Question about private pics.

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    Feb 27, 2009 3:19 AM GMT

    Hey, when someone hotlist you guys, do you sometimes, without them having asked first, open your privates for them. I'm just asking because....a friend of mine does that.
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    Feb 27, 2009 3:42 AM GMT
    No. I'll tell them thanks. I only unlock if I know the person or they ask. They are only of my face anyway.
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    Feb 27, 2009 3:50 AM GMT
    ...mine ain't

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    Feb 27, 2009 3:51 AM GMT
    lol. icon_twisted.gif
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    Feb 27, 2009 4:02 AM GMT
    I keep things simple. No private pics in my profile. If someone hot lists me, I just send a quick "thank you" email though.

    I don't think anyone should feel obligated to unlock their private pics, even if a guys asks. Those pics are private for a reason. It's really at your discretion who you unlock your private pics for.

    On a related note.. Some guy explained to me that he unlocked his private pics for me because he was checking out my profile. Since all of my pics were public, he thought it was only fair to show me all of his pics. I thought that was pretty nice of him.
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    Feb 27, 2009 4:03 AM GMT
    GuiltyGear said...mine ain't

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    boing indeed! icon_lol.gif
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    Feb 27, 2009 4:10 AM GMT
    xrichx said

    On a related note.. Some guy explained to me that he unlocked his private pics for me because he was checking out my profile. Since all of my pics were public, he thought it was only fair to show me all of his pics. I thought that was pretty nice of him.


    Oh, he's smooth, I could learn from him!
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    Feb 27, 2009 7:05 AM GMT
    If I had private pics I wouldn't open them unless I had some conversation with the guy first.
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    Feb 27, 2009 12:42 PM GMT
    I do not deny anyone when they as to see them. There are not sexual though. They just have a friend in them w/me so I don't put them out there in respect for him.
  • DCEric

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    Feb 27, 2009 1:22 PM GMT
    It's ask and you shall receive for me.
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    Feb 27, 2009 1:22 PM GMT
    I dont understand the need for private pics.

    Although to each his own and if you are happy to unlock private pics for someone you havent talked to then by all means! Go for it. Also I think there are plenty of guys here who's private pics aren't so "private."
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    Feb 27, 2009 2:24 PM GMT
    Shit, I haven't been thanking people for hotlisting me. I didn't know the protocol on that. I usually only answer emails if they send me an actual message. Now I feel like a douchebag, lol.

    And I am slightly pulling down my shorts in the front in my 'private pic' so they didn't pass the censor board. It's basically PG-13.
  • Timbales

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    Feb 27, 2009 2:32 PM GMT
    Mine aren't nekkid, but I did open them to a few people that opened theirs to me. No one has asked to see mine anyway. I do say thanks if someone hotlists me, though.
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    Feb 27, 2009 2:33 PM GMT
    the thing i dont understand about private photos is when sum1 unlocks them that i dont even know...am i supposed to thank them?icon_redface.gif
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    Feb 27, 2009 2:33 PM GMT
    GuiltyGear said...mine ain't

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    Love Tigger, and this is simular to the tat on my ass of him..

    as for the private pics..they have to ask nicely..and say the magic word
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    Feb 27, 2009 2:42 PM GMT
    I unlock my private RJ pics to guys I've chatted, whose profiles suggest to me they're reliable & safe, who won't spam me all over the Internet. I'd prefer not to mention what my "formula" for profiles is, and I know nothing is foolproof. In fact, I've been badly burned before, my nudes going everywhere. Lesson learned: no nudes again, EVER! (Didn't happen here on RJ, BTW)
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    Feb 28, 2009 2:07 AM GMT
    trainerkp saidShit, I haven't been thanking people for hotlisting me. I didn't know the protocol on that. I usually only answer emails if they send me an actual message. Now I feel like a douchebag, lol.

    And I am slightly pulling down my shorts in the front in my 'private pic' so they didn't pass the censor board. It's basically PG-13.

    Ha! Don't feel bad. There was a lengthy discussion regarding the Hot List also. And the consensus was that it was optional, but much appreciated, if you sent a thank you email.
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    Feb 28, 2009 2:24 PM GMT
    DCEric saidIt's ask and you shall receive for me.

    Are we still speaking of pictures? icon_wink.gif
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    Feb 28, 2009 2:50 PM GMT
    muchmorethanmuscle saidMy private pic isn't dirty. It's simply of me leaning down with my hands cupping my knees and looking down into the camera.

    You can see my hips but no private parts. No family jewels exposed.

    RJ simply won't allow me to have it as a public photo. All it shows is my hips and the rest of my torso.

    It belongs where it is.
    I damn near ruined my keyboard after looking at it and missing my palm. icon_surprised.gif