No where but here in my own house (all paid for). I have every thing I need here . One room for myself, one for guest, one for the study. I have internet connection, cable TV, beautiful tropical garden of my own creation, a big motor bike for my riding fetish. All I need is somebody/lover to share my life, so that I dont even bother to go outside.
I would move to the west coast...get the hell out of CT's crappy weather; I would love warm weather year-round. Also, a hub for international travel close-by would be perfect for my obsession with traveling.
Boston or Austrailia. I'd bring my cat and venture out on my own. I'd have enough life experience and memories of the people who matter most in my life stowed away in my brain for endless entertainment. Of course, I'd let whoever wanted to join me to come along for the ride.