Say it ! you like those gals !

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    Mar 31, 2009 6:25 PM GMT
    Lots of people admit that they like nerds.
    But fot the first time I'v heard from someone who admit that he likes femine guys ! he said "I don't even have a problem sleeping with a guy who is half a woman"..

    I always loved gayish gay cute sugar guys, but they must have a ripped or toned body. so I feel like I'm touching a man, not a woman..

    So how many of you here like femmies ?? come on .. leave the jocks aside and confess !
  • DCEric

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    Mar 31, 2009 8:35 PM GMT
    Indifferent.
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    Mar 31, 2009 8:42 PM GMT
    GHoSTic saidLots of people admit that they like nerds.
    But fot the first time I'v heard from someone who admit that he likes femine guys ! he said "I don't even have a problem sleeping with a guy who is half a woman"..

    I always loved gayish gay cute sugar guys, but they must have a ripped or toned body. so I feel like I'm touching a man, not a woman..

    So how many of you here like femmies ?? come on .. leave the jocks aside and confess !


    I can easily find a smooth fem twink hot. As long as they don't have the stereotypicl bitchy attitude... i could easily find a fem guy hot.

    Masculine jock guys can be hot too. But I do not want a jock who hides his feelings like the stereotypical uber masculine guy. Muslces are hot... especially when used to over-power me in bed.

    I could see myself with either. femmes not jocks bother me.

    The only thing I require is my guy to have a brain... a brain he likes using often and to his advantage. Intelligence is was matters most to mean... after personality.
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    Mar 31, 2009 8:48 PM GMT
    I think we'd be pretty lonely if we didn't learn to like guys w/ a little 'swish'.
    Heck, even a number of the str8 men I know wouldn't pass the gold standard of "masculine guy".
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    Mar 31, 2009 9:22 PM GMT
    *puts hand up*
    its allllll good!
  • zakariahzol

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    Mar 31, 2009 10:49 PM GMT
    Not me, thank you
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    Mar 31, 2009 10:54 PM GMT
    Nothing wrong with a little sugar in the tank.
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    Mar 31, 2009 10:56 PM GMT
    I'll pass.
  • ROYCE13

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    Mar 31, 2009 11:07 PM GMT
    I have seen a few posts of guys that actually list that they prefer a feminine guy. It always strike me as odd, but I do not think of it as a problem or anything other than a preference. The ones who I have seen post this are usually big muscle types as well. When it comes to sexual preferences, I try not to always understand why people prefer what they do, I cannot explain my inconsistency in this area, so why should I even wonder about anybody else. After all sexuality is our mind not our dicks.

    Also "feminine" is quite varied in a title, just like there it is in the actual female group.
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    Mar 31, 2009 11:17 PM GMT
    Fems can be amusing in social settings, because I enjoy creative wit and a "smart" mouth as we used to say, funny little exclamation marks to otherwise dull conversation.

    But in bed? Not really. There I like a man hard in muscle and dick, a man of strength and masculinity. I'm not aware of any of my gay friends who would go to bed with a guy who's a fem in body and mannerism, either. As they tell me: "If I wanted a woman in bed with me, I'd get a woman."
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    Mar 31, 2009 11:28 PM GMT
    Red_Vespa saidAs they tell me: "If I wanted a woman in bed with me, I'd get a woman."


    And then do you smack them across the mouth because that's a very juvenile thing to say?

    A "feminine" man is not a woman. (Feminine, also, is not a word I'd use to describe stereotypically gay men, as I can't ever remember a time I've seen a girl behave like a stereotypically gay man behaves. They're flitty, they're fey, they're flamboyant -- they're not necessarily feminine. They may like some things girls like (shopping, fashion, etc), but really, that's where the similarities end. Calling them feminine is nothing but a symptom of many gay (and straight, for that matter) men's raging misogyny.)

    Just because I'm not attracted to flamboyant men doesn't mean they aren't men or that they aren't attractive. They're a different kind of man, a different kind of attractive. I am consistently stunned by the number of people who can't think beyond their own personal proclivities, into a world where there are infinite variations on what is considered attractive.
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    Mar 31, 2009 11:31 PM GMT

    This is perhaps the only thread that has massaged my ego after a very long time...
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    Mar 31, 2009 11:50 PM GMT
    ZiMsTeR said
    This is perhaps the only thread that has massaged my ego after a very long time...


    and my guess is it's the only part of you that hasn't ever been 'massaged.' ...what?
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    Mar 31, 2009 11:52 PM GMT
    rezdylan saidI am consistently stunned by the number of people who can't think beyond their own personal proclivities, into a world where there are infinite variations on what is considered attractive.

