sooooo........ i have a question!!!!!!

  • tbeaux

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    Apr 09, 2009 9:22 PM GMT
    so i have been dating this guy, Zack. I like him a lot, well his job requires him to travel across the world, and country.( He is a little bit older than me ) but anywho, for those of you that deal with this in relationships, how do you deal with having your sig. other gone for so long? Like what can you do to make it seem not so long? umm what is a special thing to do for him the night before he leaves?

    he'll be leaving in mid may for 3 weeks in asia... ugh. so advice would be great! thanks!
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    Apr 09, 2009 9:31 PM GMT
    Absence is to love as wind is to fire, it extinguishes the small and kindles the great.

    So masterbate chew on that one while he's gone, grasshopper.
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    Apr 09, 2009 9:40 PM GMT

    A picture of him for your nightstand might help.
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    Apr 09, 2009 9:53 PM GMT
    I travel ALOT for my work. I'm in Killeen and have been here since Oct last year. Slated to head home in May for a coupla weeks. Then off to Ok for a few weeks and back here to Killeen for the rest of the year... I'm gonna break my "away from home" record this year. Cam'ing always helps. Butt I'm going at the prb from the other direction. I hope that helps...
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    Apr 09, 2009 10:06 PM GMT

    Hey, babs...if he did what you are doing, he'd be cheating on his boyfriend!
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    Apr 09, 2009 10:58 PM GMT
    OP, are you going to start your playlist now for those nights when you start crying in your pillow. icon_razz.gif

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  • coolarmydude

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    Apr 09, 2009 11:07 PM GMT
    I recommend you make personal goals (gym, school, community events, etc) for that time period so that you have something healthy to focus on while he's away, It will make the time seem to fly by quicker instead of constantly being preoccupied with something you cannot control.
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    Apr 10, 2009 12:06 AM GMT
    Talk on the phone a lot.
    Make and share videos with/for one another.
    Web cam.
    Letters.
    etc.
  • twostroke

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    Apr 10, 2009 12:12 AM GMT
    do as you think right.

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    Apr 10, 2009 12:14 AM GMT
    Get good at phone sex ;)
  • Sayrnas

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    Apr 10, 2009 12:20 AM GMT
    lilTanker saidGet good at phone sex ;)


    Second and third! Nah, try to stay in touch. Just because there is miles between y'all doesn't mean you have to put your relationship on hold.
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    Apr 10, 2009 12:20 AM GMT
    GuiltyGear said
    Hey, babs...if he did what you are doing, he'd be cheating on his boyfriend!


    Hey GuiltyGear;
    I've been trying to send you a pvt. post; but my computer won't send it through. thanks for hotlisting me. I'd like to keep in touch; maybe send me a message with your pvt. email/
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    john
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    Apr 10, 2009 12:23 AM GMT

    Will get right on that, SIR.
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    Apr 10, 2009 12:33 AM GMT
    Webcam webcam webcam!

    only 3 weeks ? I'm jealous... -in a similiar situation myself - i've actually found that being forced to be seperated for so long actually seems to keep our love that much stronger - we miss each other so much more!

    Btw, if either of you is the jealous/paranoid type, best to work out those frustrations before hand....
  • Webster666

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    Apr 10, 2009 2:48 AM GMT
    My ex was a stewardess, so he was constantly traveling. It was great to see him, and great to have time alone. I liked making a nice dinner for him when he was coming home from a trip. He would take off at all hours of the day and night, so it wasn't convenient to do anything special before he left.
  • tbeaux

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    Apr 10, 2009 4:40 AM GMT
    Hmmm. I like that idea of having a picture of him printed out ones, rather than just the digital. I think i'd make him a nice dinner and have a fantastic night with alot of ups and downs in it. ;) thanks guys!
  • TallGWMvballe...

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    Apr 10, 2009 6:28 PM GMT
    onmyway saidAbsence is to love as wind is to fire, it extinguishes the small and kindles the great.

    So masterbate chew on that one while he's gone, grasshopper.


    That was really good!
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    Apr 10, 2009 6:30 PM GMT
    Dude, revel in the fact that you'll have time to do what you need/want to do and not have to worry about having "him" around. And when he returns, you just do the same but with HIM!
  • TallGWMvballe...

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    Apr 10, 2009 6:31 PM GMT
    SKYPE ==== Webcam with voice as often as possible... it's free and really good.

    All the newer Macs come with a camera and mic installed and many PCs do as well.