Does it turn you on if the bottom guy having erection while you're screwing him?

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    Mar 17, 2009 2:52 AM GMT
    There might've been topics like this already, but I couldn't search for any. Anyway, I don't get real hard even though the guy doing a good job topping me. And I can't cum while bottoming. My brain just can't process the feeling of a guy screwing me and penis stimulation at the same time lol.

    Does that turn you off if you're a top?
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    Mar 17, 2009 2:56 AM GMT
    While I definitely prefer it if he gets hard when I top, as long as he communicates that he's enjoying it, that'll do. That really is the most important thing.
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    Mar 17, 2009 3:00 AM GMT
    I don't 'always' get hard when I bottom, but usually yes, I do. When I top, as long as I'm getting clues from the bottom (erection, or other verbal and non-verbal clues) that he's enjoying it, it's not a turn-off. If the bottom is not putting any effort into sex, isn't getting hard, and isn't making any type of noise, then I could only assume we drank way too much to be enjoying sex, or he's just not having a good time. And if he's not having a good time, neither am I, and it's time to call it quits. If you're really enjoying it, at least let the guy know with some noise, some movement, and maybe a bit of dirty talk.

    Have you ever been able to cum while bottoming? It's SO much more intense than when 'not' having your prostate jammed like a punching bag. And when the top can make me cum without me having to touch myself?! Watch it daddy, cause I'm riding you all night! lol
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    Mar 17, 2009 3:22 AM GMT
    [quote][cite]pyrotech said[/cite
    Have you ever been able to cum while bottoming? It's SO much more intense than when 'not' having your prostate jammed like a punching bag. And when the top can make me cum without me having to touch myself?! Watch it daddy, cause I'm riding you all night! lol[/quote]

    Haha no, I've never been able to, maybe cuz I haven't been with the right guy yet? It's just when I'm being topped I get overwhelm with feelings of a guy touching me and the penis is inside my butt.icon_smile.gif
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    Mar 17, 2009 6:42 AM GMT
    hockeytiger saidWhile I definitely prefer it if he gets hard when I top, as long as he communicates that he's enjoying it, that'll do. That really is the most important thing.


    Shut up !! if the bottom doesn't enjoy it then it's useless .. it's not like you're giving him pleasure, it must be mutual..
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    Mar 17, 2009 10:04 AM GMT
    It could be the position you are using. Some people's prostates are massaged better if they are the bottom but are on top (if you know what I mean), and that is what will turn a guy on, the massage of the prostate.

    Try using different positions, missionary, doggie, on top, side-by-side, etc..
  • Latenight30

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    Mar 17, 2009 11:32 AM GMT
    What??? Your a bottom like it matters.
    Haha Kidding.
    If thats too much stimulation try being in the middle. Its a wonder I remember my name sometimes. But sometimes in one on one the erection comes and goes but I can always cum.
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    Mar 17, 2009 12:03 PM GMT
    hockeytiger saidWhile I definitely prefer it if he gets hard when I top, as long as he communicates that he's enjoying it, that'll do. That really is the most important thing.

    Agreed. And when I'm the bottom (I'm versatile), I almost always get hard, and like to stroke myself to orgasm. I especially enjoy doing that when I'm riding him, facing forward, and cum all over his chest & stomach, and his face if I shoot that far. And seeing me cum on him will often trigger his own orgasm, so we're having them together... nice. icon_biggrin.gif
  • rnch

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    Mar 17, 2009 12:39 PM GMT
    SurrealLife saidIt could be the position you are using. Some people's prostates are massaged better if they are the bottom but are on top (if you know what I mean), and that is what will turn a guy on, the massage of the prostate.

    Try using different positions, missionary, doggie, on top, side-by-side, etc..
    yes, trying different positions IS the way to go!

    i can only pop pierced wood while "bottoming" with his penis up inside of me when i am on top, with him spread eagle underneath me, groaning and smiling "like a possum eatin' a sweet tater". the combination of the angle of his entry/prostate message in this position, me controlling most of the action, seeing his facial expressions and having his arms caress me usually gives me blue steel wood and a most satisfying climax.

    this position is kinda hard (no pun intended) on my knees, but worth it!!

    doing "doggie style" does nothing for me. icon_sad.gif
  • TallGWMvballe...

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    Mar 17, 2009 5:43 PM GMT
    Although I like it most when the bottom is rock hard while I am fucking him (especially if we are face to face) I understand that many guys are like the OP and Cum afterwards (often after I pull out)
    It IS best when both guys are very passionate as I am.
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    Mar 17, 2009 5:57 PM GMT
    rnch saiddoing "doggie style" does nothing for me.

