admirer or stalker ?

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    Mar 17, 2009 9:11 AM GMT
    what do tou think when you see the same person looking at your profile but never send you a hi or else.

    i do when pple change their main pic, and i crashed on same pple profile,

    how you react to it?
    what to think?
    or what to do?
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    Mar 17, 2009 10:45 AM GMT
    On this site, I don't think any thing of it.

    I know myself, I get bored and click through profiles, stumbling across ones I've already recently viewed. It's just coincidence, since I've forgot who the default pic applied to.

    I guess if someone was looking at your profile every day and not saying something, that might be weird. Or, maybe they're not a "stalker", just shy.

    On the other hand, I have a profile on another site where a scary troll does look at my profile literally every other day (made even more "stalker" because he lives in my city). Since that's a low traffic site, it makes it weird. It's not like it is coincidence he keeps viewing my profile.
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    Mar 17, 2009 11:21 AM GMT
    I agree with NakedDevil. I sometimes forget that I've even looked at a profile until I open it up. I don't think anything of it. I do hate, however, that when I start regularly talking to a guy that he can see when I look at him, but I'm usually just trying to keep in mind what he looks like. I totally feel like a stalker, tho.
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    Mar 17, 2009 11:48 AM GMT
    it doesnt mean anything... this topic has been posted before...if youre on this forum youll get many hits on your profile way more that if you werent an active poster, that doesnt mean anything specific though, it might be related to something you said or not.

    If they dont say anything, they might no have anything to say...so why you care? just pay attention to those who really try to start a conversation.
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    Mar 17, 2009 11:52 AM GMT
    Maybe they're just using some of your pictures for inspiration during their special alone time.

    I'm just sayin....
  • silverfox

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    Mar 17, 2009 11:52 AM GMT
    Really....lighten up guys.

    There are plenty of sites that we are all on where we have no idea who is looking at our profiles. Just so happens this is one where you can see.

    If someone looks at me I consider it a compliment.

    Curious. Would you be as upset if a hot guy was looking at you every other day as opposed to a "troll"?

    hmmmmmmm.........
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    Mar 17, 2009 12:12 PM GMT
    Well, I don't have a problem with someone visiting my profile again and again.... I just wish they would say hello or stop coming by. I mean, Christ, if you're not even going to be courteous enough to say something, why keep coming by?
  • HndsmKansan

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    Mar 17, 2009 12:44 PM GMT
    Interesting thread....

    There is a certain 20 year old who looks at my profile every single day.. and at times twice a day. I recently sent him a message. He didn't respond
    and now its twice a day. Whats the point?

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    Mar 17, 2009 12:48 PM GMT
    HndsmKansan saidInteresting thread....

    There is a certain 20 year old who looks at my profile every single day.. and at times twice a day. I recently sent him a message. He didn't respond
    and now its twice a day. Whats the point?

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    See that's happening to me too.... wonder if it's the same guy.
  • rnch

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    Mar 17, 2009 12:52 PM GMT
    wagen22302 saidMaybe they're just using some of your pictures for inspiration during their special alone time.

    I'm just sayin....
    icon_lol.gificon_lol.gif wagen, i suspect you/your pics have been used for just that reason more than once! icon_cool.gificon_biggrin.gif
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    Mar 17, 2009 12:52 PM GMT
    I imagine they use windex and wrag just after to clean the monitor icon_eek.gif



    LOL, nah, truly I never thought about it.
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    Mar 17, 2009 1:03 PM GMT
    I look at certain profiles repeatedly for several reasons.

    Sometimes I just need inspiration, or pics of a ripped guy that will make me back away from the chocolate cake.

    Sometimes I just wanna see a cute guy...I have a few on here that are so unbearably cute I just gotta look at them whenever I see their profile pics pop up on the main page.

    Sometimes I feel like I should check certain profile to see if there's any new updates/pics.

    Sometimes I'm just horny.


    Here's my opinion...if you feel stalked because someone is looking at your profile, you may be paranoid...

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    Mar 17, 2009 1:03 PM GMT
    There is the kid doing the same thing to me. Given the huge age gap I doubt we would every have anything more than a mentor/mentee coupling.
    He could be my son.

    It's a headless profile and he gives me a peek-a-boo at the very least twice a week with out fail.

    Do I think he's a stalker no. There is no threat. He does not know where I live work or play. Do I find it more annoying than anything else.

