Taking stranger home

  • zakariahzol

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    Mar 31, 2009 1:03 PM GMT
    Do you do that?. Pick up some unknown stranger to your house . What are your safety precaution to make sure he is not going to harm you. During my younger day I probably brings hundred of stranger for hook up . Luckly nothing bad really happen to me, except for one case a guy claim I have violated his modesty and requesting money or he going to get his friend to beat me up.

    I always hide my wallet away and be very alert of suspicions behaviour , and be alert in case he bring in any sharp item or weapons.

    Any tips for safety when hooking up and taking stranger home? Let share..
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    Mar 31, 2009 1:08 PM GMT

    That's what dark, fire escape stairways are for.
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    Mar 31, 2009 2:32 PM GMT
    zakariahzol saidAny tips for safety when hooking up and taking stranger home? Let share..


    ...Don't do it?
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    Mar 31, 2009 2:40 PM GMT
    aren't you the same guy that just divuldge participating in group sex in a dark room full of people you can't see and never met before? icon_eek.gif


    ...I'm sensing a trend
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    Mar 31, 2009 2:46 PM GMT
    It's called being an adult and knowing what you are willing to deal with.

    If you have every had a one-night stand I'm willing to bet it was with a stranger. Whether or not you took them back to your place or went to their's doesn't matter because they are strangers.

    If you want a safety precaution then don't deal with strangers. Take the time to know someone first before letting your hormones get the better of you. With that being said one would hope their parents taught them the dangers of strangers when they were kids. The same rules apply when you grow up.

    You are dealing with a stranger so there is no real foolproof guarantee that nothing will happen and you seriously can't have your cake and eat it too. At best you can just lessen the risks but you're still at a great risk for the unknown factor of dealing with a stranger. Hide you wallet I guess if you feel he'll rob you after you invited him in. He might not rob your money but he might rob you of your health seeing as how he's a stranger and I'll doubt you know his status but I'm sure that didn't cross anyone's mind on the topic of strangers.

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  • Timbales

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    Mar 31, 2009 2:54 PM GMT
    I've never hooked up with a stranger.
  • zakariahzol

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    Mar 31, 2009 2:57 PM GMT
    Bodywork,

    Are you suggesting your are sensing a trend ? A whore, slut like sex hungry addicted person. Guess what, you are right.
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    Mar 31, 2009 2:57 PM GMT

    Yeah I got one.
    How about not doing it until you know the person better why put yourself at risk!
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    Mar 31, 2009 3:00 PM GMT
    If you take home a stranger after 10 minutes, you deserve what you get. Grow a brain.
  • HndsmKansan

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    Mar 31, 2009 3:06 PM GMT
    I've met strangers in public, but not at my house.. and not for a hook up.
    Getting hurt usually isn't at the forefront of my concerns.. but just having a stranger in my home isn't probably the most prudent idea for a number of reasons. For those of you who do it, I'd think about it a little bit.

    I was once told a story from an acquaintance about how he went home with some guy he met at a club (years ago)... Apparently the guy he met was much bigger than he..... they went back to the guy's house (which was some miles west of Wichita).. The guy got physical, started beating on him. My acquaintance ran out in his underwear (fortunately his keys were left in his car) and he took off for home.... not Jeff Dahmer, but close enough.
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    Mar 31, 2009 3:32 PM GMT
    Bad.
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    Mar 31, 2009 3:38 PM GMT
    Typically if I'm going home with a one night stand it's to their place, but only after getting to know the person for a good 1 hour or so and letting a friend know where they live.

    I can remember one particular time I had gone home with a guy who seemed to be truly genuine. We'd met at a bar and at the time I still had my truck, so I drove him to his place downtown. After arriving he showed me around his place and after a little while had gotten into bed. Here he proceeded to read me an excerpt from a novel he was currently working on.

    As the night progressed on, we started fooling around and at one point he asked what I was doing the next day. My plan was to drive to my parents house to visit for the weekend. When he heard this, he put me in a bear hug with my back up against his stomach, and told me that I was going to get a gym bag, pack clothes for two days and that I was going to spend the weekend with him. I told him I couldn't as my parents were expecting me. He again told me to pack a gym bag and that my parents would understand if I didn't show up. I was still in a bear hug and the second time he was explaining to me what I was going to do, it got tighter.

    I was freaking out! I told him okay, got dressed and left for home. Needless to say, I did not join him for the weekend. To this day, I still see this guy out in his business suit for happy hour with his bow tie on and it gives me the heebie-jeebies.
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    Mar 31, 2009 3:39 PM GMT
    Right now, there are thousands of people logged onto Manhunt, checking out Craig's List, on RealJock. They are looking for a piece of ass and many of them will find it. Then, a perfect stranger will walk into the others house, they will fuck, and then go their separate ways. It happens all the time, all over the world, and without incident. Sure, there are some crazies out there. But you are more likely to get hit by a car than come to any harm from a hook up.
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    Mar 31, 2009 4:24 PM GMT
    In my single days I must have done this more times than I care to count. I never had an experience where I felt endangered or even seriously uncomfortable. (Although some were shall we say less gratifying than others). The way to avoid bad tricks is to talk long enough and attentively enough that you'll notice if there's anything offbase about the guy.
    Also,don't take home anyone too much bigger than you.
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    Mar 31, 2009 4:24 PM GMT
    the chances that some randomn guy who wants to hook up will do anything else rathen that sex(meaning to try to harm you) and go home, are the same chances of a crazy driver having his car running along the side walk and you happened to be in the way . It could happen...
  • zakariahzol

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    Mar 31, 2009 4:32 PM GMT
    Munchingzombie,

    Well, that true. You can get to know a person for months, and take him home but he still could turn out to be some thief, sex maniac or god forbid murderer.
    But still you need to be careful. Especially , since I live alone.

    Right where I live there a lot of straight men, looking for a gay victim to rob . Once a guy I pick up and take home, trying to black mail me into giving him money (or he gonna report me as a homosexual to the police). A friend latter on tell me he is a regular con men who prey on gay men and know of another victim with the same experience.

    Frankly, I dont do this things as much as I use to. I guess I am getting more wiser and not as stupid as I use to be.



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    Mar 31, 2009 4:35 PM GMT
    It happens, it's part of life, and if someone says they have NEVER, I fail to believe them! And like luckydog76 said "you deserve what you get" and you must handle accordingly!