I enjoy bottoming- aren't good with topping!

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  Oct 25, 2007 11:27 PM GMT

  This drives me CRAZY! I enjoy bottoming very very much... everything about it. And when I am bottoming, I feel that I am good at it (what with the sexy things you can do to entice your partner, etc.)
  
  But because I'm very masculine, the guys I tend to attract are like... 90% bottom, and when I tell them I like that too they're slightly taken aback! Plus, these guys I date that are bottoms can't really top very well. They can't get the rhythm of things and they don't exactly do that special little stuff that makes them a top, know what I mean?
  
  Whats the deal?- is my question I suppose...

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• Timbales
  
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  Oct 25, 2007 11:45 PM GMT

  Some guys just like one more than the other?
  
  I just try to do what I like to have done to me, and adjust as needed if I feel something is working better or not.

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  Oct 27, 2007 6:03 PM GMT

  C'mon, I think people are making too big of a deal with this "bottoming only" or "topping only" thing. You should be able to do both pretty well. Unless you're reffering to behaving submissive or dominant in the sack. That probably just has to do with thier personality. When I bottom, I'm not submissive usually. I'm most comfortable riding thier dick while they're on their back. That way you control the movement and stuff. If they want to be submissive, then lay them on their back and you ride them. While doing that take a couple fingers or a dildo and put it where the sun doesnt shine. that seems to be a good compromise for ya.

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• SoDakGuy
  
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  Nov 05, 2007 6:04 PM GMT

  I can top w/ the best of them, but recently, I'm enjoying being a bottom A LOT more. It's so much more fun & I'm quite aggressive too. Hell, even when I top, I'm aggressive.
  
  I have fun, no matter what.

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  Nov 07, 2007 12:00 AM GMT

  I think a good top should be "long lasting". Which comes to the question. how to keep yourself from cumming too fast?

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• SoDakGuy
  
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  Nov 07, 2007 12:09 AM GMT

  PRACTICE!! It's easy to do.

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  Nov 07, 2007 12:47 AM GMT

  what u mean? just keep holding it? or rub the head till its' desensitize?

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  Nov 07, 2007 12:48 AM GMT

  I guess I have to show you. I'm more of a hands on type of guy. ;)

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  Nov 17, 2007 11:40 AM GMT

  Bottoms who cum before tops are just plain rude.

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  Nov 25, 2007 4:42 AM GMT

  but there's this quite overwhelming sensation when you cum and ur couple dick still attach on you -_-!
  
  and btw.. SoDakGuy .. im with you.. verse is the best way to enjoy sex :p
  

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  Nov 26, 2007 4:44 AM GMT

  Yeah I used to just be a top all the time until I noticed that basically everytime I started going out with a guy, he would be a top too.
  So I just started bottoming a little bit.
  Its great but I still love being a top more.

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  Dec 27, 2007 6:28 PM GMT

  mcgine saidThis drives me CRAZY! I enjoy bottoming very very much... everything about it. And when I am bottoming, I feel that I am good at it (what with the sexy things you can do to entice your partner, etc.)
  
  But because I'm very masculine, the guys I tend to attract are like... 90% bottom, and when I tell them I like that too they're slightly taken aback! Plus, these guys I date that are bottoms can't really top very well. They can't get the rhythm of things and they don't exactly do that special little stuff that makes them a top, know what I mean?
  
  Whats the deal?- is my question I suppose...

  
  
  I'm a natural bottom, but have the same experience. Most expect me to be a top without question.
  
  I don't have any advice for you but, I do feel your pain.

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