    Hey to each his own.icon_biggrin.gif
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    Mar 17, 2009 1:06 PM GMT
    It's not paranoia in this case, Tommy....
    I really have tried to say hi to someone who has visited my profile several times but never says anything back. It does make me feel "stared at" in a way. I realize that this person's native tongue is not English, but I am not asking anything complicated. I mean, really, is "Hi there! How are you?" not a basic greeting in any language that's istensibly easy to respond to?
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    Mar 17, 2009 1:10 PM GMT
    SAHEM62896 saidIt's not paranoia in this case, Tommy....
    I really have tried to say hi to someone who has visited my profile several times but never says anything back. It does make me feel "stared at" in a way. I realize that this person's native tongue is not English, but I am not asking anything complicated. I mean, really, is "Hi there! How are you?" not a basic greeting in any language that's istensibly easy to respond to?


    maybe he set your profile as his homepage by accident and he doesn't know how to change it
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    Mar 17, 2009 3:52 PM GMT
    If the guy wants to contact you he will. Sometimes I forget I have seen a particular profile and it would seem I view it often when in fact I click on it and think 'oh this guy' and move on.
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    Mar 17, 2009 4:41 PM GMT
    jprichva said
    HndsmKansan saidInteresting thread....

    There is a certain 20 year old who looks at my profile every single day.. and at times twice a day. I recently sent him a message. He didn't respond
    and now its twice a day. Whats the point?

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    I wonder if it's the same one who looks at my profile every day, often more than once. I haven't sent him any messages, because---well, he's 20.


    Mine too..
    Is he from Mexico by any chance?
    I even blocked him because it was getting odd but it doesn't work.icon_sad.gif
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    Mar 17, 2009 4:49 PM GMT
    mnjock2003 said
    jprichva said
    HndsmKansan saidInteresting thread....

    There is a certain 20 year old who looks at my profile every single day.. and at times twice a day. I recently sent him a message. He didn't respond
    and now its twice a day. Whats the point?

    icon_eek.gif

    I wonder if it's the same one who looks at my profile every day, often more than once. I haven't sent him any messages, because---well, he's 20.


    Mine too..
    Is he from Mexico by any chance?
    I even blocked him because it was getting odd but it doesn't work.icon_sad.gif


    OMFG. Me too. Same guy every day.

    I visit a few every few days when I wanna spend time with myself. At least I'm honest.

    I just hope that doesn't freak Charlitos out...

    LOL.

    No. Really.

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    Mar 17, 2009 4:50 PM GMT
    That 20-year-old from Mexico must be pretty busy. I actually just had a conversation with someone about him as he visits both of our profiles nearly everyday.

    I've come to think that he's a bot. A "hey, some guy with abs may have a crush on you" feel-good bot. Well, I'm not so easily fooled by your ab-bot games RJ!
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    Mar 17, 2009 4:56 PM GMT
    Duh. People come here for the eye candy as much as anything else. It bugs me more when repeat visitors email me every time they stop by.
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    Mar 17, 2009 4:59 PM GMT
    LOL. You'd be surprised.

    I thought Slaton7 was a fake until I saw him on cam. He's waaay hotter on cam than the pics show.

    I would have sworn Charlitos is a fake too, but seen him on cam as well (yum).

    There are a bunch of guys like that you just think are too hot to be real, yet there they are.

    Maybe the Mexican guy has high-speed internet and multiple browser windows or something.

    And I wish no one had mentioned that. I was feeling special.

    So someone else hot please start stalking my profile. C'mon. Puhleeze?
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    Mar 17, 2009 5:01 PM GMT
    SAHEM62896 saidWell, I don't have a problem with someone visiting my profile again and again.... I just wish they would say hello or stop coming by. I mean, Christ, if you're not even going to be courteous enough to say something, why keep coming by?


    Hello!

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    Mar 17, 2009 5:06 PM GMT
    SAHEM62896 saidIt's not paranoia in this case, Tommy....
    I really have tried to say hi to someone who has visited my profile several times but never says anything back. It does make me feel "stared at" in a way. I realize that this person's native tongue is not English, but I am not asking anything complicated. I mean, really, is "Hi there! How are you?" not a basic greeting in any language that's istensibly easy to respond to?


    Well to be fair, you are in a monogamous relationship. It does limit what one can and perhaps should say.

    If you were listed as single I wouldda looked at the shirtless pics and said, "yum," but you're not, so I didn't.
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    Mar 17, 2009 5:08 PM GMT
    Well, not that I do not cruise on here quite a bit, but sometimes it just freaks me out and I just block that person. I especially HATE it when some IDIOT will put a photo of a young boy or baby on here.
    Are there not enough kiddie porn wierdos out there anyway.
    They have no business on here looking for REAL guys with a real interest in fitness and well to be frank meeting other like minded guys.
    Sorry to ramble, but the answer to the question is: BLOCK!!!icon_evil.gificon_twisted.gif
  • NJ_ITGuy

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    Mar 17, 2009 5:09 PM GMT
    mnjock2003 said
    jprichva said
    HndsmKansan saidInteresting thread....

    There is a certain 20 year old who looks at my profile every single day.. and at times twice a day. I recently sent him a message. He didn't respond
    and now its twice a day. Whats the point?

    icon_eek.gif

    I wonder if it's the same one who looks at my profile every day, often more than once. I haven't sent him any messages, because---well, he's 20.


    Mine too..
    Is he from Mexico by any chance?
    I even blocked him because it was getting odd but it doesn't work.icon_sad.gif


    Both my partner and I have the same issue. 20 from Guadalajara....