HOW SPECIAL DO YOU FEEL BEING 286 ON HIS BUDDY LIST? AND 2052 ON HIS HOT LIST?

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    Apr 10, 2009 4:44 AM GMT
    WHEN IS ENOUGH BUDS? icon_rolleyes.gif
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    Apr 10, 2009 5:12 AM GMT
    funny pictures of cats with captions ... I mean buds ... icon_redface.gif
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    Apr 10, 2009 5:13 AM GMT
    HAHAHA actually, I think this is hilarious icon_lol.gif

    I've wondered this myself. How REAL can you honestly be with 4058 friends and 765 guys hotlisted?

    Quantity over Quality ??

    Wow I sound like a hater- sorry guys. Just not my style.

    To each his own!! icon_cool.gif
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    Apr 10, 2009 5:17 AM GMT
    That's why I don't like it when people just randomly add you to a list, especially without chatting to you first.

    I'm willing to bet that most of the people here with ridiculous numbers on either list rarily keep in touch with with even half of them.

    I see a profile that has over certain amount and I instantly think the people they have on their lists are just trophies.
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    Apr 10, 2009 5:21 AM GMT
    Caslon10000 saidfunny pictures of cats with captions ... I mean buds ... icon_redface.gif


    it's "funny" things like this which keeps the stigma about black cats alive, they are the most euthanized cats in animal shelters because nobody wants them.

    this is the only cat photo i dont find cute. icon_sad.gif

    i love my MOMO she's the best (she's all black)

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    Apr 10, 2009 5:26 AM GMT
    IvesCardin08 saidHAHAHA actually, I think this is hilarious icon_lol.gif

    I've wondered this myself? How REAL can you honestly be with 4058 friends and 765 guys hotlisted.

    Quantity over Quality ??

    Wow I sound like a hater- sorry guys. Just not my style.

    To each his own!! icon_cool.gif


    "In a friend:
    Do you respect everyone regardless of how you feel or think or believe? If yes, we can be friends. I'm not too picky- friends come in all shapes and sizes!!"
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  • Rookz

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    Apr 10, 2009 5:32 AM GMT
    What's the point of this trend
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    Apr 10, 2009 5:41 AM GMT
    nv7,

    That's not fair. A real friend is very much different than an online acquaintance you buddy-listed after a week's worth of "Hey's" over msn/aol. And in all fairness, from my own experiences- people with 2 million "friends" don't have time to invest in all these friends so they don't know them very well. That's my point. Are they really Friends? A Friend is someone you keep in contact with on a regular basis or have a lot of history with.

    I stand by my profile/word- My Friends come in all shapes, sizes, ages, races, etc- it doesn't matter who you are.

    I take what you wrote as a personal attack. Seems rude. I was only asking a question and still added that I came across as a hater when I wasn't trying to be.
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    Apr 10, 2009 5:51 AM GMT
    I feel as pretty as a penny.
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    Apr 10, 2009 5:52 AM GMT
    can I stick u in my loafer?
  • nv7_

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    Apr 10, 2009 5:54 AM GMT
    IvesCardin08 saidnv7,

    That's not fair. A real friend is very much different than an online acquaintance you buddy-listed after a week's worth of "Hey's" over msn/aol. And in all fairness, from my own experiences- people with 2 million "friends" don't have time to invest in all these friends so they don't know them very well. That's my point. Are they really Friends? A Friend is someone you keep in contact with on a regular basis or have a lot of history with.

    I stand by my profile/word- My Friends come in all shapes, sizes, ages, races, etc- it doesn't matter who you are.

    I take what you wrote as a personal attack. Seems rude. I was only asking a question and still added that I came across as a hater when I wasn't trying to be.


    Actually, all I "wrote" was.... icon_cool.gif.

    If you consider icon_cool.gif a personal attack, my apologies.

    Maybe if it was changed from "buddies/friends" to "acquaintances", that would make everyone happy? icon_cool.gif
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    Apr 10, 2009 6:01 AM GMT
    nv7, my apologies. I thought you were suggesting I was being hypocritical.

    Truth be told......I was crushing hard for a guy online (I know a huge mistake, stupid me, live and learn) and he has over 2000 "friends" on his facebook. After 5 months and many times trying to meet him, I learned he wasn't real with me or many others on his profiles. I wondered if it was a sign to look out for. I'm just jaded and bitter. Again, sorry man, I misunderstood you.
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    Apr 10, 2009 6:24 AM GMT
    chaos444 said
    Caslon10000 saidfunny pictures of cats with captions ... I mean buds ... icon_redface.gif


    it's "funny" things like this which keeps the stigma about black cats alive, they are the most euthanized cats in animal shelters because nobody wants them.

    this is the only cat photo i dont find cute. icon_sad.gif

    i love my MOMO she's the best (she's all black)



    Where did you hear that statistic? I have ALWAYS wanted a black cat, and my best friend Jess feels the same way and has had two.

    I really hope it's not true. I would love to have 3 black kitties, each with different color eyes (blue, green, and yellow). icon_biggrin.gif

    As to the original post, I agree. If I see I'm on someone's hotlist, I check two things: 1. Are there less than 50 people on the hotlist, and are those people even REMOTELY attracive? 2. Do they live within any reasonable proximity to me, as in ... within the state of California? If the answer is yes, then I'll usually at least respond with a "thank you."

    Buddy lists are different. You're not going on my buddy list unless we've talked ... and I've actually enjoyed it. Lol.

    That's just how I roll, but ... to each their own. icon_rolleyes.gif
  • Rookz

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    Apr 10, 2009 6:29 AM GMT
    Let's hijack this trend with something more useful and adorable, black kittens!

  • SirEllingtonB...

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    Apr 10, 2009 6:38 AM GMT
    Personally, I add people to my HotList either because I think they're wicked HAWT, have sweet profiles, or would like to work to look like they are - kind of like a bookmarking system of sorts. icon_smile.gif

    RuggerATX saidI feel as pretty as a penny.


    you ARE as pretty as a penny icon_biggrin.gif
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    Apr 10, 2009 7:01 AM GMT
    The people on my hotlist are just that...guys I think are hot for one reason or another, but the guys on my buddy list are guys I have chatted, emailed, responded with in forums, etc.-communicated with on a regular basis. There are guys on my hotlist who get on my buddy list because of our conversations, and there are guys who have been deleted from the buddy list for various reasons as well. I am more interested in what you have to say and admittedly, I will take a look at who are on your lists to see what you think is hot as well. If I get hotlisted, oh happy day, but I am not looking to become that guy who everyone has to have on their lists. It really shouldn't be a popularity contest and I don't really think they are.
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    Apr 10, 2009 7:11 AM GMT
    I feel like only little boys need that much of anything. Pokemon - stretch Pictures, Images and Photos
  • HndsmKansan

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    Apr 10, 2009 8:27 AM GMT
    I wouldn't even think really to count how many guys someone who "hot" or "buddy" listed me has on his list. So I guess I don't have an opinion.
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    Apr 10, 2009 9:06 AM GMT
    Pokemons?
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    Apr 10, 2009 1:21 PM GMT
    Really would not care if I'm on either list. Especially if we don't even correspond with each other. Please are you kidding me. This is some straight of of grade school!
  • DiverScience

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    Apr 10, 2009 1:25 PM GMT
    hotshotcdn saidcan I stick u in my loafer?


    He'd probably rather go in your pocket...