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Think about it. Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm.............

I would rather be hotter than my BF because....
well....

I like the attention on me.


What about you?

P.S. honey if you are out there reading this you are hot as hell! With our relationship this is definitely not the case!

I'd rather that my boyfriend be hotter than me. I've been in the limelight far too long and I'm really good in inflating my partner's ego... or any other guy*, for that matter... anything to get me in his pants. ha haahhaha x
Besides, he's in fabulous company.

*MOSTLY WORKS FOR STRAIGHT MEN

This is a GREAT question. Nice to see something a little less trivial than "would you do this or that to the guy above you thread."


As long as I knew my partner was really into me and that he didn't feel the need to stray because his attraction for me was waning I don't mind either way.

I've been very fortunate to be with some men that I was extremely turned on by but just on a physical/sexual level. But they didn't last due to compatibility issues unrelated to attractiveness.

Hmmm.. well I´d not be intimidated if he was hotter than me. If it was going to be a serious relationship then there would have to be trust, so I´d also not be worried that he was going to go off with someone else: he needs to be happy enough with me and that´s enough for me.

Don´t care too much: obviously I have to find him attractive, but apart from that I don´t care about other´s people´s take on who´s hotter.

How about I split the difference and say I like knowing my boyfriend and I have totally different looks, appeal to totally different people, and therefore each gets his 'moment in the sun' when we go out? Or is that cheating?

If I constantly overshadowed my boyfriend, I'd feel a little guilty. If the opposite were the same, I'd fear he'd feel the same way.

I wish I am hotter than him. (my ex). But since he is 2o year younger than me, so much slimmer, glowing with energy and youth, there no competition between us . We are intergeneration couple. I am older he is younger. I probably an attractive mature men, have more knowlegde and wisdom, but he got all the physical attractiveness due to his youthful age.

I dont even like to be in the same picture with him. I feel like a father and son and not as two bf

He can be the hotter one.

I'd prefer to be the brains of the operation.

zdrew saidHow about I split the difference and say I like knowing my boyfriend and I have totally different looks, appeal to totally different people, and therefore each gets his 'moment in the sun' when we go out? Or is that cheating?

If I constantly overshadowed my boyfriend, I'd feel a little guilty. If the opposite were the same, I'd fear he'd feel the same way.

Well said, zdrew!

I'm not going to even answer this question..... I think each of you can have your own "level of hot" without it becoming a contest.

My bf and I know what the scene is.. and I'm comfortable with it.

I just want my boyfriend to be hot, to me, screw what everyone else thinks.. I've im in the sack with him and we are going at it and I think hes the hottest thing since snow globes its all good..

ie, I dun care, just as long as hes hot to me.. besides, I get enough attention as it is... let someone else have some for a change

lilTanker saidI just want my boyfriend to be hot, to me, screw what everyone else thinks.. I've im in the sack with him and we are going at it and I think hes the hottest thing since snow globes its all good..

ie, I dun care, just as long as hes hot to me.. besides, I get enough attention as it is... let someone else have some for a change

Yes. This.

Does it really matter? I figure as long as the person is attracted to you and you are attracted to them then everyone it happy.

This is kind of a vain question.

Guy101 said
This is kind of a vain question.

Unless you cull your relationship-opinions by polling everyone you know.

Do you find my boyfriend...:
A) very much more attractive than me?
B) fairly more attractive that me?
C) about the same attractiveness level as me?
D) fairly less attractive than me?
E) very much less attractive than me?

Please be sure to use a #2 pencil when filling out your answer, so it can be easily read by the Scantron.

I mean, you all realize that attractiveness is subjective, right?

A question that would get you more relevant data is... "In order to care about another's opinion of your boyfriend's attractiveness, how little self-esteem must you have?"

Chaaxwvn saidHe can be the hotter one.

I'd prefer to be the brains of the operation.

Haha, best answer by far.

I'd rather have the HOT boyfriend.

again, something irrelevant to me and how i date people. sure cuteness/hotness are good things, but they don't account all that much in the end. haven't met a pretty face or hot body that can put me at ease just by being there. i haven't had a better or worse relationship because of them or me being better looking than the other yet, so i can say i'm a bit in the dark about the basis of this question...?

I'd rather have a hot boyfriend (but would hope he would be at least partially attracted to me physically, LOL).

He can have the looks...I'll keep my brains

nysexy saidHe can have the looks...I'll keep my brains

Lucky for you that you have both.

...thanks

well i guess i would rather be hotter than my boyfriend because I always felt that if they were too hot I would prob feel uncomfortable around them, beautiful people make me uneasy...

I'd rather my boyfriend be hotter than me. I am very visually stimulated. And probably shallow.

I don't really care, honestly. It's all about the energy my guy would emit that is the total turn on. I have dated, overweight, unattractive men too simply because the attraction was present.

My last boyfriend was attractive but his head was swollen as a result of the attention. Ultimately, I was rarely invited to join him in a social setting because he was embarrassed of me; something he vehemently denied.

If I choose to date, the next guy would not last with such narcissistic attitudes.