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    Mar 05, 2009 7:09 AM GMT
    My ex added me in facebook, and seeing him again reminded me of the sad (yet hilarious) moment when we decided to break up.

    He was 16 then, I was 19. We were in a car driving down from Los Angeles to La Jolla, San Diego to meet up with friends.

    Out of nowhere he says~ I don't think this is working so before you say anything, let me say "It's not me, it's you!"

    I go "What? Aren't you supposed to say "It's not you, its me?" ANd he says "Yeah, that's what I meant." (LMAO) I say "Fine"

    It was a Friday afternoon, and we were stuck in traffic in 405 South for a good 2 hours. Not saying a word to each other the entire time. Finally, I asked him if we could grab some dinner coz I was really hungry.

    He goes " We just broke up so we can't go on a date." I was like "WTF? Are you shitting me?" Turns out he wasn't kidding. Oi vay.

    (I see him now and then at the country club with his girlfried. I guess he's straight now or whateve)

    What about you guys? How did you and your ex break up?



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    Mar 05, 2009 7:17 AM GMT
    ^^^^^

    Hahahaha! Sorry man! The emotional hazards of dating teenagers!

    Mine isn't as lighthearted as yours though. I broke up with my ex in person after a huge fight and we still aren't on speaking terms. Sucks. We had good times.
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    Mar 05, 2009 12:36 PM GMT
    I say,
    Let those stories go and look forward.
    Ex's are usually not worth to be mentioned.

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  • zakariahzol

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    Mar 05, 2009 12:41 PM GMT
    Nothing much to share really. He been cheating behind my back. I find out . He finally confess . I start cheating on him. His new bf want him to leave me and move with him. He oblige .Now we are just friend. But if he come over we still have sex "no string attach"
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    Mar 05, 2009 4:02 PM GMT
    Why unearth the DEAD??????
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    Mar 05, 2009 7:58 PM GMT
    Because it's kinda funny where we come from.


    I walked out on the porch one night after a long rehearsal (again he didn't attend because American Idol was on) and said I'm packing my things and not staying here ever again.

    He helped me pac, I lived in my car for six weeks, started my life over, took that much needed vacation, had alot of sex with anonymous men, and I'm a much better person today!
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    Mar 05, 2009 8:12 PM GMT
    I left because I realized how much of an emotionally abusive person. He still refuses to take responsibility. Funny thing is everyone expected me to never get over it, and now he's the one who hasn't gotten over it and is stuck in a cycle of bad relationships where his boyfriends walk away because they get tired of the mind games and emotional abuse. He is trying to talk with me to figure out why this is happening to him. But I'm not allowing that. This is 18 months later. Oh the irony of life.

    It's kind of sad really, though. He want's the perfect boyfriend but refuses to be a good boyfriend himself. I don't think he will ever be happy. He just treats people as badly as he was treated as a child, and he just doesn't see it.
  • JohnG16775

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    Mar 05, 2009 10:26 PM GMT
    It was and is over and really really I am over it, forever.................
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    Mar 05, 2009 10:46 PM GMT
    Gosh the last time I split with anyone I was under 25 and still a child. Whats the point. I'm now in an all most 20 year relationship, and my second relationship has been going for almost 10 years. Id rather talk about them; my husbands and Iicon_biggrin.gif
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    Mar 05, 2009 11:01 PM GMT
    Well let's see.

    Only one break up I really regret. I was upset with him and didn't want to talk to him. Was at work when he called and my coworker (who knew the situation) answered the phone. All I wanted was to avoid the guy for a day or two. So my coworker told him I didn't want to see him anymore which hurt him and we never got back together because of it. Maybe if I had been able to contact him right after it happened but I couldn't. I hated my coworker and felt like scum. By the time I did get in contact with him it was obviously over.