    And what I consider attractive is not infinite variations, but masculine men. Let someone else like the fems in bed, that's great, leaves the butch boys for me. Your model of choice works both ways.
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    Mar 31, 2009 11:53 PM GMT
    LalaPaulooza said
    ZiMsTeR said
    This is perhaps the only thread that has massaged my ego after a very long time...


    and my guess is it's the only part of you that hasn't ever been 'massaged.' ...what?



    icon_sad.gificon_sad.gificon_sad.gificon_sad.gificon_sad.gif but tru icon_cry.gificon_cry.gificon_cry.gificon_cry.gificon_cry.gif
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    Mar 31, 2009 11:54 PM GMT
    ZiMsTeR said
    LalaPaulooza said
    ZiMsTeR said
    This is perhaps the only thread that has massaged my ego after a very long time...


    and my guess is it's the only part of you that hasn't ever been 'massaged.' ...what?



    icon_sad.gificon_sad.gificon_sad.gificon_sad.gificon_sad.gif but tru icon_cry.gificon_cry.gificon_cry.gificon_cry.gificon_cry.gif


    maybe your next 'visitor' can help with that! ;)
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    Apr 01, 2009 12:03 AM GMT

    The only next 'visitor' I have is mah period icon_sad.gificon_cry.gificon_cry.gif

    *CAUTION: NOW SHIFTING TO PMS MODE. KEEP DISTANCE!*
  • Rookz

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    Apr 01, 2009 12:10 AM GMT
    "oh im sorry, I didn't see you there! I thought you were a woman and hence, unimportant."
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    Apr 01, 2009 12:12 AM GMT
    So many of the big butch boys I have bedded have been absolute bores in bed. Those scrawny little fem boys, they are usually the freaky ones in my experience. The big boys cry if you tweek their nipple, the fems scream for a branding iron.
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    Apr 01, 2009 12:12 AM GMT
    Red_Vespa said
    rezdylan saidI am consistently stunned by the number of people who can't think beyond their own personal proclivities, into a world where there are infinite variations on what is considered attractive.

    And what I consider attractive is not infinite variations, but masculine men. Let someone else like the fems in bed, that's great, leaves the butch boys for me. Your model of choice works both ways.


    I'm not saying you should be attracted to everyone, don't get me wrong. You should be attracted to whatever your body responds to sexually. I definitely have a very narrow window of guys after whom I lust, and that window shares your view: a field full of sexy butch muscle guys, perhaps bathing in a natural waterfall spilling from the cliffs in the distance.

    I simply wish more people would realize that their personal attraction-specs aren't inherently better than anyone else's, or worse yet, that their attraction-specs are the only attraction-specs, and therefore everyone else should be attracted to those specs as well. It implies an inability or unwillingness to consider the variable world views and thoughts and opinions of others. It makes me angry (and it hasn't happened in here yet, but I guarantee it will eventually if this thread doesn't die) when someone responds to a thread regarding specific attractions with things like "yuck," or "no siree thank you bob, that's gross."

    It also annoys me (and I understand this is somewhat of a tangent) when people label flamboyant gay men as feminine because it indicates a lack of thought on behalf of the labeler -- and an extreme misogyny considering that it's almost always used as a pejorative descriptor. A lot of people just accept that flamboyant gay men are feminine -- but when you look at the behavior, it's really its own thing.

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    Apr 01, 2009 12:19 AM GMT
    MunchingZombie saidSo many of the big butch boys I have bedded have been absolute bores in bed. Those scrawny little fem boys, they are usually the freaky ones in my experience. The big boys cry if you tweek their nipple, the fems scream for a branding iron.

    OMG I Want you Munchy.. screw the whole guise of learning.. I just wanna go for a ride

    *coughs* *straights up*











    *walks away*















    *Walks away VERY VERY QUICKLY*
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    Apr 01, 2009 12:22 AM GMT
    If I wanted to sleep with a woman, I'd sleep with a real one.

    [I can't believe I'm the first one to use that line in this thread.]

  • Rookz

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    Apr 01, 2009 12:26 AM GMT
    NakedDevil saidIf I wanted to sleep with a woman, I'd sleep with a real one.

    [I can't believe I'm the first one to use that line in this thread.]



    OOohhh, scary. ::Shivers::

    His right, plus the women transform into only bleeding bitches a few days in a month. These, are just plain bleeding bitches.
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    Apr 01, 2009 12:27 AM GMT

    Would you do Marc St. James?
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    Apr 01, 2009 1:25 AM GMT
    I have dated both hyper-masculine and hyper-feminine men. They each have their perks and, well, their down-sides.

    Personally, I prefer a man that is Gay. Rigid gender roles annoy me. Be who you are...

    and yes, a little swish is nice.