bijockmuscle saidFirst I walked into the shower and glanced at the steam room where there was a guy in there stroking right in front of the door...then when I came out, i looked in the sauna and saw one guy stroking another...I complained to management...was I wrong?
I am taking it that you hadnt cheated on your wife with either of these guys, so you did feel any personal bond with them. ...
Neither of these guys was hurting you, so why didnt you just keep your mouth shut and go on about your business.
Maybe you will understand someday when someone tells your wife.
Personally, I say "mind your own business" and if someone makes an unwanted advance, just politely decline, just as you would if he were offering you a stick of gum. Just cuz it's sex is no reason one has to freak out.