Why the generalizing!! Why do guys like you post topics on here that state emphatically a fantasy that exist in your own warped mind as the truth? There is no hatred that I know of about older men in the gay community. THE GAY COMMUNITY: you say that like you have enough proof to state that the entire gay community feels a certain way.
You might sound more genuine and less like an instigator had you said something like: I have noticed what I think is a little animosity toward older gay men amongst my circle of gay friends and acquaintances due to negative comments they sometime make (not over and over again either, drama queen). If you kept it up, you might hear "negative comments" about twinks, fems, muscle men, tops, bottoms, bears, chubs, masc domn, vers, domn vers, masculine bottom, bottom, vers bottom, sub bottom, aggressive bottom, aggresive top, nudist, gays with a sock fetish, gays with a shoe fetish, gays with an underwear fetish, older, younger, smooth, hairy, black, white, latino, asian, pacific islander, german, greek, Russian, Irish, Aussie, African, indian, East indian, french, English, brittish, short gay men, tall gay men, gay men who work for the government, republican gay men, gay men who wear white after labor day, democratic gay men, gay artist, gay musicians, leather daddies, gays who are cowboys, gorillas, bi, partnered gay men, gay men who are in open relationships, single gay men, gay men who farm, gay men who are on RealJock, gay men who are on ManHunt, gay men that are on Bear 411, gay men who are on Adam 4 Adam, gay men who like milk, limpwristers, gay men who carry a murse, gay men who work in the fashion industry, straight men, twinks, gay men who drink, gay men who smoke, gay men who don't smoke, gay christians, gay men who use a male girdle, gay men who don't drink, gay line dancers, gay teachers, g0ys, gay men who watch football, gay men who watch figure skating, gay men who drive a truck, gay men who drive a sportscar, gay vegans, gay doctors, and, not to forget, gay men who collect things. OP person, there is not enough venom in the gay community to substain that much hate toward a list that is only partially fully represented here.
People talk about everyone, there is no reason to it and it certainly does not automatically mean hate toward whatever group gets gabbed over during lunch today or tomorrow. Sometimes if someone or some people trash someone or some group too much it often means they secretly like that someone or group.
What is your investment here anyway toward older men? Is your heart really so big that its tormented if a few negative barbs are thrown around about them in their absence? From what I know of them: they do damn fine (probably have more sex than you) and they don't need your damn pity.