My crotch is my face?

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    Mar 03, 2009 12:49 PM GMT
    Why is it that so many men on here only show their crotches or bodies and are not willing to show their faces? I'm sure I'm not alone in saying that I'm not interested in looking at peoples groins - no face, no interrest.
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    Mar 03, 2009 1:01 PM GMT

    Cuz they have plastic heads ... lol (sorry Lostboy ..)

    Often body looks better than face, that's the main issue... more than that, body can be changed.. but face, it's gonna cost you some money...

    People think it's a better way to seduce or look hot : I got a nice dick then I show it .... un-hot face, then hide it .. honesty.

    Or, when they are afraid that someone that they don't want to wil recognise them... no one wil recognise a crotch or a body ..
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    Mar 03, 2009 1:48 PM GMT
    Hey. I guess you're right. Either that or the good old one of hiding the identity because of fear of recognition - which in today's age is a little sad (not in a negative way, it's still illegal in some countries to be yourself). PS: I'd certainly remember a crotch if I saw it! He he
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    Mar 03, 2009 3:08 PM GMT
    It is not just on here..it's all over every sight. I typically refuse to talk to them as well. If they have the knowledge to take thei picture they have, then they can take one of thier face.

    many say it's because they are not out, or their job. I feel sorry for these fools living in such fear. Fear to be who they are in life. Fear of what others will think of them.
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    Mar 03, 2009 3:10 PM GMT
    Cowboiway saidIt is not just on here..it's all over every sight. I typically refuse to talk to them as well. If they have the knowledge to take thei picture they have, then they can take one of thier face.

    many say it's because they are not out, or their job. I feel sorry for these fools living in such fear. Fear to be who they are in life. Fear of what others will think of them.


    Basically...Fear really drives a lot of the decisions we as people make.
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    Mar 03, 2009 3:11 PM GMT
    Oh, I'm sorry I just lost my job over being found on a few websites, which lead to them figuring out about my sexuality. I'm sorry my real life comes before this website. Get real people.. not everyone is in a "safe" place and can't post their pictures anywhere and everywhere. I am willing, however, to show anyone my face who asks kindly enough to see... as they are in my privates.
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    Mar 03, 2009 3:13 PM GMT
    tafkalil saidOh, I'm sorry I just lost my job over being found on a few websites, which lead to them figuring out about my sexuality. I'm sorry my real life comes before this website. Get real people.. not everyone is in a "safe" place and can't post their pictures anywhere and everywhere. I am willing, however, to show anyone my face who asks kindly enough to see... as they are in my privates.


    Dude, what job was this? I coulda sworn there were laws against that...icon_eek.gif
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    Mar 03, 2009 3:16 PM GMT
    Cowboiway said

    many say it's because they are not out, or their job. I feel sorry for these fools living in such fear. Fear to be who they are in life. Fear of what others will think of them.


    Fools? LOL Dude, open your eyes. There are still people in the US who get beat, or even killed, for being gay. If you feel safe enough to do it, then more power to you. I however, don't. I don't think I'm a fool for being cautious, though. Fear of what others will think of them? No, I don't give a rats ass about what someone thinks of me.. but I'll be damned if I let a website with my picture on it ruin my job.
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    Mar 03, 2009 3:18 PM GMT
    tafkalil saidOh, I'm sorry I just lost my job over being found on a few websites, which lead to them figuring out about my sexuality. I'm sorry my real life comes before this website. Get real people.. not everyone is in a "safe" place and can't post their pictures anywhere and everywhere. I am willing, however, to show anyone my face who asks kindly enough to see... as they are in my privates.


    And ho hum........I'm still waiting for you to send me your real privates....icon_lol.gif

    And what are your so Called Employers doing on such web sites...LOL...They must have their own sexual identity issues!
    I can see if it was manhunt, But this is RJ.....LOL
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    Mar 03, 2009 3:19 PM GMT
    Elderthlas said
    tafkalil saidOh, I'm sorry I just lost my job over being found on a few websites, which lead to them figuring out about my sexuality. I'm sorry my real life comes before this website. Get real people.. not everyone is in a "safe" place and can't post their pictures anywhere and everywhere. I am willing, however, to show anyone my face who asks kindly enough to see... as they are in my privates.


