When girl are attracted to you......?

  • zakariahzol

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    Mar 10, 2009 12:38 PM GMT
    This have happen to me a couple of times , but this girl are worst. She a clerk in my office. She been trying very hard to get me to be intersted with her. When I was using a photocopy machines, fax machine she will be flirting with me , talking with some girlish voice (I find it gross) . She will ask me where I go for lunch , as though she want me to ask her along. One of my fellow female worker told me that this girl was extremely attracted to me and for me to at least to give her a chance. She say this girl was even thinking she will married me someday. One morning during a "pot luck" gathering in office she told everyone that she plan to transfer to other department unless I propose marriage to her and for me to do it quick before somebody else beat me to it. I dont know if she is joking or not but that totally embarasing me infront of everbody. FYI this have been going on for about a year now.

    Dont she know I am a cocksucker and plain not interested with her. I dont feel like telling her off, simply because I dont want to hurt her feeling. However this is driving crazy!!
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    Mar 10, 2009 2:31 PM GMT
    ... well, you're gonna hafta hurt her feelings, sorry. If you don't come clean you'll continue to lead her on, which is far worse in my opinion. If you can not come out at work, then flat out tell her that you're not interested, or tell her it is your policy to not date co-workers.
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    Mar 10, 2009 2:31 PM GMT
    First I will assume you have made no move towards her.

    Second, I assume you are nto out at work, or you would have told here you were a cocksucker and stopped the madness.

    Last, I would look into your companies harrassement policy. The comments she makes are considered harrassement and could be pursued.

    I would clearly talk to her, but not alone. Make sure someone else is present. Tell her you dont appreciate her jokes about getting married. That you simply are not interested and wish her to stop. If she continues to then you have rason to go to your HR and have them act for you.
  • Hunter9

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    Mar 10, 2009 2:43 PM GMT
    invite her to your home, fuck her, then kick her out... guaranteed for that little puppy love crush of hers to stop
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    Mar 10, 2009 2:53 PM GMT
    As you get older, this will happen to you over and over again in your career. They are into us because we're nice, we look great when we go out everyday - and we're not staring at their breasts. They just go nutty over us - thinking they want us. Sadly, no matter how hot they are - we're just not interested! Drives 'em nuts! Straight guys have said they copy my style around women - with good results!!! How funny.
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    Mar 10, 2009 3:00 PM GMT
    Simply tell her that her actions are inappropriate for the workplace and that she needs to stop. I dont know who this women is, but if it continues it might get worse.
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    Mar 10, 2009 6:20 PM GMT
    Here's what you do:
    Whip out your dick and be like, "You want this bitch?! Get on your knees!" when she is on the floor, attack her with your penis and beat her with your meat. Once she's all black and blue she'll say, "But I loved you!" Then fake compassion and walk over to her, stroke her hair out of her face, AND THEN SPIT IN IT! icon_twisted.gif

    Or

    One day one of your fellow coworkers will walk in on her in the bathroom masterbating with your stapler and talking to (you) herself in a mirror, "Ohhh baby it's better when it hurts so good!" she'll say as the staples unload into her flesh. She'll be fired. Then later once you get home from work you'll notice a lump under your sheets, she'll be dead, slit wrists weakly clutched around some roses and a ring box, still smiling, "together forever" written across the headboard in her period blood.



    I found what many of you said to be interesting. What do girls think when they fall for gay guys? Why do they even like us? What are some general qualities we share that makes us gold in their eyes? Do they feel the same way when we get crushes on straight guys????
  • MikemikeMike

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    Mar 10, 2009 6:27 PM GMT
    Hunter9 saidinvite her to your home, fuck her, then kick her out... guaranteed for that little puppy love crush of hers to stop


    good one!
  • AF_Jock

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    Mar 10, 2009 6:28 PM GMT
    icon_redface.gif I agree, but I would not come out to her, depending on the circumstances, mentality, and policies in your workplace. Just simply pull her aside and let her know that you're not interested.

    On the other hand, if you did come out to her, she would feel less insecure about the reason you've turned her down. Cause it's really not her fault that you like dick.icon_eek.gif

    She'd probably end up being your hag. Who knows?

    Doug
  • josephmovie

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    Mar 10, 2009 7:44 PM GMT
    All you have to do is mention casually that you're seeing someone at the moment. No need for details, just leave it at that.
  • zakariahzol

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    Mar 10, 2009 10:07 PM GMT
    Guys,

    I have done some of those things you suggest. I have told her , (not directly) that I am dating someone else/ I was intrested in another girl but she still not taking any of it. I am trying to act as proffesional as possible and not to be so cruel on this young girl feeling. It is not in my nature to use insulting word, vulgar language, report it to a HR Department or humiliated her.

