Big frame vs. Small frame, which do you prefer?

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    Mar 30, 2009 8:43 PM GMT
    So this question is kind of generic. But I think of myself as a small framed guy, and I tend to be attracted to big framed. Im not talking about muscles or weight here, just guys who tend to look a little clunky with their big hands, nose, feet, etc.

    What do you guys prefer, guys with thinner frames and features or bigger ones?
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    Mar 30, 2009 9:11 PM GMT
    I like'em both.. big guys can be fun, little guys can be fun and you cna flip'em around... they both have there place icon_smile.gif I do find my self getting increasingly attracted to small guys though oddly enough
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    Mar 30, 2009 9:51 PM GMT

    Do I have to choose ??? I find small guys cute and fun in bed .. but sometimes I like being hugged by a guy who's bigger than me..
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    Mar 30, 2009 9:56 PM GMT
    As long as they're breathing, really.
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    Mar 30, 2009 10:42 PM GMT
    This is a good question. I'd add a subquestion -- are you more attracted to someone who has an opposite-sized frame?

    I'm small-framed and absolutely more attracted to large-framed guys.
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    Mar 30, 2009 11:58 PM GMT
    GHoSTic said
    Do I have to choose ??? I find small guys cute and fun in bed .. but sometimes I like being hugged by a guy who's bigger than me..


    I think this is why I like bigger guys, im a hugger. Honestly, if a big guy hugs me he can do whatever he wants.
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    Mar 31, 2009 12:16 AM GMT
    I like a guy that's bigger framed than me.
  • junknemesis

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    Mar 31, 2009 12:27 AM GMT
    I am small framed, and I am attracted to guys with small frames. So I guess for me its different then other posters to this forum above me. I like a guy with a similar frame to me. Holding them, cuddling with them, whatever. Physically it's more of a turn on. Something about putting my arms around a small framed guy and looking him in the eyes from a really close perspective is romantic.

    That said the last guy I had very strong feelings for (str8 ) was a bigger framed swimmer in really good shape. So not having a small frame is sure not a dealbreaker with me. But I do prefer it.
  • Timbales

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    Mar 31, 2009 12:29 AM GMT
    yes
  • Sayrnas

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    Mar 31, 2009 12:31 AM GMT
    If your hot..your hot regardless of size. I like um both.
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    Mar 31, 2009 12:33 AM GMT
    not too big, not too small...just right icon_razz.gif
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    Mar 31, 2009 4:04 AM GMT
    I like the smaller frames...I think I like to protect stuff...but most of the guys I date are like 5'5 to 5'11, and maaaaaad twinkish.
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    Mar 31, 2009 4:19 PM GMT
    Chainers saidSo this question is kind of generic. But I think of myself as a small framed guy, and I tend to be attracted to big framed. Im not talking about muscles or weight here, just guys who tend to look a little clunky with their big hands, nose, feet, etc.

    What do you guys prefer, guys with thinner frames and features or bigger ones?


    Love it and agree 100%. My man loves being the bigger one he is a true top and finds it so sexy that I am smaller framed. Ok now I am horny and want him again. Thank you
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    Mar 31, 2009 4:22 PM GMT
    I have a small frame and usually date other guys my size, but I'd love to be with someone bigger. I guess I always figured big guys like other big guys.
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    Nov 12, 2013 3:03 AM GMT
    As in art, the frame should compliment the work.
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    Nov 12, 2013 3:10 AM GMT
    UndercoverMan saidAs in art, the frame should compliment the work.
    Indeed*
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    Nov 12, 2013 3:30 AM GMT
    same size as me. if he's slightly larger, that's okay
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    Nov 12, 2013 3:48 AM GMT
    Big Frame.

    Nothin' I can really think to say about it at the moment, it's just what I like, and what my own goal is. Earlier today I looked into the "What kind of gay are you? Find you Gay Clique here!" topic and did the Gay Cliques Census Survey, and at the bottom of it they show an "Attraction by Cliques" table. In it you can see a direct correlation between identical cliques: muscle bears are mostly into muscle bears, otters are mostly into otters, gym rats are mostly into other gym rats--and I've seen this in a lot of online forums, conversations in real life and beyond as well. There's plenty of folks out there who are interested in their "opposite", or someone with qualities different to themselves, but for a great part, statistically, the trend seems to be big guys are often into big guys.

    Well I like big guys, and I want to be a big guy. So, "Big Frame" it is. Huh. I guess I did think of a lot to say about it!
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    Nov 12, 2013 4:09 AM GMT
    im also 5'4 and i like bigger guys
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    Nov 12, 2013 4:10 AM GMT
    woodsmen saidWell, I have a crush on a wolf and am a gym rat.


    Woo, they exist!

    Anyway, not sure if you were responding to me. I tried to be careful with my language though, using a lot of 'mostly' and 'statistically' words to sorta say "I know it isn't always the case, but..."

    I've done a few RealJock searches for Truly Ripped, Beefy and Stocky guys, and the majority of the folks who came up said they were more interested in similarly built/muscular guys. Anyway, don't mean to go off topic into that, but it was apparently on my mind when I first responded. Back to the topic I suppose!
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    Nov 12, 2013 4:15 AM GMT
    I wish I have a bigger frame. I definitely prefer a man with big frame as I love to hug and cuddle. It's my fantasy to get bear-hugged and cuddled by a bear type guy.
  • squally

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    Nov 12, 2013 4:15 AM GMT
    Big frame for me.
    I'm petite, so it's really not that hard to be bigger than me
  • JohnWoodHill

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    Nov 12, 2013 8:37 AM GMT
    Bigger framed. I got quite the macrophila so when i see someone twice my size the heat in the room goes up.
  • 6packabs

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    Nov 12, 2013 9:06 AM GMT
    I love petite and hard bodied little guys. I can wrap my arms and legs around them and cuddle (and fuck) them in the most amazing ways.

    However, tall and broad shouldered guys with big chests are amazing too. Just had a 24 year old hunk who is large hang with me and he was adorable in terms of chat size and I realize that big athletic guys are also hot. I like guys of all types if fit.
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    Dec 22, 2013 12:27 AM GMT
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