    Dude, what job was this? I coulda sworn there were laws against that...icon_eek.gif


    I wasn't fired.. I simply quit because I was being harrassed and the manager couldn't/or wouldn't do anything about it.
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    Mar 03, 2009 3:23 PM GMT
    Whomever "outs" you is the pot calling the kettle black. They just cut their own throat.
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    Mar 03, 2009 3:26 PM GMT
    Using the same username for everything isn't smart, so that was my bad. Someone was googling me and found forums in here that I had posted to, with my face pic right by it. That's how I was found on here. That's why I deleted that account, along with myspace. And I changed my name on facebook. Not on any other "gay" sites either.
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    Mar 03, 2009 3:30 PM GMT
    tafkalil saidUsing the same username for everything isn't smart, so that was my bad. Someone was googling me and found forums in here that I had posted to, with my face pic right by it. That's how I was found on here. That's why I deleted that account, along with myspace. And I changed my name on facebook. Not on any other "gay" sites either.


    I'm sorry you have to hide yourself. Hopefully, you'll be able to be you in the future.
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    Mar 03, 2009 3:33 PM GMT
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    tafkalil saidUsing the same username for everything isn't smart, so that was my bad. Someone was googling me and found forums in here that I had posted to, with my face pic right by it. That's how I was found on here. That's why I deleted that account, along with myspace. And I changed my name on facebook. Not on any other "gay" sites either.


    I'm sorry you have to hide yourself. Hopefully, you'll be able to be you in the future.


    Just because I don't want my face pic on here doesn't mean I'm not being "me". I am me.
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    Mar 03, 2009 3:36 PM GMT
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    Elderthlas said
    tafkalil saidUsing the same username for everything isn't smart, so that was my bad. Someone was googling me and found forums in here that I had posted to, with my face pic right by it. That's how I was found on here. That's why I deleted that account, along with myspace. And I changed my name on facebook. Not on any other "gay" sites either.


    I'm sorry you have to hide yourself. Hopefully, you'll be able to be you in the future.


    Just because I don't want my face pic on here doesn't mean I'm not being "me". I am me.


    Well if being yourself is a faceless coward..then you have that down very well.
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    Mar 03, 2009 3:37 PM GMT
    Cowboiway said
    tafkalil said
    Elderthlas said
    tafkalil saidUsing the same username for everything isn't smart, so that was my bad. Someone was googling me and found forums in here that I had posted to, with my face pic right by it. That's how I was found on here. That's why I deleted that account, along with myspace. And I changed my name on facebook. Not on any other "gay" sites either.


    I'm sorry you have to hide yourself. Hopefully, you'll be able to be you in the future.


    Just because I don't want my face pic on here doesn't mean I'm not being "me". I am me.


    Well if being yourself is a faceless coward..then you have that down very well.


    There is a difference in being a coward and being smart. If he is coming across people ruining job opportunities and the whole 9 yards...what would you do? There is only so far you can fight a company's HR before it becomes a end less circle of stress.
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    Mar 03, 2009 3:38 PM GMT
    Cowboiway said

    Well if being yourself is a faceless coward..then you have that down very well.



    Lol... please. You don't even know me. Just because I want to be safe about my job, doesn't mean I'm a coward. Grow up man.
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    Mar 03, 2009 3:39 PM GMT
    Elderthlas said
    Cowboiway said
    tafkalil said
    Elderthlas said
    tafkalil saidUsing the same username for everything isn't smart, so that was my bad. Someone was googling me and found forums in here that I had posted to, with my face pic right by it. That's how I was found on here. That's why I deleted that account, along with myspace. And I changed my name on facebook. Not on any other "gay" sites either.


    I'm sorry you have to hide yourself. Hopefully, you'll be able to be you in the future.


    Just because I don't want my face pic on here doesn't mean I'm not being "me". I am me.


    Well if being yourself is a faceless coward..then you have that down very well.


    There is a difference in being a coward and being smart. If he is coming across people ruining job opportunities and the work...what would you do? There is only so far you can fight a company's HR before it becomes a end less circle of stress.


    I leave and find another job. One where I don't have to work in fear of who I am behind closed doors...I have done this twice. Once in the USAF after 14 years of fear and one other place. I refuse to allow others to place me in a position of fear or being unhappy. Life is too short for that crap.

