Hi, I uh, like you. Hi, I wanna FUCK you!

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    Mar 12, 2009 6:28 AM GMT
    Ok, so I understand it's a bit frustrating if someone sends you an outwardly sexual message without receiving any message at all from you first, but what if you send a perfectly innocent and pleasant message to someone you have an interest in and they reply with a smutty message that would make Lil Kim blush?

    I sent a message like this to a guy on A4A. He seemed nice enough, having no nudes in his profile and saying he'd be friends with a guy even if sex wasn't a guarantee.

    I sent a message complimenting his cute face, his down to Earth message, and his over all sweetness. He sent back a message like "Your profile is hot, made my dick hard. Am still stroking it, pre cum is oozing out of the head. Do you bottom cause I want to fuck your hot hole until your eyes roll upward!"

    I love it when a man talks dirty, but after his initial reserved and sweet presentation, I was a little taken a back. Do you guys think a certain kind of message should be returned with a similar type of message? Slutty begets slutty and sweet begets sweet? icon_redface.gif.
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    Mar 12, 2009 6:46 AM GMT
    Depends on what you want at the moment. I go with my initial reaction at the time...if i'm not in the mood at that moment and the guy's hot, i kinda leave it so there is an opportunity to fool around later on. If it works out then thats good...if not then oh well.
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    Mar 12, 2009 7:21 AM GMT
    I dunno. I think some guys like to paint a pretty picture of themselves in their profile.. nice guy, long walks on the beach, romantic evenings at home, likes puppies and kitties, blah blah. But after you swap a few messages, you find out it's all a facade to snag guys. Like the old saying goes, you attract more flies with honey than with vinegar. icon_lol.gif

    Also, I think it depends on the site. On some sites, you just don't bother making friends or sending polite messages. Maybe this guy thought that you were "interested" in him, but were being shy about it. So he decided to cut to the chase.
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    Mar 12, 2009 12:13 PM GMT
    I'd have to agree w/Rich. Seems appealing online and it's all smoke and mirrors you find. Though your damn profile is hot!!! icon_lol.gif
  • mctrinh84

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    Mar 12, 2009 8:21 PM GMT
    dammmn shit.. talking dirty is fucking horny! so turn on.icon_confused.gif
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    Mar 12, 2009 9:32 PM GMT
    A little dirty talking is fine but that wasn't the time to do it.
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    Mar 12, 2009 10:54 PM GMT
    Well, if I got a message from you showing interest I might be tempted to reply with a reply that doesn’t leave any doubt that the interest was mutual.

    But my personal philosophy is when it comes to online flirting, the escalation from “Who is this person?” to “My dick is dripping with pre just thinking about you.” needs to be a gradual one. I start with complements and conversation; I make a few subtle double entendre; then if things are going well I might try to get in to your cyber pants.

    This guy seems to have moved way to fast (for my taste). The flirting is the fun part. Wondering if in the next message the other guy is going to move things forward or back things up, speed up or slow down is a rush. This is the finish line and he skipped the race. I mean, how do you escalate that?

    He obviously wants the dominant role in whatever transpires between you two; Weather it’s physical or just online.

    If you get any interesting messages you need further input on feel free to post them. 
  • maximumrisk

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    Mar 13, 2009 2:13 AM GMT
    Normally this starts with something small and then goes over to the sextalk part, but not from 0 to 100 in 1 message.