Chris Brown and Rhianna back together again. What is the message here?

  • silverfox

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    Mar 01, 2009 8:24 PM GMT
    Is there ever a reason that a woman should stay with a man who has physically beaten her?
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    Mar 01, 2009 9:00 PM GMT

    Ya I'v heard about that ... Apparently he was violent out of love ... I don't get it ...
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    Mar 01, 2009 10:54 PM GMT
    Well i'm all about forgiveness and giving second chances....BUT!!!!.....What I have never understood is when a significant other kicks the ever living shit out of their partner they still find it in their heart to take them back. That, in my opinion, is one of the only occurances that would cause me to NEVER take somebody back. The excuse, "but I still love him/her and he/she said they wouldn't do it again." Well i'm here to tell you that they are full of shit.
  • Rookz

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    Mar 01, 2009 11:03 PM GMT
    The message here is if your a stupid, weak and in love, you still go back to the one who abused you. Rihanna's reason was overthrown by a weak heart. A strong heart would have said,

    "I'm no one's bitch, go get yourself another woman to hit Chris Brown!"

    But then again, we have our own opinion, and she has hers. I do hope she uses this experience and makes a song out of it, I wonder what the title will be...
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    Mar 01, 2009 11:07 PM GMT
    i hope she castrates him in his sleep... that's her plan for getting back together, doing so will allow her to facilitate her little hidden operation
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    Mar 01, 2009 11:08 PM GMT
    zsocerstar saidi hope she castrates him in his sleep... that's her plan for getting back together, doing so will allow her to facilitate her little hidden operation


    Agreed. Rhiana is one of my fav artists. No one fucks with my girl and gets away with it
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    Mar 01, 2009 11:10 PM GMT
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    zsocerstar saidi hope she castrates him in his sleep... that's her plan for getting back together, doing so will allow her to facilitate her little hidden operation


    Agreed. Rhiana is one of my fav artists. No one fucks with my girl and gets away with it


    agreed. Honestly, if she were just to give a public announcement saying "gays revolt" she would have a huge army to take over the world, and i'd be there with her.
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    Mar 01, 2009 11:11 PM GMT
    zsocerstar said
    TheIStrat said
    zsocerstar saidi hope she castrates him in his sleep... that's her plan for getting back together, doing so will allow her to facilitate her little hidden operation


    Agreed. Rhiana is one of my fav artists. No one fucks with my girl and gets away with it


    agreed. Honestly, if she were just to give a public announcement saying "gays revolt" she would have a huge army to take over the world, and i'd be there with her.


    hahahaha! I think we would be two of her generals. And our uniforms would be sooooo colorful!
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    Mar 01, 2009 11:15 PM GMT
    You don't beat someone you love. You beat someone you're afraid to lose and want to control. There's a difference. She's a prize to him and he's afraid to be alone. That's not love. It's a mistake we all make in our youth - not being able to figure out the difference - but I still have no issue saying she's an idiot for doing it.

    I was in a very interesting relationship a couple years ago. We both loved each other, supposedly, but he was afraid to lose me and turned to drugs. I told him it could work if he would get help. After two months of rehab he came back but other stipulations for him moving in - no end to relationship, just separate residences - weren't met so we didn't move in. He threw a fit and I didn't hear from him for a couple weeks. I was tired of the hissy fits that I didn't make any effort. In the mean time I got laid off and had no choice but to move back home (1800 miles away) with mother. He came over the day I was moving - I hadn't told him - and went nuts.

    To cut this story short, he ended up giving me a bloody nose and injured further an unhealed part of my chest that was wounded in a car accident. I was about to say "OK, move in if you want" as he had plenty of money and would've taken care of things until I found work, but he didn't even give me a chance to say anything. After he was finished, I just grabbed onto him and held him for a couple minutes and escorted him out my door. I haven't talked to him since.

    It wasn't as dramatic as a scene from "What's Love Got to do with It" and it was shitty that I didn't tell him I was moving. But, there's no excuse for anything physically violent and that moment made me realize just how unhealthy things were. It was a blessing in many ways that it ended right then and there.
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    Mar 01, 2009 11:20 PM GMT
    I don't understand why people do this. To me physical violence, like emotional abuse, is a line that should not be crossed in a loving relationship. If it is then for me the relationship is over.

    Hopefully she will not regret her decision, but I have my doubts. She is a very attractive woman who could have her pick of men.
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    Mar 01, 2009 11:21 PM GMT
    Ike and Tina 2009
    Would someone get Tina Turner to talk some sense into that girl
    BAD message she's sending.....
  • Rookz

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    Mar 01, 2009 11:29 PM GMT
    And as Tina said... "What's Love gotha do with it?"
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    Mar 01, 2009 11:47 PM GMT
    it sends the message that Rhianna is an idiot.

    Whats really sad is that some poor girl is probably going to die by following her example.
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    Mar 01, 2009 11:51 PM GMT
    classic abuse cycle, he'll do it again, he was exposed to it as a child, it wouldnt surprise me if she was as well.....why feel sorry for her, she's is making a stupid choice.
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    Mar 01, 2009 11:56 PM GMT
    What makes me sad is the guys who are going to idolize Chris and do the same things... Thinking its ok and that their women will crawl back to them... So very sad. I think Rihanna is one of the most beautiful women too.
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    Mar 02, 2009 12:22 AM GMT
    honestly.. if she hit him first... if she threw the phone at him.. slapped him... clawwed at him.. what ever women do first... cause she got jealous... that another woman was flirting with her man... then she deserved to get slapped...both of them probably got carried away.. but i believe it when i hear... she started it... ... bitch.. i love you rihanna.. but i swear.. she probably went Barbados on his ass first....icon_twisted.gif
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    Mar 02, 2009 12:26 AM GMT
    Im hoping this is a false report. Pictures are worth a thousand words and Rihanna's picture was so horrible. I cant see her getting back with him. If she does......that is just sad and disturbing.
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    Mar 02, 2009 12:33 AM GMT
    What's the message here? Many of the posters here care to much about people they don't know and spend to much time on gossip-sites. icon_biggrin.gif

    I agree with everyone who said, that physical and emotional abuse have no place in a loving relationshipicon_exclaim.gif
  • jgymnast733

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    Mar 02, 2009 12:41 AM GMT
    SOME woman enjoy being the victim, i know that sounds sick but i'v found that to be true in some cases. Then there's the woman who feels that HE LOVES ME IF HE BEATS ME.. I dont know how rhianna was brought up but anyone who allows someone to hurt them to that degree lacks self worth.icon_exclaim.gif
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    Mar 02, 2009 12:43 AM GMT
    Well my best friend has a horrible time getting women to stay with him and he's a total stud and treats them like princesses, so I suggested betting the shite out of some random girl in the mall and she might just have his kids.
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    Mar 02, 2009 12:45 AM GMT
    seriously, its no1s buisness, no1 knows the full story, and why should ppl care its not their lives. and if u say well its a bad message to children or some crap like that, u should teach ur kids to think for themselves.
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    Mar 02, 2009 1:04 AM GMT
    the message: pop culture is a wasteland, and should be ignored completely
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    Mar 02, 2009 2:41 AM GMT
    That they have good sex?/
  • ArmsandLegs

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    Mar 02, 2009 2:48 AM GMT
    the message: she needs a green card
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    Mar 02, 2009 3:02 AM GMT
    It'll make for some new song lyrics