Str8 buddies looking for action

  • Tiller66

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    Apr 05, 2009 5:51 PM GMT
    I was just wondering if anyone has had to deal with str8 friends wanting some action from you after you came out?And if so how did you deal with it?
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    Apr 05, 2009 6:37 PM GMT
    My best friend since I was about 5 put the moves on me after I came out and admitted that he was bi (I had occasional suspicions over the years that this was the case).

    We fooled around a couple times and it was fun for both of us. I've been in committed relationships since then and he's always respected that and we remain good friends to this day. Every situation is unique though and there is always the chance for things to go terribly wrong.

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    Apr 05, 2009 6:57 PM GMT

    Ya .. it happen alot in the town of gay cheap porn of the 70's.. (it's where I came from .. icon_rolleyes.gif )

  • GQjock

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    Apr 05, 2009 7:30 PM GMT
    Friends don't Ask for "action"
    Str8 or Gay
    and if they do they ain't your friend
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    Apr 05, 2009 8:41 PM GMT
    I've had straight mates get frisky with me when they are drunk.. I batt them away like the little children they are and then pick on them relentlessly the next day over breakfast, lunch and dinner..

    still some get overly affectionate when there drunk.. but I put it down to not them being gay, which I don't believe they are, but they just like me, they wanna get close and when there drunk it removes the inhibitions so it turns out a little frisky hahaha
  • Tiller66

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    Apr 06, 2009 11:21 AM GMT
    Well thanks for your responces especally lilTanker.I've had some expirence with a few of my str8 buds trying to come on to me and when it happens i tell them you are the one taking care of me first,that usually makes them back off.And your right lilTanker that they do get abit frisky when trashed,thanks again guys
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    Apr 09, 2009 1:13 AM GMT
    yup.

    one of my best friends from HS...in college...asked for a "favor". One of the oddest events of my life. the question was posed in an email. He wanted to perform oral on a guy to "see why some girls like it, and some didn't". I honestly wrote it off as him being drunk, and just never expected anything of it. We went to different colleges, several hours apart.

    Christmas break (some months later) he came to my house, and said he was here to collect his odd favor. Jeep, off-road, in the snow...did I mention he was (and is) ridiculously hot...

    He wanted to go first...who was I to say no?? No alcohol involved....he performed well for a first-timer. I returned the favor. It never happened again. The friendship never changed. He's married now with a kid. I still think he's straight, he just wanted to try something.

    Definitely one of my hottest memories...as I'd fantasized about this guy for years. And it was *very* hot.

    I'm not so caught up in this gay/straight thing. I'm sexual. I find some guys attractive, I find some women attractive. I've never had sex with a woman, though I've fooled around. Given the right opportunity, I would fool around with a woman, but I could never "marry" one. I've always dreamed of settling down with a guy, and in time, I will.

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    Apr 09, 2009 1:37 AM GMT
    Hahahahaha.

    Shhhhhh. I'm gonna let you on a little known secret. They aren't straight if they wanna have fun with you after you come out and being drunk while hitting on you is a poor ass excuse.

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    Apr 09, 2009 1:59 AM GMT
    shhhh I'm gonna let you in on a little secret...

    your a knob... shhhh dun tell anyone

    since when was experimenting not allowed?

    So fast to place a fucking label to make your self feel better..
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    Apr 09, 2009 2:12 AM GMT
    Yeah, and I guess since I like women's boobs and sometimes make out with them...that makes me straight...right???

    jeez....lighten up guys...people are sexual...in all kinds and shades of gray...

  • Tiller66

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    Apr 09, 2009 2:13 AM GMT
    Well said lilTanker I just asked becuase I like to hear others expirences with it.So far out of the few times it happened one was good and repeating but one was also bad.But thanks for putting anything up there are no worng or right they just are
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    Apr 09, 2009 2:14 AM GMT
    I've had a few straight guys who wanted sex from me. In other words, they wanted me to service them.

