so what's the technique?

    Tim
  • kaccioto

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    Feb 26, 2009 7:20 PM GMT
    1. apply pen cap to hickey

    2. twist until red

    clears up the clot and works all the time
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    Feb 26, 2009 7:40 PM GMT
    I remember being called over by two my friends...very drunk lesbians. Had no idea what they wanted, leaned over th bar to ask them why they were calling me over and each of them attacked a side of my neck.

    Went to work the next day, and this really pathetic, fat ugly manager not even from my department jumped on the opportunity to give me a talking down.

    I wasted no time in calling him a loser, he so hated gay guys aand jealous his boss loved me, but i could never get him to cross the line and say something i could actually use aggainst him
  • metta

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    Feb 26, 2009 7:57 PM GMT

    I don't think that I have ever had one. icon_redface.gif
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    Feb 26, 2009 8:19 PM GMT
    Hickeys are only embarrassing if you feel shame about them. And why should we feel shame for making out with someone? Shouldn't we feel proud?

    Hickeys are a badge of honor, in my eyes!
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    Feb 26, 2009 8:34 PM GMT
    rezdylan saidHickeys are only embarrassing if you feel shame about them. And why should we feel shame for making out with someone? Shouldn't we feel proud?

    Hickeys are a badge of honor, in my eyes!


    I could agree with you on that. I don't mind getting hickeys but there are times (especially if heading home after a nice make-out session) that I have to hide them since my family gives me shit about it all. What doesn't help is the fact that I keep myself in the closet.
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    Feb 26, 2009 9:37 PM GMT
    helium said
    rezdylan saidHickeys are only embarrassing if you feel shame about them. And why should we feel shame for making out with someone? Shouldn't we feel proud?

    Hickeys are a badge of honor, in my eyes!


    I could agree with you on that. I don't mind getting hickeys but there are times (especially if heading home after a nice make-out session) that I have to hide them since my family gives me shit about it all. What doesn't help is the fact that I keep myself in the closet.


    I came back today to my parent's house for the weekend, covering my hickeys now is a must .. they still think I'm too busy with studies ... or will start considering girls ..

    gosh I love dick ..
  • MikemikeMike

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    Feb 26, 2009 9:43 PM GMT
    Luckydog76 saidThis is so 60's and 70's.


    That was junior high school stuff. How old are you ghost?
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    Feb 26, 2009 9:44 PM GMT
    tas_515 said
    growingbig saidIf you know what you are doing you can still get the feeling like you are getting a hickey but leave no mark. A guy I was seeing kept complaining that I was giving him hickeys so I told him to go look in the mirror. He was amazed that he didn't see any.


    growing, so what's the technique?

    Tim


    I doubt I could explain, but your tongue is involved.
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    Feb 26, 2009 9:48 PM GMT
    MikemikeMike said
    Luckydog76 saidThis is so 60's and 70's.


    That was junior high school stuff. How old are you ghost?

    Old enough to be wiser....
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    Feb 26, 2009 9:53 PM GMT
    Luckydog76 said
    MikemikeMike said
    Luckydog76 saidThis is so 60's and 70's.


    That was junior high school stuff. How old are you ghost?

    Old enough to be wiser....


    I didn't mean to get them ... it just happened ... it's not my fault that I had intense sex .. icon_twisted.gif

  • MikemikeMike

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    Feb 26, 2009 9:55 PM GMT
    Were you drunk and had no idea the suction biting on your neck. In HS girls did that to put their mark on you because it would keep others away. Maybe he's a dracula school girl, or he is making sure you don't bang someone else.icon_neutral.gif
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    Feb 26, 2009 10:00 PM GMT
    MikemikeMike saidWere you drunk and had no idea the suction biting on your neck. In HS girls did that to put their mark on you because it would keep others away. Maybe he's a dracula school girl, or he is making sure you don't bang someone else.icon_neutral.gif


    I was numb .. and my neck is sentsitive he doesn't need to suck my spine out so it can appear ..
  • EricPrado

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    Feb 26, 2009 10:38 PM GMT
    3 huge hickeys?? what happened to just getting one?
    I personally never liked getting or giving someone a hickey. The idea of someone biting my neck or other part of my body until it turns red and..uhm, no. You know, it does make people look at you in a weird way if they see one on you.
    For example, one time at Mcdonald's there was this guy working there and when it was my turn to order all I saw was like, 8 to 10 hickeys spread all over his neck..it was really gross. I even overheard some girls talking about him. And no, they weren't nice things.

    I guess one is okay...but anymore than that just looks bad.
    Cover them up!
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    Feb 26, 2009 11:25 PM GMT
    I got a hickey once back in the '80s, the night before my parents were coming for dinner! ... icon_eek.gif ... I ran out and got some makeup to try to cover it up. It must be 25 years later and I still have that bottle of Mabelline makeup....I use for bad zits now....it not only covers them up but is actually a great antibiotic.
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    Feb 26, 2009 11:39 PM GMT

    Hickeys....the original Tramp Stamp. icon_lol.gif
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    Feb 27, 2009 12:11 AM GMT
    I agree they are so embarrassing and a sign for being a tramp haha, but my neck is so sensitive I just love having someone suck on my neck...if you can get to my neck and hit the right spot its pretty much over for me, I am putty in your hands...