    As for Cowboy suggestion., yes I am not out. I have dont nothing to lead her on. She sort like come in on out of the blue and start showing all this interest on me. How I wish another young men will be showing me this much attention.

    But I agree with you guys, someday if this stuff keep going I gonna have to tell her the thruth. Tq guys for giving me good advise.
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    Mar 10, 2009 10:09 PM GMT
    Confide in her that you have herpes (even if you don't), and beg her not to share that info with anyone else. Hopefully, she doesn't have herpes also, or, you're fucked.
  • zakariahzol

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    Mar 10, 2009 10:55 PM GMT
    Yeah..full blown AIDS will be better.
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    Mar 10, 2009 11:41 PM GMT
    Don't lie to her. I guarantee whatever you tell her will spread through the office like A1 at a Baptist BBQ. You should have heard all the whispers in my office when I had a false positive in a random drug screen.
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    Mar 10, 2009 11:47 PM GMT
    LOL Wow... well I guess you can politely tell her you seeing someone and keep it very brief and vague.

    I've dealt with this twice at my job and it's awkward with Girls/women since they are a little more sensitive when it comes to getting rejected.

    Or you can always say "I never date co-workers because it's not healthy and can motivate an uncomfortable setting at work. icon_cool.gif
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    Mar 10, 2009 11:52 PM GMT
    WolfRain saidLOL Wow... well I guess you can politely tell her you seeing someone and keep it very brief and vague.

    I've dealt with this twice at my job and it's awkward with Girls/women since they are a little more sensitive when it comes to getting rejected.

    Or you can always say "I never date co-workers because it's not healthy and can motivate an uncomfortable setting at work. icon_cool.gif


    depending on the level of crazy, you could be screwed. I am dealing with this right now, I have told the person 3 times we are co-workers, nothing more, that I have no interest in them AT ALL and that I'd never date anyone from work. She has been instructed to not ask about my personal life or tell me about hers. Her feelings have been hurt multiple times but she doesnt get it, and has a very strong fantasy going. telling her you like cock may just make her try harder,

    I am just trying to decide whether the pathetic nature of their being deserves pity or escalation. I just got a vmail from them saying Im prolly screening their call and they just want to talk about "us". I was getting my hair cut, lol. if they are crazy and stalking you, record and report it.
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    Mar 11, 2009 3:31 PM GMT
    "like A1 at a Baptist BBQ"

    This is one to remember.
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    Mar 11, 2009 4:41 PM GMT
    I'm assuming that you're not out at work. If you are out, then obviously your stalker didn't get the memo, so tell her.

    But if you aren't out, just tell her you're seeing someone.

    If that fails, that tell her firmly that you aren't interested in her and you never will be.
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    Mar 11, 2009 4:44 PM GMT
    HAHA....this is fun...it just happen to me over the weekend....

    You pretty much have to tell her....she'll either believe you or not (more than likely not), so she'll think you just saying that to her to be nice!

    Its a shame I am gay....I had some hot ass girls hit on me....And I didn't even try or look for it!!
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    Mar 18, 2009 4:11 PM GMT
    This just happened to me again this morning. I told her right up front that I was gay and wasn't interested. icon_biggrin.gif
  • Nayro

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    Mar 18, 2009 11:19 PM GMT
    Hunter9 saidinvite her to your home, fuck her, then kick her out... guaranteed for that little puppy love crush of hers to stop


    ur evil...icon_twisted.gif
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    Mar 18, 2009 11:31 PM GMT
    kscott6671 saidThis just happened to me again this morning. I told her right up front that I was gay and wasn't interested. icon_biggrin.gif


    she must have been devastated. but her loss is our gain!!

    look, Zak...she's just a girl, dude...just don't let it get to you so bad. Who cares if she's flirting with you?

    If she's not big enough to throw you down and rape you, then just ignore it. She'll eventually get tired of not getting anywhere.
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    Mar 20, 2009 2:10 PM GMT

    Maybe tell her privately you are gay ( if you can handle her spreading that around the office, which she probably will) ;

    Or

    maybe start wearing a wedding band at work !

  • CuriousJockAZ

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    Mar 20, 2009 2:41 PM GMT
    Nothing makes a woman want you more than the realization that you have absolutely no interest in her.
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    Mar 24, 2009 5:26 AM GMT
    I keep conversations brief; this makes me look a bastard.