Top/Vtop vs Bottom/Vbottom

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    Apr 09, 2009 6:22 AM GMT
    Why do men who play the top role in bed, believe they should be the dominant one in the relationship...Why not equals?
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    Apr 09, 2009 6:36 AM GMT
    the real question is are they really being the dominate one in the relationship??

    its my experience that the apparent "dominate" one only appears that way, but its the more apparent "submissive" one who has the biggest say over how things happen.

    ever watch a man and a wife, the wife isn't dominate (usually) but shes got just as big a say in everything, she just doesn't always feel a need to say anything..

    a relationship built on respect of each other as people, as partners, as lovers, it doesn't matter, some may assume more apparently dominate roles, some more submissive roles, some more an apparent role of equality, but they don't matter, because a relationship built on respect for each other means that all things are taken into account and all views are considered before hand..

    I've always felt that this dominate/submissive thing is too much, I'm generally a very strong, assertive and confident person and can be honestly, very over baring, stick me with a guy who I like though and I'll immediately start thinking of him too, I'll value his input if he pipes up with something, I'll ask questions, see how things are, want his opinion and so forth.. but I'm not a top or a botttom, I'm both.. but out of the bed I'm very dominating and pig headed..

    dominate does not mean they are in charge and submissive does not mean they follow..
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    Apr 09, 2009 6:39 AM GMT
    Lil Tanker is obviously a bottom.icon_eek.gif
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    Apr 09, 2009 6:40 AM GMT
    redheadguy saidLil Tanker is obviously a bottom.icon_eek.gif

    only in your dreams sweet heart.. the only place you'd ever have a chance icon_smile.gif
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    Apr 09, 2009 6:56 AM GMT
    redheadguy saidLil Tanker is obviously a bottom.icon_eek.gif


    thats never been a secret. He basically screams bottom icon_rolleyes.gif
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    Apr 09, 2009 7:01 AM GMT
    charlitos saidhats never been a secret. He basically screams bottom icon_rolleyes.gif
    HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHA this from you.. HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA

    *Gasps for air*

    Oh that was the funniest thing I've read all day..
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    Apr 09, 2009 7:04 AM GMT
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    Apr 09, 2009 7:17 AM GMT

    An ultra-effemminate submissive boy like me is a total top. Just lazyyyyy...... icon_redface.gificon_lol.gificon_lol.gificon_lol.gificon_lol.gificon_lol.gif
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    Apr 23, 2009 6:21 PM GMT
    Great comments on the topic guys....