I like a kiss with feeling behind it. Kissing is a big turn on for me, and I like to keep it soft, passionate, and a bit slow. Holding eachother close while kissing is a big plus, and I'm also a fan of feeling around with my hands.
Fast, furious, porn kissing doesn't feel real for me, as well I don't like extreme tongue usage. Eyes open or closed? I tend to close mine during the actual kiss cause it seems like a natural enough reaction, but I definitely appreciate looking deeply into his eyes before going in for the kiss.
As for where do I like to be kissed? Aside from mouth to mouth I like kissing and to be kissed on the chest, shoulder, neck, and lower stomach. I was kissing a guy a long time ago and he really liked my "trail" tactic. I blazed a trail of kisses from his lips, down his neck, through his chest and stomach, to his navel and ended with a soft, lingering kiss to the tip of the bulge in his boxer-briefs, which already had a nice, slick wet spot for a target.
Fun times. Thinking about it is causing a bit of a reaction down below, so I should stop writing before I get too worked up.