Oct 29, 2007 9:23 AM GMT
So I'm gay and I'm in college. I slowly came out from freshman year and I came out fully (to my parents who were last to be told) in January as a senior. As a fifth year its a bit different coming out to people, I don't tell them and let them figure it out for themselves but I no longer deny it if they ask. One of my new suitemates just found out after he took a look at my facebook and was surprised, he was cool with it. I was curious as to how being gay has impacted your college lives. Are you selective of who you tell? Can you say you are "out" if some of your friends don't know? Cause I'm not sure everyone knows, but I don't want to tell them cause I don't want it to be a big deal, and on some level I don't want things to change, but if they asked I would tell them. Also I went to a few allies meetings and realized I didn't really fit in there, thats normal right? So yeah, what about you guys, how are you all handling your life in college as gay men.