redbull saidSomeone I know told me the other day that he didnt want to be sexy. Now this is coming from a very sexy hot man. He says he wants people to think hes nice and just a person like everyone else....wtf? I cant imagine someone NOT wanting to be attractive or sexy....have you ever run into someone like this?
Redbull, you are a profoundly sensitive and sharp individual. How could you not understand where your friend was coming from with that statement?
Thanks for the compliment...I think...haha. I think I understand what he means. Its just hard for me to comprehend though. Its my understanding that as men we are attracted by sight first, so why wouldnt you want to be as sexy as possible?
Actually my friend takes very good care of himself, says he wants to feel good about himself and I think he has to know hes attractive. People comment on his body and stare at his ass when we are out. I think his problem is the sexy part. I think he wants to be wanted more than just for sex or sexual attraction.
He wants someone to want him for just friendship, his talents and abilities. Not just his looks or his nice, tight, hot, ass....ugh, sorry got side tracked, haha. Anyway....I guess I have a hard time comprehending this mentality when I have always been the "hes so nice" type. or being great boyfriend material or "you have such a good heart" ugh!!!!
Dont get me wrong I have never had a problem going out and pickin up someone if the need arose, but for the most part I have always been the Mr. Nice guy.....
it seems that we always really do want what we cant have eh? The grass is always greener on the other side of the fence for real.