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    Mar 25, 2009 4:05 AM GMT
    I need a boyfriend...Im sick of being single
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    Mar 25, 2009 4:06 AM GMT
    Me too! its hard to find right?
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    Mar 25, 2009 4:31 AM GMT
    Your a handsome guy. Im sure Mr. Right will run into you soon.
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    Mar 25, 2009 4:54 AM GMT
    Why only one?
    Two are much more fun!
  • caliboy

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    Mar 25, 2009 5:00 AM GMT
    Your look'n good badboy, i'm sure your prince will be poping in soon...no worries. oh wait... i'm here...lol icon_smile.gif just remeber that the best matches are made when your not really looking. good luck stud!
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    Mar 25, 2009 6:03 AM GMT
    you and me both icon_cry.gif
  • junknemesis

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    Mar 25, 2009 7:01 AM GMT
    MeOhMy saidyou and me both icon_cry.gif


    I am sympathizing perfectly. *hug*
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    Mar 25, 2009 7:09 AM GMT
    cuteful.
  • SirEllingtonB...

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    Mar 25, 2009 8:27 AM GMT
    gymguy1 saidYour a handsome guy. Im sure Mr. Right will run into you soon.


    wear some padding, the collision's gonna hurt. icon_wink.gif
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    Mar 25, 2009 12:54 PM GMT
    *hums*
  • zakariahzol

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    Mar 25, 2009 1:27 PM GMT
    I wish I can just hug you and tell you everything will be alright. We all have the need to be love and to belong. Love will come when you least expected it. Dont worry about it, handsome.
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    Mar 25, 2009 5:18 PM GMT
    Welcome to the club, badboy.
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    Mar 25, 2009 7:19 PM GMT
    I find it interesting how people who are in a relationship want to get out, and those who are single want one. I am in a relationship for more than 2 years now and going. But saying I want a BF is easy than having one.
    Are you ready for a relationship? Are you willing to...?
    Sacrifice your time for your partner?
    Sacrifice some of the things you like?
    Sacrifice party?
    Sacrifice friends?
    Sacrifice dreams?
    Sacrifice money?
    Sacrifice your time for him?
    Deal with his wants?
    Deal with his arguments?
    Tell him where you are, who you with, and an explanation?
    If you answered yes to all of these questions, then you are ready for a bf icon_biggrin.gif If you answered no to one of these questions, I would reconsider having one.

    Best of luck,

    Me
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    Mar 25, 2009 7:25 PM GMT
    vindroid saidMe too! its hard to find right?


    Hey, ask him out ..I see you understand him .. in this ..

    Who doesn't need a boyfriend ? They are everywhere, just start to look around ..
    I'm not looking for someone maybe that's why it seems easy to me.. and second , you don't just decide to start searching, it'll come when least expected.

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    Mar 25, 2009 9:48 PM GMT
    i415 saidI find it interesting how people who are in a relationship want to get out, and those who are single want one. I am in a relationship for more than 2 years now and going. But saying I want a BF is easy than having one.
    Are you ready for a relationship? Are you willing to...?
    Sacrifice your time for your partner?
    Sacrifice some of the things you like?
    Sacrifice party?
    Sacrifice friends?
    Sacrifice dreams?
    Sacrifice money?
    Sacrifice your time for him?
    Deal with his wants?
    Deal with his arguments?
    Tell him where you are, who you with, and an explanation?
    If you answered yes to all of these questions, then you are ready for a bf icon_biggrin.gif If you answered no to one of these questions, I would reconsider having one.

    Best of luck,

    Me


    Not sure if that's what a relationship is. Sacrifice every bit of yourself and then cater to his every need.

    I think it's difficult to find gay men who are capable of having healthy relationships where it's more of a partnership than a one sided thing.
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    Mar 25, 2009 9:53 PM GMT
    GHoSTic said
    Hey, ask him out ..I see you understand him .. in this ..

    Who doesn't need a boyfriend ? They are everywhere, just start to look around ..
    I'm not looking for someone maybe that's why it seems easy to me.. and second , you don't just decide to start searching, it'll come when least expected.



