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soo one of my exs(ex number 1) are dating another one of my exs(ex number 2). i dont even know what to think here. i know that ex1 is doing to make me jealous because he tried hooking up with some of my previous ex's. thank god that guy is actually decent and a good guy and politley eskwed him with a firm hand. But i told stuff to ex2 about ex1. so i know he is goign to tell him. and what pissed me off even more is that there is no way they would have known about eachother if it wasnt for me. and ex1 was calling me 2 weeks ago for a booty call and i denied that. i would never date them again and never want to. its just really upsetting

umm... are you serious??

WOW! Why would you care what your Ex is doing with another one of your Ex's?

They are called Ex's for a reason. Move on and stop thinking the world revolves around you? Clearly your Ex's don't which is why they are dating one another. Ha.

What's really upsetting is all this is self-made drama and complication on your part. This has insecurity with paranoia and low-self esteem written all over it.

Don't worry about it.. Let them live their own life. forget about them both.

in fear of sounding like a Drag Queen after school special...Honey, wish them well, let them love, and move on to find you a little happiness...you are young, hung, and sprung for a prince...not a couple of paupers....WORK....IT!....lol...yeah that sums it up.

Why do you even associate with Ex#1...and how long would it take for Ex#2 to travel from Atlanta to Montgomery at 40 miles per hour to see his Aunt Sussie Mae if the Sun sets in Eqypt at 4pm and he forgot his douche and had to turn around and go back for it in Birmingham?

Dude, ditch 'em and worry about men that actually care about you!

Be happy for them. Two of my exes are a couple and have been for over 10 years now. I'm responsible for them being together. They are great guys and it makes me feel good that I was there pushing them together. When they have rough spots in their relationship it feels good that I'm the first one they call to ask for advice. I think you're making this all about you when they are more interested in making it about each other.

Ah, the drama.....

now now, be fair, hate them equally

jprichva saidAh, the drama.....

Well, youth and drama often go hand in hand. We have to forgive them their youthful melodramatics. Well, until they get really annoying and then we can pray they are devoured by rabid lemmings.

GuerrillaSodomite said. I think you're making this all about you when they are more interested in making it about each other.

probally the best advice someone has ever given to me.

i dont pretend to know everything. i know i have alot of learning to do and alot of growing up. i just needed an unbiased place to get someone elses. opinion. i geuss i could have done a better job at leaking vehemence with what i posted though.

Sounds like twothingsism.

sounds kinda bad, but this how my bf and i met.

he was one of my ex's ex. met at his birthday, and the interest was not based on any other feelings or emotions other than we liked each other.

it's a small gay world sometimes.

Your 20, how many ex's do you have?? LOL

I've only had one bf (no ex's) so not sure what to think. It would be interesting, however.

Hey, I've helped my exes hook up with each other (as long as they weren't LTR exes).

Just because they are exes doesn't mean that they aren't people with real feelings....