Do you ask people to show you their private picture?

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  Mar 17, 2009 3:17 PM GMT

  I couldn't.
  
  
  I thought about doing it, but I was to embarrassed. Even online...it's crazy. I don't think I could ask, ever.
  
  How about you? Do you gets those private? ;D

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  Mar 17, 2009 3:38 PM GMT

  Its very rare. I bet I can count on one hand the number I've ever contacted about their private pics. Actually I can't remember any... but may have a couple since my debut on RJ.
  
  What does it say when on first contact, you ask to see their private pics... no hello... just can I see them?

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  Mar 17, 2009 4:51 PM GMT

  
  If a guy shows interest in me first and I see he has a bunch of privates, which perks my interest because more privates mean a variety of positions and angles . I never ask, but I send my privates because most will reciprocate.
  My pictures don't disappoint (T&A all the way), but often those 13 or more privates of his are of his dog and boat!

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  Mar 17, 2009 5:13 PM GMT

  Come on. Who are we fooling? If you are afraid to ask a stranger to see the private photos then how are you going to meet, date or get layed??
  I ALWAYS ask. OR I will ask if they want to trade. Some guys on here are very open and very willing to meet you and share their profile and others are not. It is all about communtiy and if we cannot request a simple thing like to see ones private pics, then what is the gay world coming to?
  Christ all mighty I have had guys ask me to see my privates while out at a club. Witch witch is which??
  I am just very forward and I think that is not a bad thing.
  
  Happy profiling!!

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  Mar 17, 2009 5:57 PM GMT

  I've asked a couple of guys, but it was nonsexual. It was just to see their face pics.

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  Mar 17, 2009 6:00 PM GMT

  I asked taf, but was disappointed to see they were only face pics.

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  Mar 17, 2009 6:00 PM GMT

  wannatalkaboutme saidCome on. Who are we fooling? If you are afraid to ask a stranger to see the private photos then how are you going to meet, date or get layed??
  I ALWAYS ask. OR I will ask if they want to trade. Some guys on here are very open and very willing to meet you and share their profile and others are not. It is all about communtiy and if we cannot request a simple thing like to see ones private pics, then what is the gay world coming to?
  Christ all mighty I have had guys ask me to see my privates while out at a club. Witch witch is which??
  I am just very forward and I think that is not a bad thing.
  
  Happy profiling!!

  
  
  This not Adam4Adam, this is not ManHunt, or DudesNude. I think you might find that more guys here are more reserved than you might be used to with such a good number being young, not out, or older and conservative. In relation to other gay dating sites, RealJock is definitely pre-school. These guys aren't ready for that spicy cheese you are talking about. They're so bashful....Trading naughty pics is an after thought around here, ok.
  (Rubs migraine)...I don't think the gay world suffers at all when someone doesn't ask to see another guy's naughty bits because that only represents a small portion of what the Gay World is. I don't think gay clubs are hardly as significant to us and our lifestyle as people seem determined to believe. Keeping with the planetary place you've taken us, gay clubs aren't even on the face of the Gay World, they are somewhere out there in Gay Space.

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  Mar 17, 2009 7:15 PM GMT

  GuiltyGear (Rubs migraine)...I don't think the gay world suffers at all when someone doesn't ask to see another guy's naughty bits because that only represents a small portion of what the Gay World is. I don't think gay clubs are hardly as significant to us and our lifestyle as people seem determined to believe. Keeping with the planetary place you've taken us, gay clubs aren't even on the face of the Gay World, they are somewhere out there in Gay Space.

  
  
  Migrain? Me too! I'd offer you some excedrin but...
  
  I completely agree though. I feel the majority of RJ member are here simply to gain friends, fitness tips, lend advice and post "the guy above you" threads. And there are definetly other ways of meeting,dating or getting laid than trading private pics. For me it starts with "hello".
  
  Than again, all people are different.

