Having been on the "planet" for half a century (+), here's a few simple rules to follow that will make life at 21 through 101 successfull and fulfilling. #1, Like and love yourself, others will return it back to you. #2, Each day has its challenges both liked and disliked, find something to like about or enjoy in everyone of those events or occurrances that come at you. #3, Look for opportunities to treat well those you come in contact with each day, no matter how small the good deed, you'll like yourself better for it, and so will those around you. #4, Never "settle" for a person to be your dating partner unless your heart is in it, and when they come into a crowded room your proud of them. #5, never allow anyone to put you down, if they do, write them off your list of friends. (remember, you like yourself to well to put up with put downs) #6, Find a course of study while in college that you passionately like, then with that training, (College degree) only take work that you like to do, and you'll never "WORK" another day in your life, because if your work is your passion, it is play to you !!! #7, in your dealings with people, as you go through life, avoid "burning bridges" because 90 percent of the time you only hurt yourself in the long run, because you'll probably face them or someone who knows them in the future.#8, Face what life brings your way remembering that there's something to be learned from every occurence in life, and-THIS TOO SHALL PASS !!!! I wish you the best that life can bring !!!!!