Umm, I try to talk to anybody and everybody I can get myself in a comfortable situation enough to. My body and theirs don't make a difference. I talk to overweight people, average weight, body builders, or pencil thin guys. I'm not intimidated by them and I'm sure they're not intimidated by me. I don't got major muscles, but guys have said my form, still unchanged, is enough to turn them on...? I don't see what they see. I just see an average body, and I'm fine with that, just want to be physically fit.
If anyone tells me that I'm great looking in any way and I don't know them well, I assume they just couldn't get themselves to say nothing bad to my face at all, and probably only see someone superficial and shallow. Which in turns leads me to believe they're themselves superficial and shallow, since they couldn't see passed that one aspect of me.