    It can for me! Pumping into a lovely ass is a major turn-on for me, and I can reach around and stroke his dick almost like it's an extension of my own. A good bottom can thrust back against me, OMG, what a thrill! And I can fondle his swinging balls... OK, enough, I'm getting aroused here, and hubby's not home. Is HE ever in for a surprise when he gets home... LMAO!!!
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    Mar 18, 2009 6:13 PM GMT
    SurrealLife saidIt could be the position you are using. Some people's prostates are massaged better if they are the bottom but are on top (if you know what I mean), and that is what will turn a guy on, the massage of the prostate.

    Try using different positions, missionary, doggie, on top, side-by-side, etc..


    I've done pretty much all those positions. The only ones I know I haven't done for now is the guy standing and me holding up, with furniture like table, counter, etc... icon_biggrin.gif
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    Mar 18, 2009 6:58 PM GMT
    mr_khanito said

    I've done pretty much all those positions. The only ones I know I haven't done for now is the guy standing and me holding up, with furniture like table, counter, etc... icon_biggrin.gif


    Maybe you're just not a bottom, then?
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    Mar 19, 2009 12:54 AM GMT
    Red_Vespa said
    rnch saiddoing "doggie style" does nothing for me.

    It can for me! Pumping into a lovely ass is a major turn-on for me, and I can reach around and stroke his dick almost like it's an extension of my own. A good bottom can thrust back against me, OMG, what a thrill! And I can fondle his swinging balls... OK, enough, I'm getting aroused here, and hubby's not home. Is HE ever in for a surprise when he gets home... LMAO!!!


    LOL, very nice. But I have to say that doggie doesn't do much for me either, in either role.

    Hope all went well for you when he got home icon_lol.gif
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    Mar 19, 2009 2:24 AM GMT
    rezdylan said
    mr_khanito said

    I've done pretty much all those positions. The only ones I know I haven't done for now is the guy standing and me holding up, with furniture like table, counter, etc... icon_biggrin.gif


    Maybe you're just not a bottom, then?


    That thought has come across my mind several times, but then I think I'm not dominant enough to be a top, and I enjoy the feeling of a man taking control of me icon_biggrin.gif
  • TallGWMvballe...

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    Mar 20, 2009 5:55 AM GMT
    I agree with the above poster... It really DOES turn me on if the bottom Cums when I am inside and I cum at the same time... it shows me he is enjoying it as much as I am !
  • zakariahzol

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    Mar 20, 2009 12:46 PM GMT
    To cum while some guys is screwing me in the ass, is the most earth shattering pleasure. It like my whole body will be trembling in pleasure . However I take a long time to reach my climax and nearly all my top cant wait to long. Another problem, as soon as I cum, I not longer wishes to continue to get fuck , I became sensitive and dont want to play anymore.

    If only we can reach climax together...
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    Mar 29, 2009 9:48 PM GMT
    When I top a guy and he gets hard it tells me he is realy into it.Even more so if he cums while I'm doing him.icon_biggrin.gif
  • asixpactogo

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    Mar 30, 2009 1:35 AM GMT
    It's an ego booster for me to be toppin and have the guy bust his nuts, but only after I do.
  • Timbales

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    Mar 30, 2009 1:38 AM GMT
    When I'm top, I have to know the other guy is enjoying it. If he's not liking it, I don't enjoy it.
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    May 21, 2009 5:47 AM GMT
    If the ass is good then it does not matter. I'm not into the dick but the ass is a top man's wish. I listen to the moan and if its feelin good to him or not if not then I didn't start out right you need to know the person your with for the sex to come out right.icon_idea.gif
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    May 22, 2009 5:50 PM GMT
    My guy cums first. I'm topping mostly for his pleasure. I need him to enjoy me and let me know it in all ways he can.
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    May 22, 2009 6:05 PM GMT
    If a guy I'm topping doesn't have wood - it is not a factor - since a lot of guys can't get wood when being topped. Some can / some can't. It is a turn on when I know the guy is into me though - and I want to HEAR it! If I'm giving him my all (pun intended!) then I'll want appreciation and push-back.icon_cool.gif
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    May 22, 2009 7:52 PM GMT
    i couldnt care less how the bottom feels as long as im having a good time fucking him (sounds harsh but its true)
  • Nayro

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    Jun 02, 2009 2:26 PM GMT
    lol.. and u say on ur profile u slept with 300-400 guys. question here, did they all like it or u dont know? :p