Shy Bladder or pee Shy

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    Mar 27, 2009 7:40 AM GMT
    How many of u suffer from this?
    I so wish that i could just un zip get my dick out and piss but if there is any 1 stood next to me i just cannot piss.
  • jlly_rnchr

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    Mar 27, 2009 7:44 AM GMT
    I do. Odd to admit, but bathrooms make me uncomfortable, especially urinals. I blame button fly jeans and square cut boxer briefs, makes pee prep take much longer than normal. I worry that other guys will wonder what I'm doing.

    So, I usually wait until I really have to go and I usually go in a stall.
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    Mar 27, 2009 9:47 AM GMT

    I happened to me once in a gay club.. it was crowded and the urinals were close to each other, and some guy was standing and staring at my dick ..lol .. so I just stood there .. and nothing..
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    Mar 27, 2009 9:50 AM GMT

    I thought I had this problem until I realized that I was just too pre-occupied looking left and right to check out what the other urinals were subjected to. Ha ha ha!
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    Mar 27, 2009 9:57 AM GMT
    owenowen saidHow many of u suffer from this?
    I so wish that i could just un zip get my dick out and piss but if there is any 1 stood next to me i just cannot piss.


    Practice with someone standing underneath you.
  • Little_Spoon

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    Mar 27, 2009 3:00 PM GMT
    The answer is, I don't.
  • Latenight30

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    Mar 27, 2009 3:04 PM GMT
    I used to be super shy but I don't care anymore and also with good underware like 2xist there is no fly so it's full open. Oh well let them stare.
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    Mar 27, 2009 5:17 PM GMT
    I had a couple of incidents about 20 years ago, which freaked me out. One particularly uncomfortable time I was in a convenience store and a very butch guy in army fatigues walked in past me, rendering me streamless.

    I thought, OK, I'm not going to be held hostage by some f*ckin' insecurity issue, so I forced myself to pee in public and got over it. Now look at me...I'm f*ckin' George Michael.
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    Mar 27, 2009 5:31 PM GMT
    It's kind of difficult to be pee shy here in SF when you walk into the Eagle to use the trough and you have a guy holding out his cup for you to pee in. icon_twisted.gif
  • nhnelson

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    Mar 27, 2009 5:36 PM GMT
    I have the shyest bladder evarrr.
    It's the worst. I feel you.
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    Mar 27, 2009 5:39 PM GMT
    One time I got out of class and went to the bathroom. I went to the urinal and unzipped when somebody walked in and I just hoped that they wouldn't come stand next to me. Not only did they stand next to me, he started talking to me about class. I just stood there, and nothing would come out so I had to say, "I need to go into the stall, this isn't going to happen." One of the most embarrassing moments of my life.
  • dannyboy1101

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    Mar 27, 2009 5:57 PM GMT
    mswete saidOne time I got out of class and went to the bathroom. I went to the urinal and unzipped when somebody walked in and I just hoped that they wouldn't come stand next to me. Not only did they stand next to me, he started talking to me about class. I just stood there, and nothing would come out so I had to say, "I need to go into the stall, this isn't going to happen." One of the most embarrassing moments of my life.


    Ugh, such bad bathroom etiquette. You should have beat him across the face with your dick as punishment. I have this issue. What I try to do is "practice" in bathrooms a little bit more private feeling (darker or better urinal barriers). Hopefully, someday it will go away.
  • Webster666

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    Mar 27, 2009 6:01 PM GMT
    I'm kind of shy about it. But, a trick I learned is to recite the times tables starting with 6 x 1 = 6, and go as far as you can go. While I'm trying to get those higher combinations, it takes my mind off the business "at hand," and before I know it, I'm flowing like a champ !
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    Mar 27, 2009 7:14 PM GMT
    i've had experience with watersports, so no, i don't have a problem with pissin' in front of someone. if i'm at a public urinal and can tell the guy next to me is looking, sometimes i'll turn to him and say, "want some?" that usually embarrasses them enough to look away.
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    Mar 27, 2009 7:18 PM GMT
    I have a wonderful case of stage fright.

    If I feel like someone is waiting, no flow. If I feel someone is wondering why I havent started to pee, no flow. The only time I can go if someones around is if I'm listening to my iPod or on the phone. Oh well lol.
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    Mar 27, 2009 7:18 PM GMT
    I wrote in another RJ thread about an old, uncut creeper who I think wanted to molest me in a public restroom when I was 14. I got blocked, and have been having that problem ever since. Sick perverts like that should have their dicks cut off.
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    Mar 27, 2009 7:21 PM GMT
    It is part of the "flight or fight" syndrome. Your body just doesnt want to be pissing in your shoes if it has to fight or flee. Use a stall and see if that helps.

    "The stress response halts or slows down various processes such as sexual responses and digestive systems to focus on the stressor situation and typically causes negative effects like, constipation, anorexia, erectile dysfunction, difficulty urinating, and difficulty maintaining sexual arousal.[citation needed]. These are functions which are controlled by the parasympathetic nervous system and therefore suppressed by sympathetic arousal. "

    http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Flight_or_fight_response
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    Mar 27, 2009 7:23 PM GMT
    Try spitting every time you piss where ever you are to set up a conditioned response. Then when you have to go in public spit and your conditioned response will take over.
  • DrStorm

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    Mar 27, 2009 7:24 PM GMT
    You Americans are so pee-shy it's too damn funny....so many of you are taught from a young age that anything below the belt is BAD so now most of you are pee-shy and pee-pee shy. Lord, if you had seen some of the contortionist acts I've seen guys do with their towels while putting on their underwear in a gym you'd ...er...."pee" yourself (sorry, I just can't help myself here icon_twisted.gif )

    Like my ex from Nebraska - couldn't find a bar in the Castro in SF that did not have a trough to pee in so he peed up the street behind some bush.

    LOL...totally ludricrous.

    My advice, step up to the urinal, look up, think of the Niagra falls and yes, you will start peeing. Think millions of gushing gallons of water....gawd...now I need to go pee....

    "PEE"CE
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    Mar 27, 2009 7:26 PM GMT
    I've never had this problem - maybe due in part to having so many years of sports - and teammates all pissing and showering together. We used those gang showers and most of us pissed into the gutters. You get immune to shyness with a whole bunch of guys around you all your life.

    I did have a weird problem for awhile there though. I had an aversion to using the johns - even with doors - for taking dumps in high school. I just couldn't do it for some strange reason. I had to wait until I got home. Don't know why.
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    Mar 27, 2009 7:33 PM GMT
    I grew up with brothers and peeing together was normal. I don't have a shy bladder at all. I hate using public toilets to take a dump though, you never know what someone has done to that seat!