No sex with my bf, what do I made wrong...

  • collinan

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    Mar 14, 2009 11:07 PM GMT
    My bf and I are together since almost 2 years. Since September I go to University and I only come to my home every weekend. I also live with my parents and even I am 23 now, I am not out to them...
    But now the problem, my bf don't touches me since a couple of months. When we had sexual contact it always came from me when I nearly raped him...
    I am so horny when I stay the hole week from him away and can't wait to see him, kiss him, love him. I am scared that he doesn't love me any more. He has a lot do to at work the last months and it really stressed him. Three weeks ago I send him a message after he let me go with a feeling, that I stayed at my and cryed. I asked him if he still loves me and he replyed quickly and said that you not worry about, he loves me and he will be nicer the next time. But the last weekends the same, no really emotional kissing, no sex...
    For the sex part, he is a top and I don't like to bottom. I am no top, but the feeling to get fucked didn't worked for me. He tryed a few times in our first year to get me fucked, but it works not for me. But we had fun with other sexual practises and for me it always worked. I am so unsecure sometimes when I am with him, does he still loves me, does he not feel atracted to me physically?
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    Mar 16, 2009 1:25 AM GMT
    You need to tell him exactly how you feel and what you are thinking.

    It will be difficult because he may agree that he is no longer interested in you, but you will be better off knowing rather than not knowing.

    Then again, you may find he is still interested in you just like before, but maybe there was something bothering him and it doesn't have anything to do with you.

    But you'll never know unless you talk with him.
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    Mar 16, 2009 1:34 AM GMT
    You don't give nearly enough information to diagnose what could possibly be the problem. You probably don't have nearly enough information to diagnose the problem.

    Talk to the boyfriend and express your concerns. SouthBeach gave some sound advice.