What makes you drawn to guys who are in a relationship?

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    Apr 09, 2009 6:13 PM GMT

    Okay, so sue me. This was inspired by my Tap Tap, and the other thread,
    SEX WITH MARRIED MEN............, which got me thinking of characteristics that make me fall for guys who are already taken... I could enlist them into three main factors:
    1. Their ability to commit;
    2. Their level of maturity; and
    3. Their strong sense of responsibility (it's fucken hot when they turn you down the first time)... even hotter if they flirt back with you today and forget about you tomorrow.
    Shit, I am seriously sick, aren't I? icon_redface.gif icon_redface.gificon_redface.gificon_redface.gif


    HI, TAPPER
  • Timbales

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    Apr 09, 2009 6:29 PM GMT
    lol
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    Apr 09, 2009 6:30 PM GMT

    STRONG EDIT: With the exemption of the guy above me who just lol'D icon_mad.gif
  • Timbales

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    Apr 09, 2009 6:34 PM GMT
    ZiMsTeR said
    STRONG EDIT: With the exemption of the guy above me who just lol'D icon_mad.gif


    sorry, I just think it's funny

    didn't mean to offend, Zimmy
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    Apr 09, 2009 6:36 PM GMT

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    Apr 09, 2009 6:51 PM GMT
    ABSOLUTELY NOTHING!
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    Apr 09, 2009 6:54 PM GMT
    If I am attracted to a guy and I find out that he is seeing someone, all bets are off. And as for married men, why would you want to contribute to the demise of a marriage....Oh wait. That's right. It was about the sex....pffft.
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    Apr 09, 2009 7:01 PM GMT
    You mention what their characteristics, but you don't talk about yourself. Are you possibly attracted to committed men because you know they are unattainable (for the most part *cough*)? This sounds like it could just be another "why do I fall for straight guys?" or "why so I fall in love with dead boys?".
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    Apr 09, 2009 7:03 PM GMT
    More like the latter... and being a Zombie yourself --you're next!!! icon_twisted.gif
    p.s. I don't like talking about me... I'z not like that at all. icon_redface.gificon_redface.gificon_redface.gif
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    Apr 09, 2009 7:30 PM GMT
    ZiMsTeR said
    Okay, so sue me. This was inspired by my Tap Tap, and the other thread,
    SEX WITH MARRIED MEN............, which got me thinking of characteristics that make me fall for guys who are already taken... I could enlist them into three main factors:
    1. Their ability to commit;
    2. Their level of maturity; and
    3. Their strong sense of responsibility (it's fucken hot when they turn you down the first time)... even hotter if they flirt back with you today and forget about you tomorrow.
    Shit, I am seriously sick, aren't I? icon_redface.gif icon_redface.gificon_redface.gificon_redface.gif


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    you forgot one. You should have said

    4. I've got an already committed man fetishicon_razz.gificon_evil.gif
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    Apr 09, 2009 7:33 PM GMT
    ZiMsTeR said
    Okay, so sue me. This was inspired by my Tap Tap, and the other thread,
    SEX WITH MARRIED MEN............, which got me thinking of characteristics that make me fall for guys who are already taken... I could enlist them into three main factors:
    1. Their ability to commit;
    2. Their level of maturity; and
    3. Their strong sense of responsibility (it's fucken hot when they turn you down the first time)... even hotter if they flirt back with you today and forget about you tomorrow.

    HI, TAPPER


    To each his own, but it's a no go with a committed guy for me.

    It's just cum dumping plain and simple and that doesn't work for meicon_exclaim.gif
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    Apr 09, 2009 7:59 PM GMT
    Blackguy4you saidyou forgot one. You should have said
    4. I've got an already committed man fetishicon_razz.gificon_evil.gif

    ...and it has to be multiple choice number fwhore! icon_cool.gif
  • SirEllingtonB...

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    Apr 10, 2009 1:50 AM GMT
    ErikTaurean saidIf I am attracted to a guy and I find out that he is seeing someone, all bets are off. And as for married men, why would you want to contribute to the demise of a marriage....Oh wait. That's right. It was about the sex....pffft.


    Agreed. If there's one rule I live by in the dating world it's staying away from men already in a relationship - they're still attractive, sure, but have also become an untouchable. It's just not really an issue.
  • yoheee

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    Apr 17, 2009 2:44 AM GMT
    ahhh...the attraction to the unattainable.
    I humbly suggest another reason, as well.

    When you're in a relationship, generally a happy and healthy one, you tend to give off certain pheromones. Pheromones that like to grab you and say, "Hey man, i'm lovin life AND i've been having great sex...jealous?"
    at least that's how it feels to me, haha
  • dannyboy1101

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    Apr 17, 2009 3:14 AM GMT
    Gay men are for the most part somewhat dysfunctional (at least) and my thoughts are dysfunction breeds dysfunction (literally). A slutty guy in a relationship will happily cheat with a slutty guy not in a relationship. At this point, there aren't enough good role model relationships in the gay realm, so there aren't very many goals or reasons to stick with one guy. To each their own I guess, but it is kinda sad...