Hookups and relationships

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    Oct 13, 2007 4:40 PM GMT
    How many of you have actually gotten hookups or found a relationship by meeting on Realjock.com?
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    Oct 13, 2007 5:09 PM GMT
    Gay.com seems like a much more useful venue for those than here ;]
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    Oct 13, 2007 5:17 PM GMT
    you still a kid in the candyshop sundown? icon_lol.gif
  • HndsmKansan

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    Oct 13, 2007 5:49 PM GMT
    I like the fact that the probability of a hookup is less here than on a gay.com or other place. A relationship is different, but I already have that.
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    Oct 14, 2007 7:14 AM GMT
    BFG -

    I feel like a kid in a candy shop without money. LOL.

    Guess it's sinking in that getting laid is more for the young guys, and guys who are just flatly beautiful. I guess I must be doing something wrong.

    I'm starting to wonder why I gave up someone who loved me (albeit she's a woman) to be who I am. Damn, I couldn't even get a 62 year old guy to take me home, tonight. Feeling a bit cynical tonight.
  • HndsmKansan

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    Oct 14, 2007 6:43 PM GMT
    Sundown,
    I think there are many in here who could get picked up (without any effort) if they chose to.
    I'm just glad to see that there is a place online where gay men can come and chat and the emphasis isn't a hook up or getting laid. I get tired of being hit on constantly in other venues. I'd suggest something like Manhunt if you are looking for that.
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    Oct 14, 2007 7:25 PM GMT
    Sundown55,
    I already have an sugar-apple-honeydew-frosted-cupcake of a bf, so I dont have the problem of "hookups." But I have put on weight during my cancer treatment. That really bites my ego. So now that I am nearing the end of the cancer treatment, I have joined Gold's Gym and hired a personal trainer there. Altho all I asked for is for him to help me lose this weight and get me back into shape, he is redesigning my whole lifestyle. Going Organic. I am "bloggin" my rehabilitation on here. Check out my thread and especially check out the two books. I would be happy to hear what you think.
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    Oct 16, 2007 1:01 AM GMT
    Could I have had plenty of hookups? Yes, but have I had any through RJ? No.

    It seems that I can't come on here too often without at least one person Instant messenging me about my stats and endowment and things of that sort.

    People who write me because i'm "cute" or "hot". Physical attraction is ok and all, but shouldn't be some other basis for writing someone?

    If you want them, you can have them!

    Its really starting to get on my nerves because if they would just take the time to read anything that I write they'd see that meaningless hookups mean very little to me unless I'm the one trying to establish them and then 9 times out of 10 not even then.



  • BlackJock79

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    Oct 16, 2007 1:05 PM GMT
    RJ isn't that big in the area where I am. It seems like it takes internet sites like this one awhile to catch on. It seems like Adam4Adam just became really popular out here but that's just for some quick booty. I really, really like this site though, because the guys are hot (most aren't anywhere NEAR me), almost all have nice bodies or are working towards that goal, and you guys seem smarter and not just looking for some quick action.