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  Mar 17, 2009 7:17 PM GMT

  I only ask if i'm really curious and know that they have face pics that are locked. Otherwise nope...

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  Mar 17, 2009 9:17 PM GMT

  Since I don't have any private pics, or any pics that could be deemed of "private" nature, I don't ask because I'm not going to expect someone to show that part of themselves to me and not show them back. So I don't ask. But if people do it willingly I usually don't mind.

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  Mar 17, 2009 9:25 PM GMT

  I never ask, but that's due to shyness.

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  Mar 17, 2009 10:22 PM GMT

  I don't have to ask, they just show it to me, hahaha!
  
  Thanks you guys by the way, very much appreciated.
  
  

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  Mar 17, 2009 10:24 PM GMT

  they are usually very good traders....they unlock so I unlock... no ive never asked so far.

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  Mar 17, 2009 10:31 PM GMT

  Never, because I don't have any.
  Wouldn't mind seeing some though.

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  Mar 17, 2009 10:44 PM GMT

  I'd never ask. I doubt I'll ever post a locked picture anyway.

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  Mar 17, 2009 11:27 PM GMT

  Mrod79 said
  Wouldn't mind seeing some though.

  
  
  

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  Mar 17, 2009 11:36 PM GMT

  I have not asked, but I've been asked by some. And I think all of them had unlocked their own for me beforehand. It's not unappreciated, but maybe unnecessary, because that's not really why I'm here.
  
  And unfortunately for them, it's not really a fair trade. Because I'm neurotic, I have my one face picture locked. It ain't very good, and it's certainly not sexy or inappropriate.

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  Mar 17, 2009 11:39 PM GMT

  Asked a lot but never asked anyone to see theirs
  
  I'm a I'll show you mine if you show me yours
  
  .... and none of this askin without any

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  Mar 17, 2009 11:40 PM GMT

  I never ask, but I make sure to send an appreciative e-mail when someone opens his for me.

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  Mar 18, 2009 12:01 AM GMT

  hahaha, I asked some times. Some times I unlock mines for others waiting them to open theirs.
  
  But feel free to ask me!

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  Mar 18, 2009 12:10 AM GMT

  I've never asked and only one person has asked me to show him my one private pic. It's just a pic of my and my bf and no nudity anyway, which I explain in my profile.
  
  Am I interested in seeing other men naked? duh. But since I don't have any I won't ask others to show me theirs.

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  Mar 18, 2009 12:16 AM GMT

  Sometimes I get those annoying little messages. I'm a little flattered but seriously it's a bit rude to ask such a thing. When I get those kind of messages from people they usually have their pix unlocked. I never ask people to unlock their pix and don't really plan to either. I'm satisfied with seeing the nice bods already in their profiles. No need for nudity unless I actually plan on physically meeting them and considering where I am I doubt that will happen.
  
  When people randomly show me their pix without even speaking to me first I think it's for something devious and generally ignore it.

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  Mar 18, 2009 12:27 AM GMT

  I've never asked someone to unlock. I figure if they want me to see their pics, they'll unlock voluntarily. I'll often unlock mine (all G rated) for someone I've chatted with or interacted with in the forums. Many times people will reciprocate, but I have no expectation that they will.

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  Mar 18, 2009 12:40 AM GMT

  If I'm really curious, sure I ask. Nicely, of course. I'm never presumptuous. Though I'd suggest at least talking to the guy via chat or trading emails first. I'll rarely send a guy a blind request. If I do, I have no expectations the guy is going to give me access if they don't even know me. Same goes for requests for mine -- it had better be a really winning email requesting to see my pics if I don't know the guy.

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  Mar 18, 2009 12:41 AM GMT

  Sometimes I think about unlocking as a way to get someone's attention.
  Then I remember that I hate it when someone tries to get my attention that way.
  It's like a statement that they are only interested in one thing.
  And I'm not looking for anything like that.
  

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