    Oh and For the record..Im on here while at work
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    Mar 03, 2009 3:45 PM GMT
    Cowboiway said
    Elderthlas said
    Cowboiway said
    tafkalil said
    Elderthlas said
    tafkalil saidUsing the same username for everything isn't smart, so that was my bad. Someone was googling me and found forums in here that I had posted to, with my face pic right by it. That's how I was found on here. That's why I deleted that account, along with myspace. And I changed my name on facebook. Not on any other "gay" sites either.


    I'm sorry you have to hide yourself. Hopefully, you'll be able to be you in the future.


    Just because I don't want my face pic on here doesn't mean I'm not being "me". I am me.


    Well if being yourself is a faceless coward..then you have that down very well.


    There is a difference in being a coward and being smart. If he is coming across people ruining job opportunities and the work...what would you do? There is only so far you can fight a company's HR before it becomes a end less circle of stress.


    I leave and find another job. One where I don't have to work in fear of who I am behind closed doors...I have done this twice. Once in the USAF after 14 years of fear and one other place. I refuse to allow others to place me in a position of fear or being unhappy. Life is too short for that crap.

    Oh and For the record..Im on here while at work


    Glad to hear it. Now, why not try and offer support rather than calling names. It took you 14 years to learn that lesson right? Why not save this guy a few?
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    Mar 03, 2009 3:45 PM GMT
    Cowboiway said

    I leave and find another job. One where I don't have to work in fear of who I am behind closed doors...I have done this twice. Once in the USAF after 14 years of fear and one other place. I refuse to allow others to place me in a position of fear or being unhappy. Life is too short for that crap.

    Oh and For the record..Im on here while at work


    Well do you want a freakin cookie? My personal life and my work life... I like to keep them separate. What goes on in my bedroom is my business. When I work somewhere, I make sure that I'm happy there. I could care less if they know I'm gay or not.. but I'll be damned if I'm gonna let something like that mess up something that is so nice. I'm straight acting, so what the fuck does it matter if my job knows if I like to suck dick or not.

    My point is, if I like my job, the people I work with, and want to keep it that way. I don't mind keeping this little secret out of the way. Just because you are gay, doesn't mean it needs to be advertised to everyone everywhere.
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    Mar 03, 2009 3:46 PM GMT
    Oh jeesh......Why does every posting have to lead to Hostile envirornment...God, Its just for fun.Leave your faggitude at the door. No wonder why so many people left this site!!.........icon_twisted.gif
    Dont be messing wit Zack!....cuz i'll whoop your Arse!!
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    Mar 03, 2009 3:49 PM GMT
    Mikeylikesit saidOh jeesh......Why does every posting have to lead to Hostile envirornment...God, Its just for fun.Leave your faggitude at the door. No wonder why so many people left this site!!.........icon_twisted.gif


    lol Faggitudes...I'm stealing that!
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    Mar 03, 2009 3:51 PM GMT
    I don't see the issue with not showing your face. I come here to post on the forum, and most other forums allow you to just pick an avatar. What I see a person post and how they react to other people's posts have a lot more to do with what I think of them than an avatar picture.

    And as someone who has been fired for being gay, I can understand not wanting to show your face here.
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    Mar 03, 2009 3:51 PM GMT
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    Well do you want a freakin cookie? My personal life and my work life... I like to keep them separate. What goes on in my bedroom is my business. When I work somewhere, I make sure that I'm happy there. I could care less if they know I'm gay or not.. but I'll be damned if I'm gonna let something like that mess up something that is so nice. I'm straight acting, so what the fuck does it matter if my job knows if I like to suck dick or not.

    My point is, if I like my job, the people I work with, and want to keep it that way. I don't mind keeping this little secret out of the way. Just because you are gay, doesn't mean it needs to be advertised to everyone everywhere.


    Little secret, yeap I bet it's little . Mainly because you have no balls to stand up and be yourself.

    If you look I live in Kansas and lived in soem pretty small freaking town. The fear you have allows others to control your life. You fear posting a simple face picture because you fear who at your work will find out. It's a pathetic life. To lifve in fear of any kind.
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    Mar 03, 2009 3:52 PM GMT
    jprichva said
    tafkalil saidI wasn't fired.. I simply quit because I was being harrassed and the manager couldn't/or wouldn't do anything about it.

    I actually WAS fired from my job this past December, for exactly that reason, and no, there are still no legal protections against it.

    Ever hear of ENDA? And how it was filibustered to death?


    No, I haven't. I should look that up now...

    (well crap...I coulda sworn there was legal protections on that)