    I only have sex with guys who treat me as an equal, and who do the same things to me that they want done to them. To date, no straight guy has ever offered me that equitable arrangement. I recommend against being a whore to a straight guy.
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    Apr 09, 2009 2:37 PM GMT
    Red_Vespa saidI've had a few straight guys who wanted sex from me. In other words, they wanted me to service them.

    Hunny, do we still use the term "service" past Y2K? icon_razz.gif
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    Apr 09, 2009 2:39 PM GMT
    GQjock saidFriends don't Ask for "action"
    Str8 or Gay
    and if they do they ain't your friend


    and if they do, they ain't straighticon_exclaim.gificon_razz.gificon_evil.gif
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    Apr 09, 2009 2:41 PM GMT
    lilTanker saidshhhh I'm gonna let you in on a little secret...

    your a knob... shhhh dun tell anyone

    since when was experimenting not allowed?

    So fast to place a fucking label to make your self feel better..


    huh?????????? as a gay man do you want to experiment with a woman when you are drunk? how about when you are not?
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    Apr 09, 2009 2:42 PM GMT
    ncsucarjock88 saidYeah, and I guess since I like women's boobs and sometimes make out with them...that makes me straight...right???

    jeez....lighten up guys...people are sexual...in all kinds and shades of gray...



    how about a woman's va ja ja? Do you like that and sometimes play around with it as well?
  • SeanTRNJ

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    Apr 09, 2009 2:49 PM GMT
    There's an increasingly common opinion with psycologists that sexuality cannot be simply defined as Homosexual Bisexual or Heterosexual. Since humans have to label everything we now have two new terms that flank the bi-folk... those being:

    Heteroflexible.... mostly straight, but not quite

    and

    Homoflexible.... mostly gay, but not quite
  • swimbikerun

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    Apr 09, 2009 2:58 PM GMT
    ncsucarjock88 saidyup.

    one of my best friends from HS...in college...asked for a "favor". One of the oddest events of my life. the question was posed in an email. He wanted to perform oral on a guy to "see why some girls like it, and some didn't". I honestly wrote it off as him being drunk, and just never expected anything of it. We went to different colleges, several hours apart.

    Christmas break (some months later) he came to my house, and said he was here to collect his odd favor. Jeep, off-road, in the snow...did I mention he was (and is) ridiculously hot...

    He wanted to go first...who was I to say no?? No alcohol involved....he performed well for a first-timer. I returned the favor. It never happened again. The friendship never changed. He's married now with a kid. I still think he's straight, he just wanted to try something.

    Definitely one of my hottest memories...as I'd fantasized about this guy for years. And it was *very* hot.

    I'm not so caught up in this gay/straight thing. I'm sexual. I find some guys attractive, I find some women attractive. I've never had sex with a woman, though I've fooled around. Given the right opportunity, I would fool around with a woman, but I could never "marry" one. I've always dreamed of settling down with a guy, and in time, I will.

    Great post! hawt...
    Betcha he still sucks a cock or two every now and then.
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    Apr 09, 2009 3:09 PM GMT
    That really IS a good post above me here, NCSUCarJock88........good profile too.

    A similar thing happened to me. A hunky straight buddy of mine (the Ben Affleck type) asked me to blow him one night late - when he was pretty drunk after a night on the town. I had just driven him home, and helped him upstairs in his house to his bedroom - half carrying him. I dropped him on his bed - threw a blanket over him and was leaving when he called out his *request*. I just laughed it off and went home. I'm about half sorry I didn't stay and try something.

    The other thing that kind of baffles me is when you horse around and wrestle with the guys - and a couple of them get very intensely into it - and you pin them or get pinned - and find a hard-as-steel cock jabbing you. When it happened to me again recently during a horsing-around-with-the-guys day, I just looked into his eyes and said, "What's this?!"
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    Apr 09, 2009 3:14 PM GMT
    Jockbod48 said ... When it happened to me again recently during a horsing-around-with-the-guys day, I just looked into his eyes and said, "What's this?!"


