str8 best friend???

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    Mar 28, 2009 4:31 PM GMT
    do you have such a thing? how is it going? the relationship between? pros and cons? difficulties?
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    Mar 28, 2009 11:13 PM GMT
    all my mates are straight I wouldn't have it any other way
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    Mar 29, 2009 10:53 AM GMT
    do they comment on your boyfriends?
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    Mar 29, 2009 10:55 AM GMT
    << Proud to be lilTanker's mate.



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    Mar 29, 2009 10:59 AM GMT
    My best friend is str8... We've been friends for 19 years
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    Mar 29, 2009 11:07 AM GMT
    turk saiddo they comment on your boyfriends?

    yeah, they do.. as I comment on there girlfriends.. we also keep each other safe from bad lays..

    just because I"m gay doesn't mean they treat me any different.. and.. as much as I joke I can't talk about sex with them.. well not at least in descriptive details.. I can actually.. at least in a relationship sense of talking about it.. when things aren't going right or if i feel I need advice about things relating to sex and often, I find the advice my mates give far more useful then anything I've ever seen on this site.. possibly because its a lot more tailored to how I view things..

    I think the gay community has placed to much focus on the whole "gay" part, as if, we are some how different in some massive way from everyone else, I'm no different from my mates, sure I like sex with guys and I prefer a relationship with another guy.. apart from that though, thats it, I'm just me then, same as they are..

    Zimmers ma man... *smushy wet kisses*
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    Mar 29, 2009 11:16 AM GMT
    my best friend is straight, he has no problem with me at all lol. though i have a best female friend too (faghag) i thought that's a requirement for us gay icon_lol.gif
  • Sayrnas

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    Mar 29, 2009 11:20 AM GMT
    I have two str8 male best friends
  • alwaysonpoint

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    Mar 29, 2009 11:51 AM GMT
    My best friend and I have been best friends since kindergarten. She is not a fag hag either. It's never been an issue for her...I really didn't even come out to her...just on my 22nd birthday, I took her to the gay club with me. She hasn't been ever since...and that's that!
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    Mar 29, 2009 12:12 PM GMT
    One of my best friends is straight (actually, all of them but one are straight, but I'm simply assuming you meant male friends), and I won't pretend that that hasn't created a few difficulties. I've found myself confused at times about how I felt about him, as I think it can sometimes be a tricky thing to understand whether your feelings of love are merely platonic or cross into the romantic. Being away from him has made me realize that my love for him is truly the love of a friend, and that all other feelings that occasionally mix themselves in there are almost entirely related to the lack of actual romantic love.

    Granted, were he gay I could see my feelings veering into the romantic side, but having the knowledge in my head that he's straight allows me to simply love him for the great friend that he is. I don't even really think of the occasional confusions as cons, and find only pros about having him as one of my best friends.

    I miss him dearly, as I miss my other female best friends dearly.
  • DrobUA

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    Mar 30, 2009 7:49 AM GMT
    All my friends are straight. No one had a problem with it when I came out. We joke about it occasionally but they respect that I had the balls to tell them and we have become closer because of it.
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    Mar 30, 2009 8:04 AM GMT
    Other than my two husbands, all my mates are straight. They love the guys I'm with, more so than I Don't like all their wives / girlfriends.

    But there was a time in my life, all my friends were homosexual. That was a very diffrent relationship, I have with my mates of today.
  • josephmovie

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    Mar 30, 2009 8:52 AM GMT
    My best bud is straight and we've been friends for over 20 years. Great guy, but does get a little quiet if I talk about handsome men too much.

    And to all those younger gay men thinking of telling your best straight friend that you fancy him - DON'T! You could deprive yourself of a lasting a true friend.
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    Mar 30, 2009 1:31 PM GMT
    The only person I've come out to in real life is my straight male best friend since high school. icon_razz.gif

    All my other close male friends are straight. But they don't know I suck dick yet. icon_cry.gif
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    Mar 30, 2009 1:33 PM GMT
    I don't have a problem with any of my friends, gay or str8. Should there be one?
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    Mar 30, 2009 1:37 PM GMT
    I prefer the company of so-called "straight" friends. There isn't any sexual tension and the conversations are always free from gay banter.

