Crushes?

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    Mar 09, 2009 8:10 AM GMT
    Ever just come out and admit you have a epic crush on someone?


    Who barely know you existed until a few hours ago icon_redface.gif
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    Mar 09, 2009 8:22 AM GMT
    No, but your friends will usually rat you out if you try to keep it secret.
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    Mar 09, 2009 8:28 AM GMT
    ActiveAndFit saidNo, but your friends will usually rat you out if you try to keep it secret.


    One of them already tried screamed it across the gym floor, I dragged him out of there before any damage was done
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    Mar 09, 2009 8:50 AM GMT
    AMT87 said
    ActiveAndFit saidNo, but your friends will usually rat you out if you try to keep it secret.


    One of them already tried screamed it across the gym floor, I dragged him out of there before any damage was done
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    Mar 09, 2009 9:17 AM GMT
    Thing is I was kind of hoping that the guy would turn out to be a jerk so i would loose all attraction and put this crush to bed...

    But for better or worse that dose not seem to be the case icon_sad.gif
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    Mar 09, 2009 9:21 AM GMT
    a few yes, and at the time (high school-college) I felt it was some really awkward, embarrassing moments (they were straight guys too). But that ebarassment only lasted for a week or so, and once I knew there was no chance in hell I'd get the guy (though he might be flattered lol.) I'd soon lose interest in the guy and look elsewhere.

    In retrospect I actually wish I'd acted on more of these crushes, I mean just to know... instead of wasting too much time wondering and wishing.

    (that said, I always felt secure with my friends and never worried much about reputation/popularity or what peripheral people would think if/when a gay rumor came up. If you think such a thing would ruin your social life though, you should probably be more careful icon_smile.gif )
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    Mar 09, 2009 2:16 PM GMT
    AMT87 saidThing is I was kind of hoping that the guy would turn out to be a jerk so i would loose all attraction and put this crush to bed...

    But for better or worse that dose not seem to be the case icon_sad.gif
    Now yer in the hell of love smitten, dopamine ridden, alcohol sippin' neurosis. You should write a country music chart hit! icon_lol.gif Oh well, that's life icon_sad.gif
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    Mar 09, 2009 2:17 PM GMT
    crush? Naaaa, not really

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    Mar 09, 2009 2:19 PM GMT
    I have this crush on this guy that lives on my floor, im sure he's straight, but that dosn't stop me from wondering what it would be like to date him. I don't know why I tourture myself
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    Mar 09, 2009 2:53 PM GMT
    on my last day of highschool, i brazenly stopped in the hallways and told a few of the popular jocks that i'd been crushing on them for years. then walked away- their stunned expressions were priceless. i think those episodes probably lived on in their stories and jokes for a while after- i didn't care; i was gone for college at that point. had to get it all off my chest. :p

    typically i live my life by a code of silence, when i'm attracted to straight men, which is usually. i don't want to hit on them or make them uncomfortable, fueling their preconceived fears of gay men. i've had a lot of straight guys tell me outright that they feel comfortable around me (i may keep my crushes private, but i'm certainly out of the closet) and that i've changed their opinions of gays. that feels good. but sometimes, you just have to get things off your chest- especially when there aren't gonna be any consequences for it.
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    Mar 09, 2009 3:34 PM GMT
    Lostboy saidcrush? Naaaa, not really

    Hi Charlitos icon_wink.gif


    O'dam i have crush on your body
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    Mar 09, 2009 3:39 PM GMT
    Yes to a gay guy when I was about 31. Met him for coffee. He was flabbergasted but was not interested. Fortunately for me, because he had some emotional issues.

    When I was in the closet I used to have crushes on up to 3 guys at a time. Never told them.
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    Mar 09, 2009 4:01 PM GMT
    Sophomore year in college I had an insane crush on another guy in my dorm whom I'd never had a class with or even spoken to. It led to my outing myself to my roommates in an embarrassingly whiny fashion. They tried to help by fixing me up with straight dates, each more pathetic than the last.
    On those rare occasions when I let myself think about this I can only cringe in shame. The only crumb of comfort is that it taught me never to waste emotional capital on unrequited love.
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    Mar 10, 2009 11:12 PM GMT
    czarodziej saidon my last day of highschool, i brazenly stopped in the hallways and told a few of the popular jocks that i'd been crushing on them for years. then walked away- their stunned expressions were priceless. i think those episodes probably lived on in their stories and jokes for a while after- i didn't care; i was gone for college at that point. had to get it all off my chest. :p



    That is priceless ...... good for you czar icon_wink.gif
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    Mar 10, 2009 11:21 PM GMT
    AMT87 saidThing is I was kind of hoping that the guy would turn out to be a jerk so i would loose all attraction and put this crush to bed...

    But for better or worse that dose not seem to be the case icon_sad.gif


    Haven't we ALL been there?
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    Mar 10, 2009 11:28 PM GMT
    I fail to understand the point in revealing crushes to ppl who will never reciprocate, esp if they're straight
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    Mar 12, 2009 12:27 AM GMT
    I've unabashedly had a crush on a friend right here on RJ. I can't tell you who it is because he is *taken* (at least for the time being.)
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    Mar 12, 2009 12:51 AM GMT
    He is both gay and available. He wasn't when I first met him and I put it out of my mind.

    But now I have this epic crush on him to the point if i tried to talk to him I'd probably just stare blindly, drool and come up with incoherent words