Unsatisfied sex life

  • zakariahzol

    Posts: 2241

    Mar 13, 2009 6:02 AM GMT
    I have to admit. I have a lot of sex. Unfortunately, I hardly find sex that satisfied me nowaday. It seem that most of the sex I am getting lately are sort of ..20 minute stuff do it and get it over with. Some of my sexual encounter lately ended with me feeling sexually deprive , used and unsatisfied at the end. I have hook up with guy who is " early withdrawal", semi erect , selfish in bed (you do stuff to me and not vice versa). I long for those day when sex mean heavy love making, sweaty bodies, wet sloppy kisses and hard pounding ass. You know , the satisfied feeling that make you smile the whole time next day.

    It really frustrating to take home handsome good looking guy but finding out he is an absolute disaster in bed. Am I expecting to much?.
  • vindog

    Posts: 1440

    Mar 13, 2009 6:39 AM GMT
    Try eating sushi every day for a year....its not as delicious as it was the first day
  • zakariahzol

    Posts: 2241

    Mar 14, 2009 4:44 PM GMT
    There truth to that. I guess I have to much sex with a lot of guys and watch to much porn. Sex start to became a routine and a habit (like smoking), not something I do for enjoyment. I remember during the time I am in a relationship and having sex with my ex nearly everyday , sometimes more then once. We find out that we doing because it we have to not because we want to. We finally decided to just go to sleep and hug each other.

    Just like eating sushi , I need to alternate it with other food in order for me to enjoy eating it.
  • cityguy39

    Posts: 967

    Mar 14, 2009 7:37 PM GMT
    Hook ups are hook ups, you shouldn't expect more from them. The kind of sex your looking for is more times then not found in relationships. It can be with a boyfriend or a really good fuck buddy. Take your time and figure out what you want until then, your hook ups will be just that, another guy looking to get off with you. Hook ups don't have to be all bad either if you have the right perspective and expectation about them.