I already have an sugar-apple-honeydew-frosted-cupcake of a bf, so I dont have the problem of "hookups." But I have put on weight during my cancer treatment. That really bites my ego. So now that I am nearing the end of the cancer treatment, I have joined Gold's Gym and hired a personal trainer there. Altho all I asked for is for him to help me lose this weight and get me back into shape, he is redesigning my whole lifestyle. Going Organic. I am "bloggin" my rehabilitation on here. Check out my thread
and especially check out the two books. I would be happy to hear what you think.