    *raises hand*

    I don't need a boyfriend. I don't think anyone should NEED a boyfriend. :-p

    And yes, I agree with you ... it comes when you aren't looking for it. I think guys are turned off by the "I'm looking for something." I've never had more people want to date me than until I decided I didn't want to date anyone. Lol.
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    Mar 25, 2009 9:59 PM GMT
    i415 saidI find it interesting how people who are in a relationship want to get out, and those who are single want one. I am in a relationship for more than 2 years now and going. But saying I want a BF is easy than having one.
    Are you ready for a relationship? Are you willing to...?
    Sacrifice your time for your partner?
    Sacrifice some of the things you like?
    Sacrifice party?
    Sacrifice friends?
    Sacrifice dreams?
    Sacrifice money?
    Sacrifice your time for him?
    Deal with his wants?
    Deal with his arguments?
    Tell him where you are, who you with, and an explanation?
    If you answered yes to all of these questions, then you are ready for a bf icon_biggrin.gif If you answered no to one of these questions, I would reconsider having one.

    Best of luck,

    Me


    wow, your relationship must suck...and not in a good way! if that's the way you feel about your relationship, run, don't walk out the door.
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    Mar 25, 2009 10:57 PM GMT
    i415 saidI find it interesting how people who are in a relationship want to get out, and those who are single want one. I am in a relationship for more than 2 years now and going. But saying I want a BF is easy than having one.
    Are you ready for a relationship? Are you willing to...?
    Sacrifice your time for your partner?
    Sacrifice some of the things you like?
    Sacrifice party?
    Sacrifice friends?
    Sacrifice dreams?
    Sacrifice money?
    Sacrifice your time for him?
    Deal with his wants?
    Deal with his arguments?
    Tell him where you are, who you with, and an explanation?
    If you answered yes to all of these questions, then you are ready for a bf icon_biggrin.gif If you answered no to one of these questions, I would reconsider having one.

    Best of luck,

    Me


    Are you married to a woman? I suppose the grass is always greener.

    Need is a loaded word, especially on the internet and without any inflection. Needy is not so hot to a lot of people. A friend of mine offered me great advice in that what one should do is simply try and befriend as many guys as you can especially the ones you find attractive and go do bowling or something of that effect with the group and just have fun. Perhaps you'll meet someone, but if you don't then you have an awesome group of friends. Make your personal world as exciting for you as you can and someone will eventually notice and want to be a part of it. Your need statement will only make you dwell on how your needs aren't being met and will make life drudgery. Enjoy the little things. Have fun! Good luck!
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    Mar 25, 2009 11:45 PM GMT
    Having been in several long term relationships I can say this with some experience along with observing others.

    As i415 pointed out, there are many down or at least difficult sides but often those very challenges are what makes it all worth while!

    If it works, what you "give up" in dating, partying and so forth should be MORE than exceeded by what you now have together!

    You shouldn't have to give up what you like, money or dreams at all.... what should happen is that you now have dreams together.. earn money together, do much more than you could do as individuals... now you have someone who cares... someone on your side for good and bad... build together... on and on.

    Is a relationship difficult to maintain? YES
    Is a relationship WORTH that? -------- YES!
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    Mar 26, 2009 6:30 AM GMT
    what can i say i love him and then i hate him. It's like a roller coaster. There are times i wish i was single, but it feels so good sleeping with someone you love. I guess, you just have to do everything you want before you have a love one, so the temptation to cheat won't creep on to you. I was open with my man when i was seeing someone else. I even asked him if i can have another bf (and he said no) I guess you just have to know what you want for sure. I want to share my love, but i can't share it. It's difficult to understand this.I guess that's what makes me special icon_smile.gif
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    Mar 26, 2009 6:38 AM GMT
    yes.. you need a relationship because at 21 you've been single for far far far too long.. I mean.. my gawd man.. WTF your old why aren't you in a relationship...
  • Sayrnas

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    Mar 26, 2009 6:42 AM GMT
    samerphx saidwow! lol so someone who is 21 yrs old should have a boyfriend long time ago? gee! i must be very very old now because i'll be turning 27 in two months and never have a boyfriend.



    I'll be more than that for ya!!! icon_twisted.gif