Oct 15, 2007 5:38 PM GMT
I have a good friend of mine who found a new boyfriend. They have been dating for the past 3 months. He’s basically become a "shut in" in his own home. The two of them are glued at the hip. My friend no longer has the desire to spend time with friends, i.e. me. He used to go biking, camping and yoga among other things and he was so much fun. He has cancelled numerous outings, or brought his boy friend along, which is ok, but I am wondering if I should say something to him. I think that he will look back and regret his withdrawal from his friends. I am very happy that he has found someone, but also think that by spending so much time together the relationship will burn out early. Has anyone else been through this? Should I just sit tight and say nothing, or suggest that he make himself more available to his friends and not focus solely on his new boyfriend?