jprichva saidWell, it could be that these are gay men who are so turned off by their own community that they have to pretend to be straight, but condemn themselves to a lifetime of sneaking around rather than deciding to be honest and learning what they have in common with their gay brethren instead of recoiling from them in horror. Some of them might even have 3-month affairs with women to prove the point.
DrobUA saidI'm pretty new to the gay community but I have come across quite a few guys that label themselves as straight but like to have sex with other guys... I understand many people are in the closet but these guys are actually convinced they are straight. Am I the only "straight guy" magnet or are there others who have come across these guys? Anyone ask them what is going on in their heads?You could do an entire doctoral thesis on this kind of subject. I've never understood the disconnect people have between their outward personalities and their desires. It was most striking when I met a young guy who was adamant he was straight while we were literally having sex. Don't spend too much time trying to figure out what's going as...they are the last to understand as strange as it may seem. I personally try to meet up with openly, gay single guys. It makes it much easier to relax!
Timberoo saidDo you like it when someone tries to label you? If not, you shouldn't try to label someone else. If you don't want to be with a guy who doesn't identify as gay, then don't be with him.
DrobUA saidHaha you really think you know me.. you are 180 degrees in the wrong direction. I came out as gay when I was 18. I have not been "sneaking around" with guys because I am ashamed of who I am. If anything it is the opposite. (sneaking around with women and still being labeled gay) You think that because someone isn't exactly like you that it must be an act but the fact is everyone is different.
NoAir saidPenis in your mouth or but = Homosexual.
It is not rocket science doesn't matter how you label yourself.
EricLA saidI'm bi -- I like straight AND gay men.
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