Tranny Phobic?

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    Oct 27, 2007 6:49 PM GMT
    I haven't been on here for very long but I can't seem to find any other FTMs (female to male transsexuals) on this site. And one guys profile said "No FTMs/trans-disgusting"
    Is there anyone here open-minded enough to date/hook-up with an ftm or am I just wasting my time?
    Please, be nice, I don't need to be bashed, that's the job of conservative straight people.

    ~K
  • Alan95823

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    Oct 27, 2007 9:56 PM GMT
    Hmm, I don't think I've ever met an FTM that I know of. Most of the trannys I've met have been MTF, and they were all focused on finding some butch daddy - which I'm not. icon_smile.gif

    Good luck with the search, though!
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    Oct 27, 2007 10:10 PM GMT
    I'm not looking for a date or hookup but I don't think you're disgusting. I believe the lead singer for The Cliks is a FTM or a FTM on the verge of being an M. The Cliks ROCK!
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    Oct 27, 2007 10:24 PM GMT
    icon_smile.gifWelcome to the Board!

    I don't think I have ever met a FTM trans sexual either, and I don't believe I have seen one on the board.

    I don't think it's disgusting, I have known a couple of MTF; but then its just not my thing and I am happily partnered.

    I guess I am a bit confused: since you are now a male, or soon will be; does that mean you are looking for a Female or a Male to date?

    Good luck with your search though, I am sure it won't be easy.

    Rob

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    Oct 27, 2007 11:18 PM GMT
    You're talking about Lucas Silveira, McGay. The Cliks were here Tuesday; a couple friends went to hear them but I had to sit home and listen to neurotics.

    Welcome aboard, Capt. Jack. You're a pirate?
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    Oct 27, 2007 11:40 PM GMT
    Hi Capt Jack,

    I know a few FTM's, a few MTF's. I think it's great that you are here. Welcome!
  • zakariahzol

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    Oct 28, 2007 12:00 AM GMT
    Men.....this is new. I have encounter a lot of male to female tranny, but never female to male. Sure you are welcome aboard. Sexually I am not into transexual of any kind, but I use to have a lot of friend who is. Tranny can be really fun people. They make you laugh, plenty of senses of humor and yes, some of them are beautiful.
  • trebor965

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    Oct 28, 2007 12:19 AM GMT
    hey variety is the spice of life. welcome.
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    Oct 28, 2007 6:19 AM GMT
    Wow, thanks everyone for being so supportive. I was a little nervous.
    Replies to questions:
    McGay: Yes, the cliks are awesome!
    ITJock: I identify as gay male, I'm looking for guys.
    obscenewish: Sorry you missed seeing the cliks. And of course I'm a pirate...a butt pirate that is. lol
  • MikePhilPerez

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    Oct 28, 2007 1:16 PM GMT
    CaptJackSawy,

    Welcome.

    I am sure the vast majority here, welcome you and will not think your disgusting. I don't.

    Like the other guys, I have never met a FTM trans sexual, but I'm sure your as cool as anyone else icon_smile.gif

    To answer your question, only time will tell.

    Good luck. Hope you find someone.

    Mike
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    Oct 28, 2007 1:44 PM GMT
    I know one MTF transsexual. She works at my college. Very nice person. We have had many discussions about his transformation. My partner's first cousin is a FTM transsexual. We just found that out this past Spring. He married a female and had a nice church wedding. We were invited to the wedding but had other guests here during that time and could not get away. My partner's parents attended the wedding and sent us photos. He is very handsome. I would have never thought in a million years he use to be female.

    I have had a few members on here ask me about my member name. I put a line in my profile to explain. I hope that does not offend you CaptJackSawy. Let me know if it does and I will change it. icon_smile.gif

    It reads: http://www.skytran.net/

    Check out where my member name comes from. No, I am not a transgendered flight attendant!!
  • cacti

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    Oct 28, 2007 2:17 PM GMT
    Yes, of course, a big welcome. What kind of gay fitness community would we be if we didn't include you? icon_smile.gif

    As for your search for a date, I haven't a clue how many people here are interested(never seen it mentioned in a profile before), but it's a big enough community to find a lot of diversity. And the forums offer tons of really insightful discussion about all kinds of issues.

    Enjoy your stay!
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    Oct 28, 2007 5:35 PM GMT
    Hmm, so you're a female turning into a male? But a gay male?

    thats interesting! I wouldve thought that a female turning into a male would be interested in women, because if you're interested in men... but youre already a female, why not just enjoy your pussy?
    NO DISRESPECT! Sorry if that sounded mean or anything!


