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    Oct 17, 2007 1:54 PM GMT
    There are guys on my hotlist that would have turned me off just a few years ago. Now I would go nuts over some of them.

    What about your hotlist? Has your taste in men changed over time?
  • iHavok

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    Oct 17, 2007 3:01 PM GMT
    For me, that would be determined by the time frame you mean by "a few years ago."

    The men on my hot list are just that. VERY FREAKING HOT! Enough to make me double take and/or begin to drool, however my taste in men has matured as I have, and I find the younger guy less appealing lately. I'm not saying there aren't the few who do catch my eye (bisoccer among them), however lately I've started to enjoy the perspective that comes with age.
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    Oct 17, 2007 3:05 PM GMT
    hasn't changed
  • jc_online

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    Oct 17, 2007 6:47 PM GMT
    my taste hasn't changed as much as it continues to grow. this sight has helped me understand a lot about what I find attractive/hot. I have hundreds on my hotlist, and each appeals to me in a slightly different way. icon_wink.gif
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    Oct 17, 2007 6:55 PM GMT
    The guys I hotlisted from this SITE (ahem) are all from within 90 minutes of where I live. So I guess I'm using the hotlist as a gentle nudge of interest. There are plenty of hot hot hot guys from elsewhere though, just search and sort by who's been most hotlisted.

    My taste in men has remained fairly steady, but it's less about looks and more about attitude and personality.
  • Squarejaw

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    Oct 17, 2007 7:28 PM GMT
    My favorite type seems to be getting older -- but not, unfortunately, as fast as I am.
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    Oct 17, 2007 7:52 PM GMT
    My taste is guys is quite varied. I just like guys who I think are handsome.

    That said I've just taken a whole lot off my hotlist as the fuckers have yet to contact me.
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    Oct 17, 2007 8:02 PM GMT
    Mine definitely changed. Before my current bf I only dated white guys. No offense to my ethnicity, but there is a whole lot more out there. My hot list has definitely shifted, it's much more heavy on men with flavor & color. Though I still hold on to Matt Damon & Bobby Cannavale. icon_wink.gif
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    Oct 17, 2007 8:10 PM GMT
    As my profile reads, I like guys similar to me.

    For a hotlist on a site such as this, I have it more quantified, actually:
    1. Fit to built. 2.2# per inch, lean, or more.
    2. Fully pictured and fully profiled. If someone is to under-confident, to dumb, to afraid, or to lazy, to make even a minimum effort, they are, not, of course, worthy. I set standards for both myself and those I choose to associate with. You can tell much about a person by how they take care of themselves / conduct themselves, and a simple glance. To be all-accepting is craziness.
    3. A common interest. If I see smoker, etc. No way, and I don't care how good looking they are (they wouldn't be).

    As a side note, I have to giggle that no matter how eloquent I am in my rejection, the folks I'm not interested in don't handle rejection well. They often lash out, attacking me at the personal level. I generally don't lower myself to those standards.
  • MikePhilPerez

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    Oct 17, 2007 9:09 PM GMT

    I don't see myself anywhere on your hot list. I fit all your criteria. I have a pic, I take care of myself, I don't smoke, I have standards icon_confused.gif

    But saying that, you are so fussy icon_smile.gif

  • OutOfEden

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    Oct 17, 2007 10:21 PM GMT
    My 'Type' get's refined each relationship. Was he really romantic but balding, balding gets associated with romantic. Was he never serious and always in financial trouble? etc. etc. Event though one wasn't just right, each guy introduces me to new likes and dislikes. (Like a good chest of hair, woo!)
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    Oct 18, 2007 1:18 AM GMT
    LOL Mike. Are you whoring yourself to get on Chucky's hotlist now?
  • MikePhilPerez

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    Oct 18, 2007 9:46 PM GMT
    I expect to be on his buddy list one day icon_wink.gif
  • GQjock

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    Oct 18, 2007 11:31 PM GMT
    Not really...
    The upper age limit has thankfully gone up
    but hot's hot no matter what decade you're in
  • Timbales

