Are you gay?

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    Mar 24, 2009 8:41 PM GMT
    I interested in this guy in one of my classes but im not sure he's gay or not. How do you go about find out if the guy your interested is gay or straight?
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    Mar 24, 2009 9:41 PM GMT
    http://houston.craigslist.org/search/mis/?query=m4m

    Or, you could ask him out. "Would you like to catch dinner or a movie sometime?"

    The issue whether he's gay or straight will be rendered academic by his response to whether he'd go out with you. He could be gay and still be uninterested. He could be straight and really enjoy hanging out with you.
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    Mar 24, 2009 10:30 PM GMT
    Yep, catch a movie, grab a beer, shoot some pool...
  • Rookz

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    Mar 24, 2009 10:34 PM GMT
    Or, do you like penis?

    But seriously, that depends on how well you know the guy and how comfortable you are with him is when you could ask him if he'd be interested in hanging out. As mickey stated, he could be either of those. And maybe even just a good friend for those are a gem to have around.
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    Mar 24, 2009 11:05 PM GMT
    withHonorOr, do you like penis?


    Works for me, every time.
  • DrobUA

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    Mar 24, 2009 11:14 PM GMT
    Haha "straight" guys are my specialty. Strike up a conversation whether it be about class or what ever comes to mind. Get his number. Start off with texts like, what was the homework? or something like that, nothing creepy. After you become acquainted ask what he's doing this weekend or say we should chill sometime. Eventually you have to come out to him, just be like, just so you know, I'm gay, If that bothers you I get it.. so on and so on. Read the reaction. I've never had anyone have a problem with it. Once it's out there let them come out to you. DO NOT try and force it. Most of the guys aren't really sure about themselves yet and if you flat out ask they will get scarred off or straight up deny it even if it's true. If the guy turns out straight, you have a new friend. If not then you have potential.
  • DCEric

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    Mar 24, 2009 11:35 PM GMT
    Lost_And_Found said
    withHonorOr, do you like penis?


    Works for me, every time.


    I'd imagine that does weed out straight men rather quickly. Just make sure you aren't talking to a lesbian when asking said question.
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    Mar 24, 2009 11:43 PM GMT
    I'm not gay... he sucked my dick...
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    Mar 25, 2009 12:23 AM GMT
    ^---- funny guy icon_lol.gif
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    Mar 25, 2009 12:24 AM GMT
    Just get a reason to spend time with him and if he likes you he'll make his move or at least signal he's ready for your move.

    My preference: "Coffee? Dinner?"
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    Mar 25, 2009 12:38 AM GMT
    Beaux's method:

    Watch a DVD w/ the target.
    Sit on the couch together.

    If he's gay, he'll put his feet in your lap at some point before the movie is over.
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  • DrobUA

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    Mar 25, 2009 3:28 AM GMT
    Beaux saidBeaux's method:

    Watch a DVD w/ the target.
    Sit on the couch together.

    If he's gay, he'll put his feet in your lap at some point before the movie is over.
    icon_wink.gif


    Haha that is definitely not something ALL gay men would do.
  • JayneCobb

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    Mar 25, 2009 3:31 AM GMT
    How bout you get to know him as a person, it'll be pretty easy to find out then.
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    Mar 25, 2009 3:36 AM GMT
    Well I'm not gay, but both my husbands are!
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    Mar 25, 2009 3:38 AM GMT
    If I'm ever asked now days if I'm gay. I say no!

    I may leave it at that, or go onto say: But I am a fag.icon_biggrin.gif
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    Mar 25, 2009 4:44 AM GMT
    cubsfan1986 saidI'm not gay... he sucked my dick...

    win