I dont like giving bjs...any tips?

  • ohioguy12

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    Mar 26, 2009 2:12 AM GMT
    My buddy wants me to give him a bj all the time, but I hate it...does anybody have any tips to make it more enjoyable?
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    Mar 26, 2009 2:41 AM GMT
    Meh, if you don't like it, you don't like it. Why not force him to service you instead?
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    Mar 26, 2009 2:48 AM GMT
    ohioguy12 saidMy buddy wants me to give him a bj all the time, but I hate it...does anybody have any tips to make it more enjoyable?


    cat

    You dont like giving bjs????? .... icon_eek.gif
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    Mar 26, 2009 7:22 AM GMT
    Not sure they still sell this but try to spray binaca on it. If it taste good you might think you're eating a popsicle. Dont spray near urethra lol

    LOl i dont know its been a long time since a dick even touch me.
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    Mar 26, 2009 1:10 PM GMT
    What don't you like about it?

    If you don't like throat fucking, use your tongue and lips on the head.
    If you don't like having it constantly in your mouth, take a break and use your hands.
    If you don't like the smell.... damn dude, make him take a shower!

    There are dozens of things you could not like, and hopefully there is a solution to each of them.
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    Mar 26, 2009 1:17 PM GMT
    yea dude. i feel your pain. i have the same problem. i hate giving blow jobs. i have TMJ problems with my jaw from oral surgery a few years ago and after sucking a dick for a long time (especially the big, fat dicks) my jaw is sore as hell. i just try to do just enough to get the other dude hard and move on.
  • Timbales

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    Mar 26, 2009 1:21 PM GMT
    If you don't want to, then don't.
    If you want to, but don't enjoy it, then at least psych yourself up to point where you don't hate it.
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    Mar 26, 2009 2:44 PM GMT
    Splash some cherry-flavored lube on it and pretend it's a big lollipop icon_razz.gif
  • Timbales

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    Mar 26, 2009 2:47 PM GMT
    just be careful if you use honey - make sure you get it all off before you deep throat it, or it will stick to the back of your throat and burn
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    Mar 26, 2009 3:18 PM GMT
    ohioguy12 saidMy buddy wants me to give him a bj all the time, but I hate it...does anybody have any tips to make it more enjoyable?


    Can you explain WHY you don't like to do it, and if it's just with him or BJs in general? Otherwise, it's hard to give advice.
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    Mar 26, 2009 5:06 PM GMT
    FLAVOURED CONDOMS icon_wink.gif
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    Mar 26, 2009 8:05 PM GMT
    Open your throat and gobble it man, hehehe. JK When I was younger and, you know, figuring everything out, I didn't like it either but now I find it incredibly hot and such a turn on.

    Here are some tips....
    Paint the sides, tease the head, suck on the head while stroking the shaft, apply pressure to the chode with your thumb, make it a game and see how much you can get down your throat and for how long, pull it out and shake it a little, slap it on your face, grab his arse and pull him into you and squeeze/need/slap his arse while you do so, let his F*%& your face, don't for get to lick/suck on the balls, let him shoot in your mouth, and if you don't like cum then get away form the volcano before it erupts and enjoy yourself. icon_twisted.gif


    You may discover that when you see how much pleasure you are giving your honey and how hot he is getting, you will get hotter and thoroughly enjoy yourself.

    If you really don't like don't like it, just explain that to your honey and go from there. Birthdays are a must though so suffer and send your man to the moon on his big day.
  • Webster666

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    Mar 26, 2009 8:20 PM GMT
    Don't give him blow jobs.
    Well, that's the easy answer.
    But, it also brings up several questions as to WHY you don't like giving him blow jobs.

    1) It's just not something you enjoy doing.
    2) His hygiene needs improvement.
    3) He's too big or too small.
    4) He's cut, or uncut.
    5) He has too much or too little hair down there.
    6) You haven't tried it in some different position (him standing up, lying down, straddling your face ?)

    Regardless of the reason, you need to talk to him about it before this develops into not wanting to have sex with him, at all.
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    Mar 26, 2009 8:37 PM GMT
    Since giving head is my absolute most favorite sex thing to do, I am still amazed that there is somebody who doesnt like to suck! ... icon_eek.gif
  • Buddha

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    Mar 27, 2009 6:16 AM GMT
    Well you're not alone, I'm not a very big fan of BJing either. I like receiving it, but as for actually doing myself... well... I really don't find anything sexy about it, except as you've said, pleasing one's partner. As people have stated; you decide what you want to do yourself, and where you put your limits.
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    Mar 27, 2009 6:28 AM GMT
    Pinch your nose and hope for the best? I mean.. what don't you like about it? I can't for the life of me fathom how you couldn't like it...

    are you not confident about what your doing down there?
    are you confident sexually with the guy you with?

    does it hurt some how?
    are you worried about catching something?

    I'm sorta lost as this point
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    Mar 27, 2009 7:50 AM GMT

    Visualize.

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    Mar 27, 2009 9:05 AM GMT
    Visualize what? I don't see it. Though now, I'm a little hungry.

    Anyways, does he go down on you at all?
  • jgymnast733

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    Mar 27, 2009 11:46 PM GMT
    MY DEAR,
    i'v never heard of anyone not liking oral pleasures, is the dick small or does it smell..?? I just never heard of anyone asking advice before,,just explore the beauty of the piece-The head,,the shaft,,ect.. Suck it like you'd what yours sucked..Works for me...icon_exclaim.gif
    And why do you hate giving bj's..?? The dick is a wonderful thing my dear.
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    Mar 28, 2009 6:41 AM GMT
    I say learn! If your going to be gay...otherwise you will be kicked out of bed
  • ohioguy12

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    Mar 28, 2009 7:59 PM GMT
    xanadude said
    ohioguy12 saidMy buddy wants me to give him a bj all the time, but I hate it...does anybody have any tips to make it more enjoyable?


    Can you explain WHY you don't like to do it, and if it's just with him or BJs in general? Otherwise, it's hard to give advice.


    I just dont really like the taste of cum, also my jaw gets tired after a while
  • jgymnast733

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    Mar 28, 2009 8:28 PM GMT
    ohioguy12 said
    xanadude said
    ohioguy12 saidMy buddy wants me to give him a bj all the time, but I hate it...does anybody have any tips to make it more enjoyable?


    Can you explain WHY you don't like to do it, and if it's just with him or BJs in general? Otherwise, it's hard to give advice.


    I just dont really like the taste of cum, also my jaw gets tired after a while

    Your jaw gets tired.? LOL...child....
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    Mar 29, 2009 9:34 PM GMT
    You either like it or you don't. Personally I love giving blowjobs.icon_biggrin.gif
  • oxdr

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    Mar 30, 2009 4:23 PM GMT
    Hey I love giving BJ's. never cheeted on my man but giving him a BJ was hard to do. He is Huge. The other night I was actually able to finaly deep throat him, but only for a second. BJ's are hot and just keep playing with it.
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    Feb 22, 2014 8:09 AM GMT
    kscott6671 saidYou either like it or you don't. Personally I love giving blowjobs.icon_biggrin.gif
    pics..or it didn't happen