    Finish the goddamn story. Cliffhangers suck, especially when you're left holding your cock.

    The nerve!

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    Apr 09, 2009 4:54 PM GMT

    Threesome with the two guys above me? Hellz yeah!!!

    Tapper -- here, use my latest confession
    http://www.realjock.com/gayforums/484843/
    to remedy the cliffhanger!!!

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    Apr 09, 2009 8:46 PM GMT
    Tapper said
    Jockbod48 said ... When it happened to me again recently during a horsing-around-with-the-guys day, I just looked into his eyes and said, "What's this?!"


    Finish the goddamn story. Cliffhangers suck, especially when you're left holding your cock.

    The nerve!



    Guess I'd better finish telling it - a few guys have sent e-mails and a couple of calls on the phone wanting to hear the rest. OK here it is:

    When I grabbed my *straight* buddy's hard cock and said, "What's this?!" he grabbed mine and we stared each other down - - - I was pinned and he had the control - I couldn't recover. I wanted him so badly at that minute - he was on top of me - each guy out of breath. It turned into a kiss - and I just said, "Let me up - let's take this outside" so we went outside to his hot tub on his patio. We closed the canvas curtains around the hot tub and went for it. Other guys stayed inside on the mats and wrestled - giving us some time to ourselves. They only came out later when we opened the curtains and were kicking back - still in the hot tub - spent. They knew what we had done and were kind of in awe that I had broken my friend in. icon_cool.gifThis guy is no longer someone I'd consider *straight* and yes - after the initial squirming and some pain - he took it like a man.
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    Apr 09, 2009 8:50 PM GMT
    Jockbod48 said
    Tapper said
    Jockbod48 said ... When it happened to me again recently during a horsing-around-with-the-guys day, I just looked into his eyes and said, "What's this?!"


    Finish the goddamn story. Cliffhangers suck, especially when you're left holding your cock.

    The nerve!



    Guess I'd better finish telling it - a few guys have sent e-mails and a couple of calls on the phone wanting to hear the rest. OK here it is:

    When I grabbed my *straight* buddy's hard cock and said, "What's this?!" he grabbed mine and we stared each other down - - - I was pinned me and had the control - I couldn't recover. I wanted him so badly at that minute - he was on top of me - each guy out of breath. It turned into a kiss - and I just said, "Let me up - let's take this outside" so we went outside to his hot tub on his patio. We closed the canvas curtains around the hot tub and went for it. Other guys stayed inside on the mats and wrestled - giving us some time to ourselves. They only came out later when we opened the curtains and were kicking back - still in the hot tub - spent. They knew what we had done and were kind of in awe that I had broken my friend in. icon_cool.gifThis guy is no longer someone I'd consider *straight* and yes - after the initial squirming and some pain - he took it like a man.


    and there you have it folks the morale of the story isicon_exclaim.gif No straight man would suck a man off or take it up da assicon_exclaim.gificon_razz.gif
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    Apr 09, 2009 9:04 PM GMT
    There's a new term called PoMosexual - Post Modern Sexual. I am a homosexual, but I truly appreciate the attempts made at opening up labels to include the many shades of gray out there.

    And it sickens me when someone interested in experimentation....or someone just horny enough at the moment to fuck a bowl of soup assuming it's still warm, is immediately and forever labeled "gay."

    It's because of that determination to label each other that this country is so ass-backwards and sexually negative. Why would someone act on mere interest, intrigue, or curiosity when the rest of society is going to judge them over their new "label."

    And for all you Mary's out there that still stand by the idea that if a guy sucks a cock, he's immediately gay - YES. YOU ARE JUDGEMENTAL. I'm sorry, but who the hell are you to determine what sexual preference someone is? How do you like that, with your "Holier-than-thou Soap Box I see so abundantly in these posts?
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    Apr 09, 2009 9:11 PM GMT
    Oooh, that's hot!....icon_wink.gif
    Hey, you know, if they wanna try it, sure i'm game. A little play won't harm nobody.