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    Oct 19, 2007 12:58 AM GMT
    I haven't hotlisted anyone. I didn't want to send the wrong idea, even though I do think there are some very nice looking guys here.
  • Salubrious

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    Oct 19, 2007 2:10 AM GMT
    I agree, hot listing seems kinda weird to me. But that's my weird hang-up I suppose.
  • Posted by a hidden member.
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    Oct 19, 2007 9:20 PM GMT
    My taste in men has actually broadened over the years. When I first came out 25 years ago, I was only interested in guys with blond hair and blue eyes. Of course, I was limiting myself severely. Now my tastes vary, but I don't have a "type" per se. Different guys are attractive to me for different reasons. There are certain things that get my attention every time... like a nice smile, incredible eyes, long hair, tattoos, intelligence... but they can be the perfect guy physically and have a bad attitude or a negative personality... and gods forbid they can't hold a conversation... and its a total turn-off. And if they typ lk ths on their profiles, I'm not interested. I don't even type like that when texting on my cell... geeze! icon_rolleyes.gif

    As for my hotlist on this site, most of the guys I hotlist have said something either in a forum post or on their profile that struck a positive chord with me. All of them are hot physically, and one or two have pictures that actually got my attention enough to go read their profiles in the first place. But I've looked at lots of profiles that didn't impress, though the guys were incredibly hot physically, and they're not on my hotlist.
  • RSportsguy

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    Oct 19, 2007 10:06 PM GMT
    I hotlist guys here for different reasons. Yes, there are a tremendous amount of guys here that are very very attractive physically. I also hotlist guys who impressed me with what they wrote in their profiles. I have also hot listed guys who wrote something that I thought was very funny or profound here at the forums. I understand that I probably will never meet 99.9% of the people here. I do not hot list anyone with the intent of hooking up with them. I think it is just a cool way of letting someone know that you appreciate them for whatever reason it may be.
  • Posted by a hidden member.
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    Oct 19, 2007 10:29 PM GMT
    I would have to say I find more than 50% of the people on this website hot! My taste in men has broadened as I have gotten older. When I first came out I liked dark-haired slim to medium built men. Now I like blondes, men of all races, etc.. I have not added anybody to my hot list because I don't want to give the wrong idea, and the list would be to big.
  • gymingit

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    Oct 20, 2007 12:01 AM GMT
    For me there are soooo many variations. Hot, Fine, Handsome, Sexy and Cute(As In Abosutely Adorable!!)

    So my hot list is a little of everything. If you give off an appeal, I hot list you.

    There have been a few hotties, which I would categorize as hotties, I haven't included. Those would be due to their profiles. I tend to be a nice guy, but sometimes the profiles turn me off. I've read a profile or two on guys I've hot listed days, weeks and months previous to remove them from my hot list.

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    Oct 22, 2007 1:01 AM GMT
    I sort of agree with you there, Lance.
    There is one guy I hotlisted who I think is very attractive physically, lovely fit body and cute face, but he comes across like an ass on his profile.

    Still not sure whether to ermove him or not. Meh, its not like its important I guess.
  • MikemikeMike

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    Oct 22, 2007 5:59 AM GMT

    take the good advice from so many others from your other forum post where you listed all you were done with.

    Hit the gym and possibly someday soon you will be dating someone in your hotlist!!

    Hit the gym NOT the hotlist button. Your body and mind will thank-you for it!!- this is a given.

    Good luck-peace

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    Oct 22, 2007 6:04 AM GMT
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    Oct 22, 2007 7:56 AM GMT
    I think it may change in the years of teenage when you are still building your character .. but I'm not sure about after , I didn't reach it yet icon_smile.gif
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    Oct 22, 2007 8:43 AM GMT
    it never entered my mind that putting guys on my hotlist was some kind of invitation. most of them wouldn't be interested in me in a million yrs. i thought it was merely for my entertainment?