Picky, Stuck Up or Player?

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    Mar 19, 2009 4:34 PM GMT
    I've had some say I'm stuck up. Of course this has come from those I have turned down for a date. I am Picky and admit it. When it comes to who I date and place my heart and trust in , damn right I'm going to be picky. I also have standards for look, morals, ethics like the rest of us.

    Have you ever been accused of these titles/ and if so how did you handle it?
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    Mar 19, 2009 5:03 PM GMT
    I have a problem of just telling guys that I'm not into them because usually they are good guys on the whole, just not my type for whatever reason....

    If anything I've been called a tease or indecisive. Which is ironic because I know exactly what I like in a guy and when I'm actually really into a guy, I fall a little too hard, no "teasing" involved...

    So I guess I can be picky...Even for Friend with Benefits because one of us usually gets feelings involved...

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    Mar 19, 2009 10:09 PM GMT
    Don't wanna be a bitch or anything but on your profile it says SINGLE!

    Maybe you're being too picky.
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    Mar 19, 2009 10:24 PM GMT

    Having preferences is fine as long as you keep them to yourself. Fine, if you want to announce them but it is a douchebaggy thing to do is all. When you start announcing that you are picky and some guys aren't up to par, it's like you are looking for validation of your preferences, which could make you look desperate, insecure, or just foolish.
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    Mar 20, 2009 11:46 PM GMT
    I don't date gerbils! And that's that! End of discussion.