where do you go to meet guys for a relationship, not a hookup?

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    Mar 31, 2009 3:04 PM GMT
    So where do you go to meet guys who are looking for relationships, not just hookups? I've been to a gay bar and while I take it as a compliment that I got groped and eye raped, kinda looking for something more. So where do you meet these guys who also want more?
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    Mar 31, 2009 3:07 PM GMT
    networking through friends and family, groups and organizations you belong to, a lot of work
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    Mar 31, 2009 6:02 PM GMT
    Timberoo saidnetworking through friends and family, groups and organizations you belong to, a lot of work


    that works and have you tired match.com?

    My partner and I were introduced through my best friend who thought we would be a good fit. He was right.
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    Mar 31, 2009 6:17 PM GMT
    Anywhere really. Sometimes when you aren't looking things just happen on their own.

    Being active and social greatly increases your chances of meeting someone for relationship purposes. You gotta be able talk and offer more then just whats important to you. Friends, family and even the ocassional accidential "bump" into someone works wonders on meeting people.

    Just be confident and open to experiences and you should do fine. With that being said yes I am single and I follow my own advice.
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    Mar 31, 2009 6:31 PM GMT

    Rehab, if not psychiatric ward.
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    Mar 31, 2009 7:04 PM GMT
    Guy101 saidAnywhere really. Sometimes when you aren't looking things just happen on their own.

    Being active and social greatly increases your chances of meeting someone for relationship purposes. You gotta be able talk and offer more then just whats important to you. Friends, family and even the ocassional accidential "bump" into someone works wonders on meeting people.

    Just be confident and open to experiences and you should do fine. With that being said yes I am single and I follow my own advice.


    I second that.