    Welcome!!!
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    Oct 28, 2007 5:42 PM GMT
    Hey CaptJack,

    Welcome to RJ! I live in SF, probably the capital of the FTM movement, and I've met and worked with several FTMs and MTFs over the years. Most of the FTMs I know date other FTMs or lesbians; however, I know one FTM who is "married" to a gay man; they even have a kid together. There's a good support network in SF for trans people of all persuasions.

    Best of luck!

    Jeff
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    Oct 28, 2007 6:14 PM GMT
    welcomed to the club hunny
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    Oct 29, 2007 3:20 AM GMT
    Thanks everyone.

    SkyTran: Nope, not offended. lol It's all good.
    Mcgine: It's really difficult to explain, but. Sexual orientation and gender identity are not the same thing. How I see myself and how I want my body to look is different from who I'm attracted to. And, I don't mind my "pussy" so much but I wish I had a penis. I can still enjoy my "manhole" (as some transguys call it) as a guy. Hope this helped you understand better. If not, feel free to message me if you wanna chat more.
    jeffinsf: Man I wish I lived in SanFran
    Alexander89:You are so cute...oh, and thanks for the welcome ;-)
  • Alan95823

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    Dec 12, 2007 1:10 AM GMT
    Will they be able to give you a functional penis with surgery? I'm not sure if I've ever heard of it being done, so I'm not quite up on gender-reassignment surgical techniques and outcomes.

    Penises are fun, I hope you get one... or at least a good one to play with icon_smile.gif
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    Dec 12, 2007 2:13 AM GMT
    I met a tranny boy from Canada that I fell head over heels for... we still see each other sometimes.
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    Dec 12, 2007 2:51 AM GMT
    hey guys -
    seems capt jack is doing a LOT of trans 101 here.
    heres some helpful links i found from a simple google search:
    to see how much of a hunk a FTM can grow to be check out: lorencameron.com
    and the only FTM porn star : buckangel.com
    and for some trans 101 on a wiki-type article:
    http://www.t-vox.org/index.php?title=Trans_101#I_want_to_date_a_Trans_person._Can_you_help.3F
    and an article on what it feels like to be trans:
    http://ftmichael.tashari.org/beingftm.html

    i love that the gay mens community is so welcoming, but sometimes doing a little research makes it a little easier for us all.

    good luck to you Captjack.



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    Dec 23, 2007 1:45 AM GMT
    Alan95823 saidWill they be able to give you a functional penis with surgery? I'm not sure if I've ever heard of it being done, so I'm not quite up on gender-reassignment surgical techniques and outcomes.

    Penises are fun, I hope you get one... or at least a good one to play with icon_smile.gif


    It's usually not possible. And doesn't look real either. So I'm hoping to find a good one to play with. icon_smile.gif

    CosmicCub- Thank you for sharing!icon_biggrin.gif Thats cool.

    Atuker- Thanks for the back up and the links. icon_smile.gif
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    Feb 13, 2008 12:19 AM GMT
    Any excuse to show my favorite you tube video ever.....!!!
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    Feb 13, 2008 12:24 AM GMT
    I have a few friends like that, especially one of my best friend's Charlie. He's such a sweetheart and I love him to death, and to me that wouldn't even matter in friendship.

    Personally, I wouldn't date one though- it's just not in my preference spectrum.
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    Nov 14, 2009 1:17 PM GMT
    'Nother transboy here (as you've discovered already good Captain) and I know there's at least one other transguy online too.

    I've found the place to be pretty friendly - CosmicCub and atucker are examples in this thread I think! - and I've generally found the range of reactions to be about the same as they are in the 'real world'..

    Speaking of which.. in the real world I've found plenty of gay boys to play with (the one's here are all too far away, sadly!).. so I'm sure you will too.


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    Nov 14, 2009 4:00 PM GMT
    Hey r_evolutionary_boy, beat us to it. We were going to say we know two others here on RJ - you're one of them. icon_wink.gif

    Welcome to Realjock, CaptJackSavvy!
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    Nov 14, 2009 4:28 PM GMT
    HI CaptJack! So happy you are here and testing the waters out on real jock and the discussion forums. makes me a little sad you were nervous about posting, not wanting to be rejected. icon_sad.gif though it looks like you got some good responses so far. icon_smile.gif I know some MTF trans people here in LA, and I THINK I know a FTM trans person, though it is very hard to tell... but I am also not gonna ask, nor am i curious enough to ask because I don't see it as a big deal whatever they are either way, it's all good. As far as dating goes... I guess I'd give the same dating advice I would give anyone... be yourself, be confident, and be funny.... if you are. icon_smile.gif