    Good times.
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    Mar 30, 2009 1:50 PM GMT
    Sedative saidThe only person I've come out to in real life is my straight male best friend since high school. icon_razz.gif

    All my other close male friends are straight. But they don't know I suck dick yet. icon_cry.gif


    *coughsucktheircocksandthenthey'llfigureitoutcough*

    ucla_matta saidThere isn't any sexual tension


    You must have ugly straight friends. :-P
  • Tiller66

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    Mar 30, 2009 2:28 PM GMT
    Most of my friends are str8 I don't hold it aganist them.Me and my bff had drifted alittle before I came out and that bothered my bf alot then me.I just told him to chill out he was'nt mean to or talking trash so it's ok.He started to come around alittle after awhile it took sometime for him to get used to seeing me with my bf but he was always polite.Once when we alone he just had to ask"did you ever..."(me)"have a crush or thought you were hott,yes but you being my friend means more to me"that seem to calm him down.But forthe record if he was gay/bi I would've been all over that like stink on shiticon_twisted.gif
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    Mar 30, 2009 2:31 PM GMT
    Chewey_Delt said
    Sedative saidThe only person I've come out to in real life is my straight male best friend since high school. icon_razz.gif

    All my other close male friends are straight. But they don't know I suck dick yet. icon_cry.gif


    *coughsucktheircocksandthenthey'llfigureitoutcough*



    *slappity slap*

    How dare you suggest such a foul deed!

    (In all honesty... one of them is my permacrush - not to be confused with my angstywoeismeimgaycrush - and yeah it passed through my mind a few times... ROFL)
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    Apr 05, 2009 7:29 PM GMT
    I have str8 friends, They totally do what I tell them to do lol. We hit gay clubs, We party together, They ask me about my boyfriend. Everything is sweet and dandy. Until you say something about what you do in bed!!! Then they think it's ok to bring it up anytime they feel like teasing you. lol

    Fellas do not try to tell your bestbuds the details. No matter how open they seem to be. It's just something they don't want to hear.

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    Apr 06, 2009 6:40 AM GMT
    Yea, the problem is he is also the nicest and hottest guy I know AND has been dating one of my female best friends for over a year : I do have feelings for him, but i (try) not to let that get in the way and I told him about these feelings too. I tell him "I love you" and he says the same to me and he promised that if he turns out to be gay (somehow) he'll go for me icon_redface.gif His girlfriend is also in on this deal hahaha.
  • TexanMan82

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    Apr 06, 2009 11:31 PM GMT
    Yes, most of my friends are straight. My best friend is straight and there are absolutely no difficulties with me being gay. Hell, he loves going to gay bars with me. He's RIDICULOUSLY hot, so he's loved at every gay bar. I think he likes the attention. He talks to me about girls, and I talk to him about guys. We love each other completely.
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    Apr 07, 2009 12:04 AM GMT
    The 3 closest friends I have are straight guys.

    Being gay has never caused any problems. Any "difficulties" are based on our personalities, not our sexual preferences.
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    Apr 07, 2009 12:16 AM GMT
    she's very str8. I do not have male str8 friends. For those that do can you talk to your male str8 friends about man issues? If youcan't then how much of a friend are they. Friendships has no boundries period!
  • bkjhebert

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    Apr 07, 2009 12:35 AM GMT
    My two best friends are straight. They are supportive of my relationships and my career. We talk about our relationships and even sex in general terms, but not intimate details. Their wives (both are married) are also friends (but not as intimate) and they support our friendships. I am not viewed as a threat. I feel blessed that these two men are a part of my life. My gay friendships have been more superficial. I’m not sure why this is the case. It probably has more to do with my own view of myself, than it has to do with them. I wish I knew.