Alpha13 saidI finally got desperate enuf to accept a date from one of those "partnered guys". finally got desperate enuf to accept a date from one of those "partnered guys". It was the best date ( not a 20 something) I have had since my breakup last June but i think it caused a problem.
Backing up a little, Why are you so desperate??
You sound like your singlehood has expired and you're overdue for a relationship. Life doesn't work that way.
You would think that if a couple was interested in a triad, then you would be "dating" both of them. Obviously this isn't the case. You're only seeing one of them.
Sounds like you're headed for Drama Central. Why are you going there? What are you really going to get out of this?
Is "dating" a partnered guy really going to make you feel better? Make you less desperate?
I'm sorry to be blunt here, but it sounds like you're trying to fix your problem with another problem. I'm afraid that the odds are against you.
Best of luck but remember you're in the driver's seat. You can change directions any time you want.