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guys that give out their number but dont return your calls

  • Posted by a hidden member.Log in to view his profile
    QUOTE Mar 24, 2009 9:53 AM GMT
    Why do guys give out their number VOLUNTARILY but then do not reply to text messages or phone calls.
    Y give it out in the first place?
    Is there a rule on length of time before calling/messaging a guy after meeting him?
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    QUOTE Mar 24, 2009 4:12 PM GMT
    Were they drinking when they gave out their number? And how long did you wait to call?

    I don't mind if someone calls me the next day, as long as they don't call me constantly. I have a really busy schedule, and will get back to someone when I can. If someone calls me 3 weeks later, however, I may not call them back. If I've been drinking heavily, which generally increases my chances of flirting and giving out my number, I may have only been interested that night, while I was buzzed.

    There's really no rule to how long you should wait before you call someone. The whole 'wait 3 days' thing is bullshit. If it takes you 3 days to get back to someone, that's fine. If you have time to call them 2 days later, I don't think they're going to freak out about it, thinking you should have waited. Just pick up the phone and call. If they don't answer and don't return your call, they're just not interested (anymore?). No big deal.
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    QUOTE Mar 24, 2009 5:52 PM GMT
    owenowen saidWhy do guys give out their number VOLUNTARILY but then do not reply to text messages or phone calls.
    Y give it out in the first place?
    Is there a rule on length of time before calling/messaging a guy after meeting him?


    Yes. The rule is to do whatever you want.

    It someone fails to respond, then, leave it at that, and MOVE ON.
  • MuchMoreThanM... Posts: 21398
    QUOTE Mar 24, 2009 6:00 PM GMT
    Not to change the topic. But I had a guy ask me for my number once to go out for coffee. I gave him my phone number but he didn't give me his. We ran into each other a few times so it's not like it was a spur of the moment situation.

    I talked about it with a few buddies. They said it was weird that he didn't reciprocate by giving me his phone number as well and that it was more than likely he was already "seeing" someone.

    I thought that made sense. So as a general rule, if a guy doesn't trade phone numbers it's usually not a good sign. It could very well mean they're hiding something.
  • TexanMan82 Posts: 893
    QUOTE Mar 24, 2009 8:07 PM GMT
    I'll admit it, I give my number out a lot when I'm out drinking. I mean, if someone asks for it, I'll give it to them. I've called people back before, but most of the time I'll get CONSTANT calls or texts, sometimes starting that night.

    At that point, I'm not going to call them back. Take a hint when I don't call you back after the 3rd try.
  • ajlclimber Posts: 337
    QUOTE Mar 24, 2009 8:22 PM GMT
    owenowen saidWhy do guys give out their number VOLUNTARILY but then do not reply to text messages or phone calls.
    Y give it out in the first place?
    Is there a rule on length of time before calling/messaging a guy after meeting him?


    What I want to know.. did He just give you the number? or did you ask for it?

    in all truth that makes a lot of difference.
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    QUOTE Mar 24, 2009 8:24 PM GMT
    Maybe he gave you someone else's number and that person is wondering WTF?
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    QUOTE Mar 24, 2009 8:39 PM GMT
    chuckystud said
    owenowen saidWhy do guys give out their number VOLUNTARILY but then do not reply to text messages or phone calls.
    Y give it out in the first place?
    Is there a rule on length of time before calling/messaging a guy after meeting him?


    Yes. The rule is to do whatever you want.

    It someone fails to respond, then, leave it at that, and MOVE ON.


    Hear, Hear!!