My taste in men has actually broadened over the years. When I first came out 25 years ago, I was only interested in guys with blond hair and blue eyes. Of course, I was limiting myself severely. Now my tastes vary, but I don't have a "type" per se. Different guys are attractive to me for different reasons. There are certain things that get my attention every time... like a nice smile, incredible eyes, long hair, tattoos, intelligence... but they can be the perfect guy physically and have a bad attitude or a negative personality... and gods forbid they can't hold a conversation... and its a total turn-off. And if they typ lk ths
on their profiles, I'm not interested. I don't even type like that when texting on my cell... geeze!
As for my hotlist on this site, most of the guys I hotlist have said something either in a forum post or on their profile that struck a positive chord with me. All of them are hot physically, and one or two have pictures that actually got my attention enough to go read their profiles in the first place. But I've looked at lots of profiles that didn't impress, though the guys were incredibly hot physically, and they're not on my hotlist.