Harnesses

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    Mar 06, 2009 7:01 PM GMT
    What's the point of them? Do you think they are sexy? I can't understand why some men like them. Hmm. I can understand cock rings but harnesses?
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    Mar 06, 2009 7:13 PM GMT
    I have one personally, and it's a nice one. For some it goes with the leather scene (just enjoying having the gear on), for some it's just for looks, and for some it plays into the BDSM scene (easy to tie someone up and immobilize them when you have extra straps and rings to tie things through).

    I mainly wear mine for the feel of it, and the looks it gets me.

    Plus, who doesn't love a hot guy in a nice black leather harness.
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    Mar 09, 2009 4:00 PM GMT
    Hey sex is kinky and fun. We all have diff. ways of sharing it. Personaly, do not have one and don't want one either. I love the fact that people are so diff. and able to express it in other ways.
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    Mar 09, 2009 7:37 PM GMT
    Capt. Clarence Oveur, from the movie Airplane, to the little boy touring the plane cockpit: "Joey, do you like to watch gladiator movies?"

    Leather harnesses always remind me of trashy gladiator movies, which not surprisingly I did like to watch as a kid. But harnesses in real life are like Speedos: most of the guys who wear them shouldn't. And they have even less practical value than a Speedo, pure costume. When I see guys at the bar with them, I'm tempted to ask: "Stopping by for a quick one on the way to the Coliseum?"
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    Mar 10, 2009 1:38 AM GMT
    I notice a lot of fetish porn has guys with BDSM gear engaged in vanilla sex. Just throw some twinks into a harness, have a minute of spanking, and suddenly it is a fetish video. Even more hilarious is watching the dom wearing a sub's gear, like hoods and locking cuffs. It is like watching a hockey game where everyone is wearing the goalies gear.

    But the harness can be fun. Lots of places to clip things to tie someone down, put them in stress positions, stretch a delicate body part or two.

    Then, if that sort of thing isn't your bag, I can understand why it would look so strange.
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    Mar 10, 2009 4:20 AM GMT
    MunchingZombie saidIt is like watching a hockey game where everyone is wearing the goalies gear.


    I can see a remake of Friday the 13th were Jason doesn't kill the hapless teenagers but has sex with them instead.

    I think I have a harness somewhere around here. No clue how I got it but I know I didn't buy it. I know I have a vest and sexy leather shorts that were great for underwear parties when I did that sort of thing.
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    Mar 10, 2009 11:01 AM GMT
    _dude_ saidI have one personally, and it's a nice one. For some it goes with the leather scene (just enjoying having the gear on), for some it's just for looks, and for some it plays into the BDSM scene (easy to tie someone up and immobilize them when you have extra straps and rings to tie things through).

    I mainly wear mine for the feel of it, and the looks it gets me.

    Plus, who doesn't love a hot guy in a nice black leather harness.


    ^What he said. Plus it's handy from Dom and Sub routines. Hehehe.